30 year old worried about ED

**Bossbob** · 06-23-2015

I'm 30 years old, and I've been addicted to porn for a very long time now. Pretty much every day sometimes twice a day for the past 3 years now strictly watching porn. I haven't had sex in about 2 years now. This last time I had sex was with a escort which was a awful experience for me never had being been with one before. I was able to receive an erection with oral, but when I went to penetrate I immediately went limp. Went back to oral couldn't not finish and that was that.

I haven't been with a woman since then about 2 years now and my porn addiction has greatly increased. Reading a little bit on this forum I know that this is my problem. I've decided I'm gonna try to quit, but last time I did this I made a week and started back up again worse than before.

I was wondering anyone who has any advice on quitting porn addiction, will I be able to get my erections back naturally? I'm sure I'm gonna be having sex this weekend for the first time in about 2 years , and I am terrified I won't be able to perform. I know I can get an erection my issue is maintaining it through sex. I won't have masturbated to porn for one week by the time this weekend rolls around I hope it helps.

Anything else I can do to help me get a worry free erection this weekend?

**Frog** · 06-23-2015

Please start here... This will help and remember, you are not alone!
https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...highlight=porn

**closed224** · 06-23-2015

Dear Bossbob, thanks for asking. Definitely take Frogs advice and join us on the Anti Porn 90 day challenge. Yes you can reboot your mind from over use of porn. If it is not long enough when you have sex this weekend don't be discouraged. Just keep working to reboot your mind by avoiding porn. Erase any porn you have stored on your computer, and block porn so you are not accidentally tempted. If the urge is strong go do something outside, or away from computer and phone. Talk to us over at the AP90 thread. Do anything except give into the temptation.
During sex don't worry about performance. Just enjoy your time.
Will this time be with an escort again?

**Bossbob** · 06-23-2015

Hey guys thanks for the advice defiantly looking to take this challenge. I'm really sick of porn, and it's just something I do out of boredom it seems. I need to block all the temptations of it so I dont relapse back.

This weekend won't be with a escort, it will be with a woman I met. I don't think I could ever do escort again the whole paying for sex was mentally not good for me. I've never had problem getting with woman in my earlier 20s, and that was the first time I had paid to be with someone.

Hopefully I can perform this weekend. Either way I'm still gonna stick to the no porn after.

**Cavalier** · 06-23-2015

Welcome Bossbob.

Your worries and anxiety of maintaining an erection will only make it worse. When you begin to focus too much on keeping an erection you loose focus on what has made you aroused in the first place, the pleasure of sex with the beautiful girl that is right there in front of you. Try to keep your mind on how amazing it feels to be inside of a girl for the fist time in two years. Enjoy every part of her body, to touch, caress and the feel of a real girl, not something on the computer screen. Toss your worries aside and just enjoy it.

**Bossbob** · 06-29-2015

Hey guys thanks for all the advice, this weekend went amazing. I was able to perform great! Although couldn't keep a rock hard erection(probably more had to do with the girl then me) the entire time I definitely got the job done. I'm keeping strong on having 0 porn in my life. Today has been one week without porn and my penis feels great. Mentally and physically for me no porn is doing wonders for me.

If I do masturbate it will be with my mind only! No porn!