Partner can not get erection even on Cialis

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han a minute
My partner is 50. We have recently got together after a 20 year absence. We Iive half way around the world from each other. Before I caught up with him the first time he mentioned to me he had problems with ED and was taking Cialis. This had been happening for the last 15 years in his life. When I saw him for the first time, he was able to achieve erections with no problem but had difficulty ejaculating. He did a couple of times with a lot of help from me. Forward 5 months and we catch up again and this time he could not achieve any erection whatsoever even though he was still taking the Cialis. I tried everything with no luck. I felt so sad for him. It was very distressing for both of us. He is the most considerate lover and made our time together very pleasurable for me. It just sucked that he couldn't get any pleasure at all, although he did say he did enjoy the copious amounts of attention I have to him. I love him with all my heart and this doesn't affect our relationship in anyway, in fact I probably love him more. Has anyone else had this experience with their man? Does it get better? Please keep in mind he does drink more than he should because he's lonely without me, also in the past he visited strip joints and still watches porn occasionally. Not sure if he's had prostitutes or not, could have done 20+ years ago as he was in the navy, I wouldn't be surprised if he still does. I just want him to enjoy sex again (and me too)

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Does he know about this site and the help and advice he can get here?

[namsokiek Banned Find all posts View Profile Close namsokiek]

I'm sorry to hear about your troubles and your partner's problems.

There are many members on this site who joined because they had erectile dysfunction and they found that performing penis exercises improved blood flow into the penis and eventually enabled them to achieve an erection. Lookin4more was in this situation and by following a dedicated routine he recovered from ED.

You might consider doing some research, find these members' stories, perhaps send them a private message, and then talk to your partner. Explain that you was concerned because he appeared upset about his ED and found this site. Talk about the stories of individuals you read here and encourage him to investigate for himself.

Good Luck.

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han a minute
My partner is 50. We have recently got together after a 20 year absence. We Iive half way around the world from each other. Before I caught up with him the first time he mentioned to me he had problems with ED and was taking Cialis. This had been happening for the last 15 years in his life. When I saw him for the first time, he was able to achieve erections with no problem but had difficulty ejaculating. He did a couple of times with a lot of help from me. Forward 5 months and we catch up again and this time he could not achieve any erection whatsoever even though he was still taking the Cialis. I tried everything with no luck. I felt so sad for him. It was very distressing for both of us. He is the most considerate lover and made our time together very pleasurable for me. It just sucked that he couldn't get any pleasure at all, although he did say he did enjoy the copious amounts of attention I have to him. I love him with all my heart and this doesn't affect our relationship in anyway, in fact I probably love him more. Has anyone else had this experience with their man? Does it get better? Please keep in mind he does drink more than he should because he's lonely without me, also in the past he visited strip joints and still watches porn occasionally. Not sure if he's had prostitutes or not, could have done 20+ years ago as he was in the navy, I wouldn't be surprised if he still does. I just want him to enjoy sex again (and me too)

Since he is getting older his T levels are likely declining; you should tell him to check testosterone levels and look into methods of increasing testosterone levels. Either by hormone replacement therapy or by herbal methods like tongkat ali extract .

Also, his drinking may be affecting his motor skills and coordination - even if it isn't affecting his sex drive it can still affect erectile ability. Alcohol consumption, in excess, prevents the breakdown of the female hormone estrogen - thus leading to estrogen dominance...and neurologically, alcohol also dulls the nerves so for older guys it is especially dangerous to circulation and neural function to drink even moderate amounts.

I recommend he see a Doc about this issue - and consider this type of supplement after checking his hormone levels... Tongkat Ali 1:200 (200:1) Sumatra Pasak Bumi - Barlowes Herbal Elixirs

He should also check his liver panels/liver function test - after years of drinking this may be a seeping issue.

[Saskman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saskman]

i agree with corrageon, low testosterone is a common symptom of those who do not respond to pde5 drugs.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

A visit to the doc should definitely be on the top of the list. Google docs in your area who treat male sexual dysfunction.

Second on the list should be a visit to franktalk.org, a forum dedicated to help guys with erectile dysfunction.

[Jackxxx Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Jackxxx]

Needs blood tests to determine hormonal production. Stay away from drugs and medications as much as possible. Although natural testosterone levels decline with age, is not normal to not achieve an erection at 50.
Is he on stain drugs? (cholesterol medications)

[PE Evolution Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE Evolution]

Your partner should take alot of natural aphrodisiacs/herbs instead and avoid erectile dysfunction medicines.

Your partner should do a jelqing and heavy kegels routine. Kegels workout ur pc muscles and pelvic floor which will thwart ed and force blood into penis. This is the most natural penis enlargement excercise and erectile dysfunction cure so tell ur partner to Kegel up

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

i agree with corrageon, low testosterone is a common symptom of those who do not respond to pde5 drugs.

Yes, or too much adrenaline...but since testosterone improves nitric oxide release - generally having high test levels should enable erections and help blunt adrenaline's effects on erections..but it depends on the metabolites of testosterone; namely the levels of estrogen and DHT. Too much estrogen kills erections and too little DHT also does the same...on the flip side -- extremely rabid levels of DHT coupled with low E2 can also cause the same issue, but the pathology and psychological manifestations are totally different...e.g high estrogen causes emotional lability, mania, and some forms of anxiety and such... low estro just kills your libido and makes you feel foggy and irritable...

[Hiplainsdrifter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hiplainsdrifter]

I can speak from experience. I'm 50 and experienced ED for the first time last year with a new girl. It freaked me out. I drank too much but I never had the problem before. I got a script for Viagra and never looked back. It works better than Cialis ( if used properly).

The first thing I did was checked out by the doc. Eliminate any physical causes ( diabetes, heart problems, T levels) etc. I checked out give and I'm in good shape. I realized then that it mostly psychological. At age 50 though, I can tell you that I have rare spontaneous erections and my elections without VIAGRA are not quite as hard or long lasting. I need more stimulation.

I could get by without Viagra, but I love using it now for the improved rtection quality and ability to get off two or three times. I could also last an hour or more, but my GF gets sore ): I wish I had this stuff 30 years ago ...

Have him get checked out ....and try done V