New Cialis user - how much control will I have?

[Eazygeezer]

Side effects for me - slightly increased heart rate, a thick head (not really a headache)

Benefits - rock hard boners whenever you need them for a couple of days and a reduced refractory period!

When weighing up the pros and cons, for me at least it's a no brainer enjoy

Its not like you have to ram it into her every time you get hard, it will go down, but the beauty of it is it soon comes back up,

[jamie812]

Side effects for me - slightly increased heart rate, a thick head (not really a headache)

Benefits - rock hard boners whenever you need them for a couple of days and a reduced refractory period!

When weighing up the pros and cons, for me at least it's a no brainer enjoy

Its not like you have to ram it into her every time you get hard, it will go down, but the beauty of it is it soon comes back up,

Thanks.

I'm hoping I don't get too flushed. That would be embarrassing. I guess I'll find that out when I test it on my own first.

[corageon]

Thanks.

I'm hoping I don't get too flushed. That would be embarrassing. I guess I'll find that out when I test it on my own first.

Cialis is MUCH lighter on the flushing and side-effects than short duration pills like Viagra and Levitra - and no it doesn't just give you a hard on at any time ------ it's only supposed to do this when you are actually aroused --- don't worry about it too much ---- as far as orgasms....you may be able to last a little longer but in my experience that's a good thing and it will strengthen orgasms, generally, as long as you execute a little self-control on yourself ----- it's all about technique but since you have an understanding lady - then you shouldn't be too worried!

I would have to agree with the 10mg dosage if your case is PSYCHOGENIC (mental;anxiety induced) - because 5mg usually isn't enough to counter the adrenaline from anxiety - for some fellas 20mg isn't even enough if the anxiety is severe enough!!!

Again, don't worry about this - worrying will kill the mood and probably the wood too!

Just think about how she is understanding and how attractive she is and don't worry about said "inconveniences" because EVEN IF YOU GET A WOOD BEFORE THE TIME this is still far better than halfway or not at all!

That's the way you should look at it brother!

Well, good luck to you and enjoy!

You can also PM me if you have any questions!

~Corageon~

[jamie812]

Cialis is MUCH lighter on the flushing and side-effects than short duration pills like Viagra and Levitra - and no it doesn't just give you a hard on at any time ------ it's only supposed to do this when you are actually aroused --- don't worry about it too much ---- as far as orgasms....you may be able to last a little longer but in my experience that's a good thing and it will strengthen orgasms, generally, as long as you execute a little self-control on yourself ----- it's all about technique but since you have an understanding lady - then you shouldn't be too worried!

I would have to agree with the 10mg dosage if your case is PSYCHOGENIC (mental;anxiety induced) - because 5mg usually isn't enough to counter the adrenaline from anxiety - for some fellas 20mg isn't even enough if the anxiety is severe enough!!!

Again, don't worry about this - worrying will kill the mood and probably the wood too!

Just think about how she is understanding and how attractive she is and don't worry about said "inconveniences" because EVEN IF YOU GET A WOOD BEFORE THE TIME this is still far better than halfway or not at all!

That's the way you should look at it brother!

Well, good luck to you and enjoy!

You can also PM me if you have any questions!

~Corageon~

Thanks for the advice!

I'll start with a 10mg I guess and I'll do my best to enjoy the moment and not think too much about the actual plumbing itself working. I think that's what happened last time - we were both trying so hard to make it, well, hard, and the more I tried the more it seemed to fail.

I know Cialis is only supposed to do work when I'm actually aroused - that's what I'm nervous about - I'm always aroused mentally when I'm next to her, and she gives me goosebumps just from her cuddling, which makes me wonder if I'm going to be hard most of the night on and off. But again, I guess that's better than not being hard when I need it.

I'm a bit worried about priapism because I read so much about it online but my doc said that's very rare.

[corageon]

Thanks for the advice!

I'll start with a 10mg I guess and I'll do my best to enjoy the moment and not think too much about the actual plumbing itself working. I think that's what happened last time - we were both trying so hard to make it, well, hard, and the more I tried the more it seemed to fail.

I know Cialis is only supposed to do work when I'm actually aroused - that's what I'm nervous about - I'm always aroused mentally when I'm next to her, and she gives me goosebumps just from her cuddling, which makes me wonder if I'm going to be hard most of the night on and off. But again, I guess that's better than not being hard when I need it.

I'm a bit worried about priapism because I read so much about it online but my doc said that's very rare.

It is rare, and unless you have sickle cell disease or some other blood cell shape / clotting disorder, I wouldn't worry about it......one thing people commonly get mixed up ---- is thinking that a long-lasting erection is bad. Couldn't be farther from the truth ----- the ONLY TIMES when it is unhealthy is if
1.) There is pain along with it.
2.) There is trapped inflow in the form of a cellular block in the manner I mentioned, such as with sickle cell disease!

Thus, if you do not have sickle cell disease, and there is NO PAIN, then there is ZERO reason to be worried about an erection lasting long...even all night, however, if there is pain or trapped inflow like with sickle cell disease, or if you have blood platelet disorders, or vericose veins.....then you may have reason to be worried.

[sexmaster]

well, why not just tell her you want to cuddle and not have sex (as you did many times before) and this way you take off the pressure. But if you have a great EQ, you may change plans

[jamie812]

well, why not just tell her you want to cuddle and not have sex (as you did many times before) and this way you take off the pressure. But if you have a great EQ, you may change plans

Actually, this isn't a bad idea. Usually we just start cuddling anyways and then the last couple times it took off from there, so maybe I should just start things out as we normally do and if I become excited I'm sure she might be interested in going from there.

[not2big]

not2big, and how are you working on improving your ED? Do you have any exercises aimed at it? what was the best?

My ED is a result of over 20 years as a diabetic, somewhat uncontrolled in the early years.

i have found that pulse pumping and jelqing helps to a point. I also find that l-arginine helps blood flow and can generate a semi. However, if I want a full erection, I need to either pump and slip on a tight constriction band or inject Trimix.

Hey Jamie!

Cialis only works with visual, mental or physical stimulation. It does not generate a spontaneous erection. If you do not want an erection, Cialis will not generate an erection without stimulation.

[jamie812]

Cialis only works with visual, mental or physical stimulation. It does not generate a spontaneous erection. If you do not want an erection, Cialis will not generate an erection without stimulation.

That's what I gather. My concern is just that the way she likes to cuddle and caress is very stimulating, even when we're not trying anything sexual - and I have a feeling that when I'm on Cialis, just lying beside her and her touching and caressing me in a non-sexual way will probably be enough to keep me with an erection all night, wanted or not. Before and after we have some fun, I'm sure she will be in the mood to just cuddle for a while, but if just her caressing me is enough to get me horny again (which is likely), then I'll be laying there hard when she's just trying to cuddle. I worry that could get awkward.

[gerg]

That's what I gather. My concern is just that the way she likes to cuddle and caress is very stimulating, even when we're not trying anything sexual - and I have a feeling that when I'm on Cialis, just lying beside her and her touching and caressing me in a non-sexual way will probably be enough to keep me with an erection all night, wanted or not. Before and after we have some fun, I'm sure she will be in the mood to just cuddle for a while, but if just her caressing me is enough to get me horny again (which is likely), then I'll be laying there hard when she's just trying to cuddle. I worry that could get awkward.

I sure wish I had your problem. You're really over thinking this. Just enjoy !