anxiety induced E.D and P.E? or something else

**a2796** · 05-07-2016

I used to have consistent sex, ive slept with over a dozen girls, and have always nutted quick, ive been unable to sleep with 4 other girls because of my E.D, I have anxiety, and am planning on seeking help soon and was wondering if perscription pills would help my E.D and P.E problems. When i say i nut fast i mean like under 10 seconds. alcohol helps, but too much gives me E.D as well. I dont know why i dont get aroused as easy as i think i should, i can be in the moment taking eachother clothes off and i wont be able to get hard, get lapdances from strippers or other girls? wont get me hard. its driving me nuts. but then at the same time cuddling with a girl can get me hard. Whats going on!!!

I need someone to tell me what to do!
I watch porn once a day. I generally last 15-25 minutes jerking off. but as soon as its a vagina. bam nuts in under 10 seconds.

**jockinthebox** · 05-07-2016

PIED (PORN Induced ED)...QUIT THE PORN! We see it around here all the time, particularly from younger members who've raised themselves on the internet watching PORN. It POISONS your brain for the REAL thing, makes you climax quickly and /or unable to maintain or gain an erection. Join our AP90 Group to receive help and support from others suffering from PORN addiction. It takes time and commitment, like everything in life that's beneficial for you long-term. Breathing exercises, a 60:40 K:RK routine, edging to build stamina are all part of successfully overcoming PIED. There's a lengthy process ahead for you, but you'll survive it and be successful if you're committed to it! Good Luck!

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**Saskman** · 05-08-2016

have you ever tried to ejaculate an hour or two before sex. i know it will reduce the intimacy, but it helps.

also, think of something distasteful while having sex, i find that helpful as well.

worrying about premature ejaculation will make it happen much quicker then otherwise as well.

**Hiplainsdrifter** · 05-10-2016

Regarding your ED, my advice would be to quit the porn altogether. But it does sound like you have performance anxiety because of the PE ( or something else). I met my fiancé who is super hot. I had too I've too drink and couldn't get it up our first night together. I was so much into my performance, that I petered out. Up until then, I never had a problem even when drinking. I vowed never to let it happen again and now I take Viagra, even though my ED is psychological. I told her about it and she doesn't have a problem with it at all. She says that my dick us fine without it. But I take it anyway and my erecetions went from 80 % to 90-95%. And I can nail her multiple times in one session. However, when we're hanging out on the couch with no expectations, one sensual kiss from her gets me up no problem without the drugs.

Get off the porn, get checked out by your doc, and if all OK....RELAX. In dire your physically fine.

As far as your PE, I can't help much there since I have the opposite problem. I could go an hour or never before I nut. I wish I had more sensitivity because I wear her out. I know that regular PE work does desensitize my dick quite a bit.

**TheZZMan** · 05-10-2016

but then at the same time cuddling with a girl can get me hard. Whats going on!!!

It simply means that you are relaxed, and your anxiety is at bay. Take this as a wonderful sign that if you learn to control your emotions, you can concur whatever issues you are having. Relax, be in the moment, breath deeply, feel the connection between you. Leave the over-excited school boy at home, time to enjoy sex for all the emotions that it creates between two adults, not simply worrying if you will nut or not all the time.

**Big Al** · 05-10-2016

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