Couldn't cum :((

**farhad1371** · 10-25-2014

So I tried to have sex with a girl and i couldn't to finish it and had hard time erecting even though i was on viagra (quarterer of it which was recommended by doctor) after 30 min which sucked, this is the second time that this happened to me and im so frustrated, i was wondering if you guys can help me find a solution. For a long time now ive been thinking to get phallosan cause im not happy with the size of penis either, do you guys think i should go ahead and get it cause i wanna do something about these ( not able to cum, small penis and not able to erect ) immediately and i dont wanna waste my time on exercisers, it seem like i need a lot of time touching my penis for PE which i dont have.
Also i dont think i shouldve masturbated the night before, maybe thats the problem

Thanks

**MrB8** · 10-25-2014

Lets discuss this one thing at a time.

First of all, how long have you been having difficulties getting an erection, and what is the reason behind it (since you've seen a doctor)?

How frequently do you masturbate? And how do you masturbate, do you use a tight grip and no lube?

Do you watch porn frequently, especially to get an erection during masturbation?

I think that size discussions should be postponed until we cover this first.

**not2big** · 10-25-2014

Also, why did doc prescribe Viagra.

I am older, but it find if I wait a week between orgasmic sex, I perform well.

**farhad1371** · 10-26-2014

For quite a long time now, the first time that happened was few months ago. There's one thing that i forgot to mention is that Im on a Anti depression pill which one of the side effects is to mess up with my penis lol
I've masturbate a lot recently, almost everyday for the past two weeks, before that maybe 3 times a week. I just use my hand and i dont use any lube and i always watch porn to get an erection .

Thanks for helping out

**Sexual Strat** · 10-26-2014

Get off the anti-depressants as they cause erectile dysfunction. You don't need them and could cause sexual problems that develop long term. The doctors don't tell you this. Get off them and be thankful you don't have erectile problems.

Reduce the porn too. Don't watch porn to get an erection, as it fries your dopamine receptors and your penis may get accustomed to the porn and not a real women if you start to depend on it. Find out more here yourbrainonporn.com

Get off those antidepressants.

**popol5169** · 10-26-2014

Stop wanking , stop porn.
After a while off, if you're really horny edge without ejaculating and learn to love your penis.
I agree with Mrb8, leave the size question on the side.
I wouldn't say get off the anti depressant, I'm not a doctor, but there are so many people who come here and are given anti depressant as if it were a cure in itself, or as if it were candies. Same for viagra..I digress.

**corageon** · 10-26-2014

Originally Posted by Sexual Strat

Get off the anti-depressants as they cause erectile dysfunction. You don't need them and could cause sexual problems that develop long term. The doctors don't tell you this. Get off them and be thankful you don't have erectile problems.

Reduce the porn too. Don't watch porn to get an erection, as it fries your dopamine receptors and your penis may get accustomed to the porn and not a real women if you start to depend on it. Find out more here yourbrainonporn.com

Get off those antidepressants.

Or switch to an anti depressant that doesn't mess with erectile function...wellbutrin, trazodone and remeron are generally regarded as pro sexual whereas others; namely SSRI's like prozac and zoloft are generally antisexual.

**MrB8** · 10-26-2014

Your mental health comes first, consult with your doctor, and ask him to prescribe you a different antidepressant if possible.

Then detox from porn, it really messes up your arousal mode and EQ, also it may increase your depression, the following threads will help you, give them a good read.

Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1 (Read all three parts)

Pornography Addiction

And do not masturbate excessively, better edge instead!

**mrmagoo2010** · 10-26-2014

doesnt viagra cause loss of sensitivity too?

**farhad1371** · 10-27-2014

Ok, so no masturbation and porn but what if im very horny

should i reduce my masturbation, like three times a week, cause once i tried to stop completely but i just lasted 3 months, and im gonna stop the Anti depression in few weeks time.
And also now i know %100 that the reason i couldn't finished the other day it was cause of Viagra, i lost my sensitivity completely that night, even though the girl gave me oral for like 10 min, now that i think back, i didn't feel that much. I didnt know that vigera make to lose sensitivity. That sucks, now im worried if everything is back to normal, i mean Viagra last just for few hours right? my sensitivity should be back ? so why i still kinda feel like my sensitivity is not like before ??