NOT Ujjayi's Question of The Day....

[TheZZMan]

Two threads are always better than one! Let this one be driven by anyone who has a question.

If YOU had a Question of the Day, What would it be?

I'll Start,

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

My Answer - I have a sometimes shorter fuse than I would like to have with regards to patience with others. So, better patience would be a virtue.

[closed251]

I have dyslexia, which can be embarrassing at times.

[CUSP82]

I am adorable and everyone knows it. It is hard leading a life with that type of handicap but I try. Maybe I could be less adorable and more serious.

[not2big]

I'm getting too old. I'd like to be younger.

[TheZZMan]

I dated my wife for 8 years due to various circumstances before we got married. I wish I could have changed that to a shorter time. However, in that 8 years, my wife went to college and finished her degree, I got a sweet promotion at work, and we were able to have the dream wedding we always had wanted.

[Party]

So, I guess I'm having trouble understanding the thread. Am , are we supposed to answer the question, or come up with one?

I mean if I'm , we, are supposed to come up with a question, mine would be. How do women deal with not having an orgasm since I'm having issues getting there myself? I can tell you how frustrating it is but she's good to go, LOL.

[Tamora]

What would I change about myself? Absolutely nothing!

I am what God made me, flaws and all, and if anyone doesn't like me the way I am they can kiss my hairy arse!

[TheZZMan]

So, I guess I'm having trouble understanding the thread. Am , are we supposed to answer the question, or come up with one?

I mean if I'm , we, are supposed to come up with a question, mine would be. How do women deal with not having an orgasm since I'm having issues getting there myself? I can tell you how frustrating it is but she's good to go, LOL.

We have our next question folks, Lets help Party answer his question.

My wife needs orgasms periodically, but she somehow feels the need for closeness at times that just doesn't require an orgasm. I think it is somehow upside down and not something that guys can comprehend. She just is content sometimes to just make me happy. Complain? I will not.

[Pegasus]

Can my answer be a mix of Cusps ,Tamora's and not2big's?

[Qandisa]

I mean if I'm , we, are supposed to come up with a question, mine would be. How do women deal with not having an orgasm since I'm having issues getting there myself? I can tell you how frustrating it is but she's good to go, LOL.

I can think of several different answers to this depending on how the question is looked at!

If you mean not ever having one -- well for the first 8 or 9 of my sexually active years I didn't even know that I could have one. I mean I'd never really had one, I'd read about them but just figured that what you read is exaggerated because I'd never felt anything like what was described. I thoroughly enjoyed sex but had never gotten to "that point". Until I bought a rabbit vibrator and then oh boy, so that's what they were talking about!

If you mean not having one during a sexual encounter -- well it depends. Most of my sexual encounters are like that. I still really love sex and have a great time but I just don't orgasm through penetration and even with oral there's a good chance I won't if the guy isn't really good at it. So for me, I just go into it knowing that I'm going to have a great time anyway, and I'll probably get like 90% of the way to an orgasm but not quite there, and I'm okay with that. In fact sometimes it's probably better because I like to go for round after round and I've found that after orgasm I can sometimes get too sensitive to be able to do that.

Having said all that, I've upgraded from the rabbit to a wand vibrator and it gets used probably 5/7 days a week (and usually more than one a day).