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    Hi
    I'm 18 years old and got a girlfriend about 3 months ago. we both have never had sex before. Anyway, 3 weeks ago i started to only get semi erection, and not fully hard, and i get erection less frequent now than before. i don't watch a lot of porn, maybe once a week. I used to masturbate like once a day before i got a girlfriend, and it has just become less frequent, now maybe once every 2-3 days.
    I have no idea what the problem is. If i actually try, i can get a semi erect quite easy, for example if i am kissing my girlfriend or touching her with my penis with clothes on. I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but i just recently noticed som dark/brown spots on my penis, kinda like those u can get by satying much in the sun.

    Please i really need help
    Jimmykolan
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    Last edited by Jimmykolan; 01-06-2016, 07:51 AM.

  • #2
    At 18 years old I really suggest you scheduling an appointment with a physician. He may refer you to a urologist so I wouldn't waste any time and do it sooner than later.
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    • #3
      How much sex are you having?

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      • #4
        ok, so i know think the problem is that im not so horny anymore. Before 2-3 months ago i used to get several random boners through the day, but now i maybe get a really soft one(like 20%) if i think hard about sexually things.

        Anyway, i tried to masturbate yesterday for the first time in 4 days, and i got the boner pretty easy and it was quite hard(like 90-95%). And today i tried again and same thing happened, as soon as i started touching and rubbing my penis, it got really hard.

        I don't know if this is normal or what, maybe my hormones are messing up my hornyness? when i started to masturbate yesterday and today, i wasn't really feeling for it, but i just wanted to test.

        it's really weird because when my GF gave me a blowjob for the first time a few days ago, it was the best feeling ever, but it wasn't a hard boner, just like 70% maybe. She didn't do it long enough for me to cum, but still really good.

        Any explenation would be at great help


        btw, we both are virgins and haven't had sex with each other

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        • #5
          Im not expert but....
          I think you pretty much answered yourself...
          I dont think annyone has constant rock hard erections every damn time.. just depends lol..

          Myself im never rock hard.. ( 90+%...)

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          • #6
            yea maybe, but its weird how im not horny anymore so suddenly. anyway if this is the case, are there any ways to fix this? does masturbation habits affect this? do i need to think more sexual thoughts? i certainly did before.

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            • #7
              Maybe outside factors like stress are contributing to fatigue. You might try abstaining for awhile to boost your libido.
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              • #8
                Get a hormone test .
                How often are you ejaculating?

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                • #9
                  after i realized this penis problem, i ejaculate maybe 1-2 times a week. Well, im now trying to do it more often, like every second day, but i just feel like im not horny anymore.

                  Yesterday i was at my GFs house, and i got a boner when we kissed and hugged, and it went on and off for a while. But after a few hours when we were having less and less clothes on, i didn't get a boner anymore. Eventually she gave me a blowjob, but we were having some trouble getting it up, and to be honest, i didn't really feel like it. I have no idea what the problem is. I don't think its because im nervous because i kinda have the same problem alone aswell(but its a bit easier to get hard though).


                  The only changes i have done to my lifestyle when this happened was that i have started to work out.

                  ps srry for my weird english

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                  • #10
                    I agree with Big Al. I would say you're completely normal, maybe stress is causing those symptoms. Is there anything in the back of your mind? sometimes we are worried about things that we can even remember but they're still there bugging us and of course they will create those kind of symptoms.

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                    • #11
                      well, the subject sex came up a week ago when we talked. Maybe i have performance anxiety? i don't think so, but it may be a possibility.
                      Another question. Do i get more horny if i masturbate more? or does masturbation affect sex drive at all?
                      I have noticed that if i masturbate, i will get a pretty hard boner some hours later that day. And when i dont masturbate for a couple of days, i kinda feel less and less horny. maybe i need to wait even longer, i dont know.

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                      • #12
                        Get the whole thing out of your head because you are thinking way too much.Be young, have and enjoy sex, and the less you think about it the more you'll enjoy it and the better you'll be. You are making something out of nothing. I have said this before; you young guys are gonna kill me!
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                        • #13
                          Damn, when I was 18 I was rock instantly, but lasted 30 seconds. If you are not hard for a BJ, I would say something is wrong. Is there any other symptoms? Soft nipples? Weight gain? Depression? An 18 year old should be able to get hard almost instantly, but that's just my opinion.
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by dmizzle View Post
                            Damn, when I was 18 I was rock instantly, but lasted 30 seconds. If you are not hard for a BJ, I would say something is wrong. Is there any other symptoms? Soft nipples? Weight gain? Depression? An 18 year old should be able to get hard almost instantly, but that's just my opinion.
                            I think he meant like he is 70% erection which is totally fine I think...
                            And also talks abour hornyness... so like libido is lower or what

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                            • #15
                              Well, i'm definitely less horny now then i was 1-2 months ago. Back then i got several boners throughout the day, which i don't get now at all. I wanted to bang pretty much every girl i saw, and masturbated at least once a day. Now i don't get boners at all unless i really try. And i don't really feel like sex/masturbating.
                              However, sometimes when i just hug my girlfriend, i get an erection without even thinking anything sexual(not a fully hard one though, only like 60% or something).

                              And to be honest, that time i got a blowjob and didnt get so hard, i had masturbated the same day like 7 hours or something earlier.

                              I seriously don't know what the problem is. I have never experienced something like this my entire life. I don't even have morningwood anymore(only maybe a weak semi boner from time to time).

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