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    Wassup everyone

    Just a little about me:

    I first started edging about a year and a half ago. I came upon it by myself (as in I didn't find out about it by using the internet etc) and obviously its a very enjoyable thing to do and some people say doing it after a PE session will help with gains.

    Now, I used to watch porn A LOT (watched it consistently from age 14 to 19) and because of the edging that went with it, I would have sessions lasting anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hours (my penis was actually swollen the day after that session). I only had sex for the first time about 2 months ago, and it was a mind blowing experience as I found it hard to get an erection even though I found the girl very attractive, so I knew I had to change things.

    I cut out the porn and lasted about 3 weeks without it before I had about 2 weeks of solid porn use. One of the scary things is that during that 2 weeks I watched very few porn videos but came across something that I hadn't really used before: Porn GIF blogs and compilations. This stuff was even worse than watching porn videos because it was just constant clips of the most stimulating parts of porn which was killing my real life sexual desire even more.

    I also had some really poor sexual encounters during that 2 week period and again, I knew I had to give that shit up. So I have not watched any porn in 32 days. I'll admit I have seen one or 2 thumbnail sized explicit pics on ads etc, but only briefly.

    So, background done, here is what this thread is really about.

    I used to be able to edge for hours while watching porn, but now without it I can't go nearly as long. If I'm in the mood then maybe up to 15 minutes, but if I'm trying to force an edging session after a PE workout, then maybe only 5-10 minutes which isn't very long at all.

    During an edging session, if I start to go soft after 5-10 minutes, ill then increase my grip and go harder to get back the erection which can sometimes take several minutes. Doing this forced erection stuff seems to subconsciously kill my sexual desire and stamina. Obviously increasing my grip into a sort of death grip is disastrous for real life sex and combining that with the less sexual desire means I'm destined to fail.

    I was thinking of literally just doing a few "edges" (about 3) to get the best erection I can get, using my bathmate, and then doing nothing more in terms of edging etc. I would like to try this for a few weeks to see what comes of it.

    The weird things is, I'm 19 and my hormones still feel all over the place, and I get horny a lot. It's just that if I'm horny and then decide to edge, I can't last very long (<15mins). So it's like I'm super jacked up to have sex with a girl, but then after a short time I can't perform.

    Any one had similar experiences to this?

    Thanks,

    Zeds
    Start-30/Oct/2014
    6.9 BPEL, 5.5 MEG
    06/April/2015
    7.78 BPEL, 6.0 MEG
    16/Aug/2015
    7.97 BPEL, 6.0 MEG, 6.44 BEG
    Run when you can. Walk if you have to. Dammit, crawl if you must, but NEVER give up.
    The Log of Zeds: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...-log-zeds.html

  • #2
    Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

    Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

    Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

    Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

    The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1 (Read all three parts)

    No, edging is not bad, but porn is.

    Quit porn, the content not the media, a GIF, still pictures, animations, videos, audios, etc., you name it, all sorts of porn regardless of how you receive it just numbs your imagination and messes your perception.

    Luckily, it is reversible, the links above will help you not only identify the issue but more importantly help you fight it and win.


    Good luck!
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      Ok I've started to do something a bit different from what I previously did which was just solid edging for how ever many minutes.

      Now, between each edge, I'm doing 10 kegels and I feel like I can stay hard for an infinite amount of time. Also, I haven't been doing that many kegels in my routine so far, so I think this will really help.

      Last night I kept going and going for an hour and had to force myself to stop. I must have done easily over 1000 kegels! Awesome! Feeling it today though so definitely taking a day off.
      Start-30/Oct/2014
      6.9 BPEL, 5.5 MEG
      06/April/2015
      7.78 BPEL, 6.0 MEG
      16/Aug/2015
      7.97 BPEL, 6.0 MEG, 6.44 BEG
      Run when you can. Walk if you have to. Dammit, crawl if you must, but NEVER give up.
      The Log of Zeds: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...-log-zeds.html

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      • #4
        If you are doing that amount of kegel you need to do rk.

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        • #5
          Could someone please check that I'm edging correctly. I've read Edging 101 but am still unsure. This is what I do:

          I sit down and start masturbating (I don't really use lube for this).
          When I feel like I'm about to ejaculate, I stop and let the feeling subside.
          I then start masturbating again until I get the feeling to ejaculate again etc.
          Sometimes the time between each feeling of ejaculation can be as little as 2 seconds, so I hope you can see that this is very intense.

          The reason I am confused is because people say that when they first start edging, they can only 'last' 10-15 minutes. 'Last' in what way? If they mean before they blow their load, then surely they could just stroke more slowly to prevent them from ejaculating?

          I get the idea for some reason that they mean it takes 10-15 minutes for them to initially get to the feeling of ejaculation/PONR, so they must be masturbating really slowly (which would require lube) for a long time.

          Please clarify.

          Thanks,

          Zeds
          Start-30/Oct/2014
          6.9 BPEL, 5.5 MEG
          06/April/2015
          7.78 BPEL, 6.0 MEG
          16/Aug/2015
          7.97 BPEL, 6.0 MEG, 6.44 BEG
          Run when you can. Walk if you have to. Dammit, crawl if you must, but NEVER give up.
          The Log of Zeds: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...-log-zeds.html

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          • #6
            Bump
            Start-30/Oct/2014
            6.9 BPEL, 5.5 MEG
            06/April/2015
            7.78 BPEL, 6.0 MEG
            16/Aug/2015
            7.97 BPEL, 6.0 MEG, 6.44 BEG
            Run when you can. Walk if you have to. Dammit, crawl if you must, but NEVER give up.
            The Log of Zeds: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...-log-zeds.html

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            • #7
              10 to 15 minutes for the whole session not just the initial PONR.

              Take your time, and start with slow strokes, vary between fast and slow, and allow some time for the urge to ejaculate to subside before you resume stimulation.

              Edging takes time, you can't expect to last 20 minutes in only a few sessions, you are reprogramming your body and brain. Try to focus on the sensations and forget about the orgasm, learn how your body reacts, what happens, discover your arousal cycle to be able to control the whole process, and be patient.

              Also, I recommend that you use lube.
              A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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