ed problem

**graham** · 04-04-2015

Hi im new to the site.I have been having ed problems for about 3 years now,i am 57. I remember when it all started my wife works away for two weeks at a time,this time when i collected her from the airport as i put my arms around her it felt different ,i normally feel aroused,but this time i did,nt thats how it started ,all of a sudden.Before this i was highly sexed.I am very fit ,not over weight,dont smoke or drink ,weight train 4 times a week and do cardio a couple of times a week.my doctor gave me a head scan to make sure things there where ok,my test was a bit low so i have been on trt for 3 years,This has made no difference.My blood tests have all shown that my e2, prolactin is all in range,but still i suffer from this problem. I can get an erection but when i try to have sex i lose it.Its like i dont get aroused enough.i still love my wife and find her attractive .Can anyone help me out and point me in the right direction please.

**CUSP82** · 04-04-2015

So how's the stress level been lately?

**closed224** · 04-04-2015

Did you masturbate to pornography, as a highly sexed individual?
Have you done any reverse kegels, deep flat footed squats or other pelvic floor stretches? Especially as you work out.
Also Cusps question.

**graham** · 04-04-2015

Originally Posted by CUSP82

So how's the stress level been lately?

wish it was that,i,m not, dont get stressed

**graham** · 04-04-2015

Originally Posted by wishful10x8

Did you masturbate to pornography, as a highly sexed individual?
Have you done any reverse kegels, deep flat footed squats or other pelvic floor stretches? Especially as you work out.
Also Cusps question.

yes i did get frustrated and watch porn ,but it was like someone just turned a switch to off.Even porn dosen,t get me going now.no i havent done any exercises,but i am going to start.

**CUSP82** · 04-04-2015

Okay so if a part of your body just shuts quickly off it is one of two things; a physical issue or a mental one. Now you have been checked by your doc so let's rule out the physical which leaves??? Okay your urn to talk.

**Jay1983** · 04-04-2015

Depression is a SOB. Are you depressed at all?

**graham** · 04-04-2015

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Okay so if a part of your body just shuts quickly off it is one of two things; a physical issue or a mental one. Now you have been checked by your doc so let's rule out the physical which leaves??? Okay your urn to talk.

well as i say i have had this problem for about 3 years so i have had a lot of time to think about it.One thought is i suffer from Atherosclerosis,because i can get an erection but not 100 percent hard,i have taken cialis and i can get a rock solid erection,but at times after taking cialis i still have no interest in sex,so no erection.The other thing is because i was so into sex and my wife was shall we say normal, i was always being turned away ,put off,i used to get very frustrated and wish that i was not so highly sexed,well they say be carfull what you wish for because now thats what has happened.I used to try and suppress my sex drive.so maybe i,ve tured it off myself,if that is the case how can i turn it back on.

**graham** · 04-04-2015

i,m at a loss,because i still fancy my wife ,but nothing happens

**CUSP82** · 04-04-2015

Okay so it's a bit mental. Hey it happens. One night you're not at your best and it snowballs from there. I will pm you in a day or 2 when I have more time but in the meantime go look at the beginners section. Try doing a bit of light stretching and jelqing; easy,light stuff, no more than 5 minutes. You'll be fine.