Hello everyone… first time poster and hoping for some advice. Might be a long post.
I started PE few months ago… semi-irregular routine with jelqs and stretching. EQ has improved (until recently) and maybe some length gains (measurement method has evolved so tough to confirm actual).
My story/problem
Met a women and had a different experience then I’m accustom to… basically she’s a horny MILF that really wanted my dick. Typically, I have been the pursuer having to woo a new women’s clothes off, so this was new territory and made me a little unsure of wanting to go fwd. Anyway, due to all the thinking and different situation the little guy would NOT work. Of course this was very disappointing to everyone, but the night was still an OK time.
Now I’m a little obsessed with “recovering” from this situation with her. We had a date since, but didn’t go any further cause of kids, schedule, etc. Likely we will have a chance for sex again.
Due to this situation I’ve been focusing on getting erections, which are more difficult to obtain now… likely due to all the thought. I’m interested what the more experienced guys would do in this situation.
When we get together again is TBD and could be suddenly. So my routine now is:
Light PE, as I want to rested and ready.
Ballooning… thought is that it will make me hornier, but overall I’m less horny since the incident.
I know the best plan is to NOT THINK ABOUT IT… but that’s pretty impossible now.
How would you handle the time before another date?
And how would you handle the bedroom situation, considering the past occurrence? Prob should not go fwd unless my dick is eager... to reduce potential for another disappointing situation that would cause more stress.
Not really for the ED section, but didn’t know a better forum location to post. Thanks for any advice!
I started PE few months ago… semi-irregular routine with jelqs and stretching. EQ has improved (until recently) and maybe some length gains (measurement method has evolved so tough to confirm actual).
My story/problem
Met a women and had a different experience then I’m accustom to… basically she’s a horny MILF that really wanted my dick. Typically, I have been the pursuer having to woo a new women’s clothes off, so this was new territory and made me a little unsure of wanting to go fwd. Anyway, due to all the thinking and different situation the little guy would NOT work. Of course this was very disappointing to everyone, but the night was still an OK time.
Now I’m a little obsessed with “recovering” from this situation with her. We had a date since, but didn’t go any further cause of kids, schedule, etc. Likely we will have a chance for sex again.
Due to this situation I’ve been focusing on getting erections, which are more difficult to obtain now… likely due to all the thought. I’m interested what the more experienced guys would do in this situation.
When we get together again is TBD and could be suddenly. So my routine now is:
Light PE, as I want to rested and ready.
Ballooning… thought is that it will make me hornier, but overall I’m less horny since the incident.
I know the best plan is to NOT THINK ABOUT IT… but that’s pretty impossible now.
How would you handle the time before another date?
And how would you handle the bedroom situation, considering the past occurrence? Prob should not go fwd unless my dick is eager... to reduce potential for another disappointing situation that would cause more stress.
Not really for the ED section, but didn’t know a better forum location to post. Thanks for any advice!
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