I'm 21
had my first gf at 17 and we began having sex and I noticed no matter how often we did it, I could only last 10 seconds or less sometimes
aniety began
lost all confidence, OCD took hold of anxieties and they snowballed, couldn't get an erection and when I did I barely lasted a few pumps
was 19 at this point
have tried doing stuff with other women since, always ended the same, either anxiety kicked in and couldn't get it up or prem ejaced
now 21, have had lots of opportunities, pass them up, too anxious about my inevitable performance (or lack thereof) and no sexual confidence
as soon as I get close to a woman to the point of getting sexual I push them away
lonelier than ever
21 - 'prime of my life'. I'm depressed. I'll never have a girlfriend (I'm a fun, social decent looking guy in every other aspect). Will never have a normal sex life. I'm in my prime of fertility and can't even uphold my own biological purpose.
Is there medication I can take for Prem ejac? I'm already on anxiety meds and anti depressants but it doesn't really help. Am I destined to be lonely? All my problems feed into each other and I think the problem is beyond help.
Also, when I was 17 it wasn't such a big deal, but now I'm 21 everyone EXPECTS sex. It's abnormal if you don't/can't. I'm doomed
had my first gf at 17 and we began having sex and I noticed no matter how often we did it, I could only last 10 seconds or less sometimes
aniety began
lost all confidence, OCD took hold of anxieties and they snowballed, couldn't get an erection and when I did I barely lasted a few pumps
was 19 at this point
have tried doing stuff with other women since, always ended the same, either anxiety kicked in and couldn't get it up or prem ejaced
now 21, have had lots of opportunities, pass them up, too anxious about my inevitable performance (or lack thereof) and no sexual confidence
as soon as I get close to a woman to the point of getting sexual I push them away
lonelier than ever
21 - 'prime of my life'. I'm depressed. I'll never have a girlfriend (I'm a fun, social decent looking guy in every other aspect). Will never have a normal sex life. I'm in my prime of fertility and can't even uphold my own biological purpose.
Is there medication I can take for Prem ejac? I'm already on anxiety meds and anti depressants but it doesn't really help. Am I destined to be lonely? All my problems feed into each other and I think the problem is beyond help.
Also, when I was 17 it wasn't such a big deal, but now I'm 21 everyone EXPECTS sex. It's abnormal if you don't/can't. I'm doomed
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