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    I'm 20,5 years old and I started watching porn since I was 13-14...I never knew it was harming me till I found out about PE (god bless you all). I found that with porn, masturbation was mord intense and easy, so I never thought of masturbation without it...I just wanted it quick...the worst thing is that after so many years I trained myself in a way that I was opening a porn video, I reached to PONR from the first 30 seconds, and I stayed at PONR for +15 minutes, and also used the "deathgrip" all the time...

    So, yesterday, after two weeks without porn and also some PE, I tried to edge, but I noticed something...If I didn't go extreme speed or if I didn't grip it tight, I wouldn't be able to ejaculate...I tried a little fast with light grip and I did stroke from the base to the glans (glans included), but I couldn't...I had to grip tight, go even faster and also stroke only the glans because I feel almost nothing to the rest of my penis...

    The sadest thing is that my libido is really high after 2 weeks without porn, I get erections (even though not ROCK-hard) throughout the day, but I can't ejaculate if I don't do "my tricks". And when I want to masturbate, when I try the "right way" (normal grip, stroking all the penis from the base, etc.), I kinda crave to stimulate my glans only in an intensive way, since I almost feel nothing anymore with the "right way"

    And by the way, even though I'm very horny and I get an erection in a random time of the day, it still isn't really hard if I don't stimulate the glans

    So, how can I heal my penis from that disgusting "sickness"? Need help !!!

  • #2
    Congrats on quitting porn!

    Yes, you can, it is normal for your libido and EQ to fluctuate, as your brain needs time to reboot from porn mode to regular mode, during this time, you may have some problems, but rest assured that they will be gone once your reboot/detox is complete, keep up the strong will and be patient, you are on your way to recovery!


    Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

    Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

    The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      You have bad habits, they will take a while to get kicked out, but you will succeed over time.
      Don't go back to porn, but let yourself release once in a while , it's healthy. Have a look at ballooning, you will be stimulating your glans but in a much different (opposite) manner.
      https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...a-jelqing.html

      Quality jelqs / Moving squeezes

      Off to the real world.

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      • #4
        Have you tried Ap90?

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        • #5
          Dear wiseman, you are healing yourself. Stay strong brother. You can do it. Dont fall into bad masturbation habits, but instead keep training your mind and penis in the direction you want to go. Keep it up.
          ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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          • #6
            Nerd-since-92 I think I got to a point where I don't need porn anymore, I think this problem is kinda solved...the worst issue is that I don't feel much even with stimulation (except the glans)...

            Mrb8

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            • #7
              Damn I didnt finish my last post and I dont know how I can edit or delete it from my phone...i will post when i get back home from my pc...thank you all for your advices...so I see actually time is my healer, and also I should try to somehow "control my mind" in some way...and btw popol I'll check out that ballooning method and I'll tell you how it worked for me...

              Huh, guys your posts are really motivational...it was such a psychological boost to keep going on...

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