NOT Ujjayi's Question of The Day....

**CUSP82** · 01-17-2017

Oh my!

**closed224** · 01-17-2017

Have to Cusp? Want to says I. She knew when there was one. I got turned on by her telling me or letting me watch also.

**jockinthebox** · 01-17-2017

Of course! Masturbation is healthy & normal! I edge though instead of masturbate now for libido & stamina, saving my ejaculations for sex...it just depends on your relationship and frequency of sex, really...

**Party** · 01-17-2017

Of course she knows, I've done it in front of her after having trouble getting there. Or she'll leave the room and I finish myself off so I'm not distracted. Despite all our years together, she still denies she's ever pleasured herself, ridiculous. I've asked her to make love to herself while I watch but she won't do it. She's cum so far over the years but there are some bridges she just won't cross. She's crossed so many and always enjoys the other side, going kicking and screaming but once there, she never wants to go back. You'd think by now she'd trust me enough to take the chance. IDK.

**TheZZMan** · 01-17-2017

I've recently gotten my wife to masturbate in front of me - Fucking Hot! She does it when we are on a trip together in the car. HuminaHumina - Boing! She knows it teases the hell out of me. Have I mentioned I love that woman lately?

**closed291** · 01-17-2017

My wife doesn't know that I masturbate/edge. She won't touch herself because she has that wrong view that her vagina is dirty. Le sigh.

**TheZZMan** · 01-17-2017

Originally Posted by Ujjayi

My wife doesn't know that I masturbate/edge. She won't touch herself because she has that wrong view that her vagina is dirty. Le sigh.

Ujjayi - need to change that perception she has of the "garden of paradise". It will enhance your private activities as a result. Let her know it is the source of pleasure for both of you, and she holds great powers because of it.

Have I said Humina Humina lately?

**jockinthebox** · 01-17-2017

It's kinda funny, how different males are from females re: masturbation. Why is it OK/ normal for guys to masturbate in the presence of others (boy "CIRCLE JERKS", allowing your partner to assist or masturbate you during sex. BJ's, "breaks" in sexual activity, etc.), but females are so "private" when masturbating? I've had many more partners who were "too embarrassed" to masturbate in front of me than those willing to, even older more experienced females.

Purely from a physiological aspect, it's totally unfair to guys IMO, and females are doing themselves a disservice, too!

How's a guy going to learn a partner's particular turn-on's if we're not "shown" what THEY enjoy MOST? Let's face it, guy's stuff is "exposed" and easier to figure out for them;...females, not so much... 'cause even if you know the general anatomy of a female, the degree of stimulation, frequency, depth, and sensitivity varies GREATLY from one to another...much more so than "guy parts"