She on top

[dunnolol Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dunnolol]

Hard to keep erection when she is on top and grinding. Other positions are fine. As well cant feel anything when she grinding, need the in and out motion for stimulation guess. She loves this position since she can cum easiest from it. Now are there tricks that I could use to keep hard. Think part is as well I try to determine how hard I am during sex since I cant feel much in this position, little buddy goes to sleep. Not very sensitive (death grip) wich is good since I can last long time but in some position like this one I go limp. Want to change that. Help plz!!!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I've had this happen to me,too. Cowgirl grinding can get a little boring for guys, but all girls seem to love it. My solution to jazz up stimulation was to hang my ass off the side of the bed, feet planted firmly on the floor. Let her mount the bull (best if she's facing away from me, but can be done with her facing you) and her feet are also on floor outside yours. This variation allows much greater visual stimulation for you, allowing thrusting deeply, while she does the barrel races. She can also stimulate your balls with her hands (which I love!) easily in this position. Try it-I bet you'll both like it!

[PatheticMedic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PatheticMedic]

I usually thrust my pelvis upwards, this way not all the pressure is coming down on my body and she has to move up and down a little more. By lifting, she has to use a variation of up/down and back/forth- thus creating more stimulation for you and she still gets the grind. It may take a little longer for her to reach the O, but at least you will stay up and reach your O as well!

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

Sigh. I too have experienced this. In fact, my first sexual partner insisted on being on top the first few times. Then she felt bad because she couldn't make me cum, and she took it very personally.

It wasn't until I was on top that I could cum while having sex with her. Since then I've learned that they always want to ride the cock, and I am never really into it.

Bordom + gravity = well, exactly what should be expected. If it's truly important to the girl that she be able to ride you, that's the kind of thing cockrings are great for.

I did once have sex with a girl who was really good on top. But she was bouncing up and down like a porn star rather than grinding, and there was a lot more in and out friction involved. Every other experience was mostly grinding, which probably feels great for the girl, but unless his penis is very sensitive it's not exciting for the guy.

The feelings that losing your erection while having sex like this can cause are a whole lot of trouble on their own. It's best to avoid that situation if you can do so. At this point if a girl truly insists on being on top, I am ready to strap on a cable clamp and take a nap till she's done.