Can't manage to get it up when alone. Only when I'm having sex with my.lady

[Weightlifter Member Find all posts View Profile Close Weightlifter]

Hey guys need some helpp,

I can't get an erection anymore when I want to jack off. I can only get hard when my woman get's me excited. I never felt the need to masturbate since I find my lady so sexy I'm more than satisfied with her sex, but I felt like masturbating again one time and I couldn't get hard.

Also important what I suffer from last month or two maybe lobger is that the size of my head decreased. When soft and when hard. Only when I'm having sex is my penis it's normal shape. Does anybody has ideas about it because it's scaring to see my penis now is quite a bit smaller when soft and the hard erections only occur during actual intercourse. The deal is I'm only 19

[Virom Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Virom]

For young men like you, it's usually a psychological problem. Now that you think and that you're worried that you're not going to get it up, you won't get it up, because you worry, you stress and you get nervous. If you watch porn you should quit it, and attempt to edge if you can, or atleast get and obtain an erection while masturbating.

[gettingintoshape Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gettingintoshape]

You need to get out of your own head. At that age you should be walking around constantly excited. Agreed on dropping the porn. I would not do anything sexual unless you are with your lady for several weeks. Sounds like you need to reboot your brain.

[Weightlifter Member Find all posts View Profile Close Weightlifter]

You need to get out of your own head. At that age you should be walking around constantly excited. Agreed on dropping the porn. I would not do anything sexual unless you are with your lady for several weeks. Sounds like you need to reboot your brain.

Yeah well that's the weird part about it. That's exactly what I did, I quitted porn never masturbate, only sex with my girl. The thing is I had it really busy last couple of months so I totally neglected PE and now I'm starting again maybe that has something to do with it because my head size also decreases so maybe the pc is too weak to pump the blood in. Tonight she's coming over so I'm going to relax and make the bed rock.

Thanks for your advice!

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

I am a big fan of helping my hubby edge physically or visually. If she is willing to help you, it can be used as a form of foreplay.

Definitely quit the porn. If you feel the need to masturbate, don't look at porn. Use your imagination and picture it.

Good luck!