I did a NoFap challenge on reddit and was clean (PMO-free) for 9 months. For a while things were going well - ED was better and sex life increased, so much so that the wife got pregnant.
I'm still porn-free but I fapped once about 2 weeks ago because my libido was so low, like never before in my life. Nothing turns me on, at all. My wife is hot and has big boobs, nice ass, and I love her. Last time we tried to have sex was a hilarious mess.
And now I'm a hilarious mess. My ED is back pretty much worse than it ever was, and my libido has tanked. I don't want to blame NoFap, but I'm making this connection. At least when I jerked off and watched porn, I was fairly sexual. Some days (like today) I just want to go back to my old days in order to feel "normal".
I also have pretty bad anxiety and deal with depression, but I think I'm depressed because of the low libido and ED, which causes more depression, and more ED, and performance anxiety. I am seriously at my wit's end.
I have tried some supplements and they don't seem to do shit: Damiana, Maca, Ginko, L-Arginine+Pycnogenol, Vitamins (all the letters in the alphabet). They seem to be either all snake oil or placebos.
I used to be a pretty active member on pegym but I lost/forgot my account info...anyway I've always gotten solid advice from you guys in the past, any words of hope would really help out now. This is consuming my life and I am truly desperate for answers. Thanks for letting me share...
I'm still porn-free but I fapped once about 2 weeks ago because my libido was so low, like never before in my life. Nothing turns me on, at all. My wife is hot and has big boobs, nice ass, and I love her. Last time we tried to have sex was a hilarious mess.
And now I'm a hilarious mess. My ED is back pretty much worse than it ever was, and my libido has tanked. I don't want to blame NoFap, but I'm making this connection. At least when I jerked off and watched porn, I was fairly sexual. Some days (like today) I just want to go back to my old days in order to feel "normal".
I also have pretty bad anxiety and deal with depression, but I think I'm depressed because of the low libido and ED, which causes more depression, and more ED, and performance anxiety. I am seriously at my wit's end.
I have tried some supplements and they don't seem to do shit: Damiana, Maca, Ginko, L-Arginine+Pycnogenol, Vitamins (all the letters in the alphabet). They seem to be either all snake oil or placebos.
I used to be a pretty active member on pegym but I lost/forgot my account info...anyway I've always gotten solid advice from you guys in the past, any words of hope would really help out now. This is consuming my life and I am truly desperate for answers. Thanks for letting me share...
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