Randomly Stopped

[vitafuse]

I am a healthy, active 23 year old. Two weeks ago I randomly couldn't get aroused when with my girlfriend. Ever since, I haven't gotten morning wood or an erection without physical contact. This is very abnormal for me. I am not sure what the problem is and am looking for information that may help. Thanks.

[MrB8]

to the Gym!



Anxiety? If you are stressed, or worried or even worse, constantly evaluating your "performance" this makes it hard for your penis to "work", it doesn't like being monitored, it just wants to have fun.

Are there any lifestyle changes you made lately?


Just relax and stop wrorrying, it will get back to normal, if you are interested in PE exercises to improve your penile health, increase your EQ and some size gains bonus, don't miss this thread!!!

Mental PE - Creating The Right Mindset

And if you haven't already done so, check the links on the navigation bar at the top of the page especially the START HERE Thread and focus on safety, you only have one penis, take good care of it.

Pick one of the manual beginner routines and follow it for at least 90 days to condition your penis, or until you stop gaining. Most members here choose JP90, it is an intense routine, start slow, and build up to the full routine over a few weeks time, jelq with an erection level between 45% and 65% using a moderate grip, just enough to move blood up the shaft and to the glans.



Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!


Frequently Asked PE Questions and Topics


What to Expect....A Beginner's Guide



Good luck on your PE journey, PE safely!

[vitafuse]

There is a bit of stress in my life. But no sexual anxiety, until recent when I have had trouble getting up and staying up. Weeks a go I'd get hard just laying around and now nothing. If I have an erection it's mot 100% and will literally go down within seconds of not touching it. This change literally happened in a single instance and now I am concerned my sex life is in jeopardy.

[vitafuse]

I should also add that before this me and my partner have had very fulfilling and long lasting sex.

[Cavalier]

I don't think there is anything to be concerned about. If you are able to get an erection then that is a good sign. Your biggest problem right now is worrying too much about it, that in itself can cause performance anxiety. If you start to focus too much about keeping an erection and less on what has aroused you in the first place, then it starts to spiral downhill from there. Just relax and enjoy the sex you have with your girlfriend.

[closed224]

It does sound like anxiety of some sort. Are you having trouble with your girlfriend. You say it was all of a sudden. Was there any sort of triggering event?