Anyone else had this problem?
This might be perfectly normal. Maybe its just me having WAY to high expectations of myself to be able to perform, any time any place.
Anyways, so today I had breakfast, went to the gym for about 2 hours, had my protein shake, went home, had a protein bar, did 2 sets of 20 min heavy hanging and 2 sets of 10 min pumping, took a shower and then I did something that some of you might think makes me a despicable human being, but I dont care. There is a thai masseuse that I visit sometimes that offers services ranging from normal massage to full out sex. I usually go for the latter. I did not feel particularly horny today, if anything I felt tired, especially down there, but since it is my day off work I thought that I really should "do it" just because I have the time and because sex is sex and why should I turn down sex when its there?
But, I had a bit of a hard time getting erect, and it was not a OMGWTF hard-on, but more of a "ok it works" hard-on. When we are doing it, I feel that I am close to cumming way to fast so I ask her to slow down a little (shes on top). So she slows down and the urge to cum goes away, BUT...I feel that as we continue doing it that I start going soft, and for the rest of the sex I only barely have a working erection, sometimes it dies off completely, and it takes me forever to finally cum.
My question is if this is normal? Am I having way to high expectations of myself, or would most healthy males be able to perform at 100%? I am 33 years old if that matters. Thanks!
