This is something I think I discovered long before PE or MMO: ejaculation without loss of erection, as opposed to orgasm without ejaculation/loss of erection. This may be common knowledge, but I thought I would share it anyway.
I find it very difficult to ejaculate and completely stave off erection loss, I have only managed it once and I think I might have been practicing MMO at that time. For me it is usually a series of ejaculations shortly after one another, all leaking out without force until the final one which is the usual contracting spurt.
I tried it today and managed what felt like 4 ejaculations, but they were quite close together so it could be described as one extended ejaculation. This inspired me to search for references online and I found this thread: Multiple ejaculation secrets | His and Her Health
I also remember finding a blog of some bloke describing his experiments in multiple orgasms (And also posting videos of himself masturbating - The internet is a strange place somtimes.) He mentioned achieving multiple non-climactic ejaculations when masturbating with a full bladder.
The comment that caught my eye on that first link was this:
"The closer to orgasm by stop/starting l am, the stronger and more volume of smen is expelled. After which, no matter how hard l try, l am no longer able to reach an orgasm, being empty of all fluid, and yet remain sexually charged."
Which seems to suggest he is maintaining his erection after this phase.
I am not a good test case, because my hormones are screwed up and I am on TRT my libido, EQ etc. are all pretty weak - I lose my "sexual charge" very easily, even without orgasm. But I have never tried to go beyond the final spurting phase, it gets increasingly difficult for me to suppress the contractions with each emission. I wonder if it would be possible to use my technique to expel everything while remaining aroused.
My technique is a little different, but still pretty basic. Key notes from the earlier references are that the initial ejaculations are without force and I suppose the feeling is akin to emptying one's bladder. All I do is when I feel the urge to ejaculate, instead of allowing the contractions to force the semen out, I consciously try to relax all the muscles and I it feels a bit like trying to draw urine out for a reluctant piss. Then when I feel the semen coming out, I try to stay relaxed; after it has "oozed" out, I feel it begin again in my testicles and repeat until a contraction happens and then it's all over... I can't really say if I stop stroking since I must focus on the relaxation. My load usually seems a bit bigger, it certainly feels like it should be!
I think a problem in my technique is I sort of will the subsequent emissions until I can no longer suppress the contraction. It might be more beneficial to combine the relaxed emission with a physical or psychological method of reducing arousal (Stopping, kegeling, whatever)
I don't know if there are any hazards involved with exhausting the prostate or something? The worst I have managed is to make myself feel sick - I don't know what I overdid that time.
I did that when i was starting here, what you did was totally relax the muscles, hence not triggering the "i came now is time to go limp" mechanism. I especially remembered the "emptying of one bladder". The difference is that you are more focusing on reverse kegels, while he is more focusing on relaxation, or better yet stillness. I did that in the beginning but found it rather unpleasing, because evein if i remained hard i felt no pleasure, and there fore found no point in it.
This happens because your pelvic floor musches are not strong enough while your ability to relax (reverse kegels) are pretty strong (if they where stronger you would have delayed ejaculation, read the topic Implications for more information for this).
In general, the way i see it, expelling everything while remaining aroused is in a way a wasteful technique since it forces your body to waste to much protein in the sperm creation, it is maybe better to try and learn how to retain that sperm allowing re-absorbsion, and then at the end a final ejaculations to clear the urethra and prostate.
The fact that you felt sick is a good indicator that the technique is maybe not that beneficial, listen to your body. Of course you can't continue doing it but, if it is but to me, i would not recommend it. Instead focus more on practice-ing kegels and reverse kegels. Once you have conditioned pelvic floor muscles, maybe you could combine that technique with the regular kegel hold for dry orgasms, later on.
The point should be feeling more pleasure, rather that just staying sexually aroused with the oozing sperm.
Well this is just my opinion, other will, i hope, post theirs, because maybe i'm not seeing the whole picture.
Well you pretty much summed up my thoughts about it to be honest; I have never found it particularly fulfilling and nowhere near the level of dry orgasms. It might be something worth experimenting with every now and then, but little more it would seem. I was just intrigued by the guy who said he exhausted his supply and carried on - I had never managed to make it that far myself.
I seem to have a good natural grasp of kegels and multiple orgasm, unfortunately my hormones are letting me down at the moment so I don't know if I have regressed.
Thank you and good luck LL.
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