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  • Penis size doesnt matter...I'm done with it. (long rant)

    I dunno what happened to me. I think I just realized something: Penis size doesnt matter.

    We're all so pre-occupied with the size of our penises. All the threads lately about "omg my penis is small" has just made me realize that it really isn't important. Some people are born rich, others are not. Some people are born with big penises, others are not.

    Honestly, I dont know what to think of PE anymore. I used to think that PE is one of the most AMAZING things ever..but in reality, for the past several months, I have not exercised my penis. In fact, it'll soon be 1 year since I was a on structured routine. Why? Because I just dont care about what other girls think of my penis. I love my cock, I dont give a fuck what others think.

    I remember when I used to invest hours everyday trying to make my cock bigger, and it worked. Sure, I gained an inch in length and just a bit over 1/4 inch in girth. I am now 7.25x5.3. Fantastic. Who cares? Nobody. I think I'm done now. I dont see the point in continuing.

    Huge penises aren't as cool as you think they are. Sure, it's pleasant to see a big dick versus a small one, but who the fuck cares? If you're in a loving relationship and you're able to make your girlfriend have many orgasms everytime you fuck, then why does size matter? We live in a society where everything has to be BIGGER and BETTER...everything is based on image..how good looking are you? how big is your house? how many cars do you have? how rich are you? how big is your dick?. Wow, stop! This is NOT what life is about. Wait a minute! What the hell happened to being satisfied with just the bare minimum? What happened to just BEING YOURSELF and fucking RELAXING?

    I guess I'm just sick and tired of hearing things about penis size. I hate it when men are insecure because of their dicks. That's just plain RIDICULOUS. If a girl says: "my ex has a much bigger dick than you" and you get all worked up, well it's your own fault. Just get over yourself. Penis size doesnt matter. It's just an optional bonus. You can live just fine with an AVERAGE 6x5 penis. Hell, you can live with a BELOW AVERAGE penis too. And what the hell does "below average" mean anyway? Does that make you a "below average" person? NO! Quit putting labels on everything. You dont have to label yourself "below average" because of the size of your penis. How many friggin times have we seen DEPRESSED guys on the forum because of their cock size? "waaah, I havent gained anything....waaaah, my penis is only 6 inches long!". I also used to be like that.

    Honestly, I dont know if my testosterone levels are just really high right now, but I am REALLY pissed off about this. I let myself get sucked into this destructive oblivion (which is called INSECURITY) just because of how I felt about my penis (which, apparently, is above average). I've been shy and insecure in front of girls for one year now because of stupid superficial things. I cared so much about the size of my penis that I passed up on several good opportunities to meet wonderful chicks.

    PE will make your penis bigger. But having a bigger penis will NOT necessarily make you less insecure. You have to work on your insecurities, they are psychological, not physical.

    I'm still gonna post on the forums. I will fulfill all my super moderator responsibilities. I will continue to pass on all my PE knowledge to other members. But I am no longer going to let "penis size" occupy space in my head. All my insecurities have been based on NOTHING. I suggest some of you get a hold of yourselves. The size of your cock is pretty irrelevant. If you're dating a size queen, that's your problem. If your ex girlfriend told you that your cock is small, well get over it. If you think that having a big dick will get you laid, youre wrong! If you're gonna exercise your cock to make it bigger, well that's good for you. If you're gonna exercise your cock to improve EQ and to improve stamina, then that's REALLY good for you, and I encourage that.

    Thanks for reading my long rant.
    Starting stats: October 15th, 2008 - NBPEL: 6.25' EG: 5.00'

    Current stats October 15th, 2009 - (100% erection) NBPEL: 7.20' EG: 5.375'


    Goal: NBPEL: 8' EG: 6' (objective: girth)

    TGC Theory

    A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes but to get into accord with them: they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world. -Sigmund Freud

  • #2
    Radiohead, I don't think you would be thinking that if you were say...5.25 inches and not 7.25 inches. Anyway, you are right that penis size is just that and nothing more. And if someone won't like you because of that then THEY are the ones with the true problems. However don't let yourself be sucked into the void of insecurity and obsession about penis size. Just follow a routine, don't think about it all the time. You are just making yourself feel better. It is the same as working out to get muscles or lose fat, using acne medications to attempt to treat acne, removing that ugly mole that you just really hate. None of those things truly MATTER. You won't die. But if it will make you feel better, why not try to fix them if they can be fixed? Are you conforming to society? Sure. But unfortunately we have to live in this society and you will always be conforming in some way or another.
    Starting April 2010: NBPEL: 5.25-5.5
    BPEL: Approx. 6
    EG: 4.4

    End of November 2010: NBPEL: 6.5
    BPEL: 7
    EG: 4.6

    Goal: NBPEL: 7
    EG: 5-5.5

    New Routine: OTS hanging, bundled stretches in between, erect stretches, 100 jelqs at full erection level.

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    • #3
      I think alot of it is easier said than done, I mean, at face value, much of what you say, that size doesn't or shouldn't matter, should seem fairly reasonable, considering that much of who we we modern humans are was decided upon by ancesteral females, but I think that then, as much as it does now, matters most to men on a larger scale than it does women, sure, to alot of women, they could care less, but their are some that see it as a minor factor, and thats just the reality of it. I agree that being insecure about it shouldn't be something that one should base their lives upon, but I think one should look at it the same way as a bodybuilding or fitness routine, and that way is of self improvment and self esteem. When one works out, their not just increasing the size of their muscles, but they are doing something much more, they are increasing their lifespan and their overall health, and in addition, boosting their confidence in the process. I think that PE does just that, but I also agree with what Retinoid said, that when you a little bit smaller like 5 inches or so, then I think its a different matter, although, confindence is a big part of it, I do know some ppl with 4 inches that have had no complaints believe it or not, but still, I think it all lies with the person and their reasons for wanting a bigger dick, just like ones reasons for wanting bigger muscles.
      "I came, I saw, I conquered"- Julius Cesear

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      • #4
        Well my girl and I have decided we don't want my chest over 50", but hey years ago when it was 40 " I could have left it at that.
        It is a similar thing. Anyway off to the gym now see you guys later.

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        • #5
          Radio,
          Someone recently told me to “Put a thumb in your butt.” You might want to try this; perhaps you’ll become more relaxed.

          I’m willing to bet before your thread here has run its course you’ll find that most of us agree with you.

          Angus

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          • #6
            Some people collect stamps. Some people play video games. Some people build model aeroplanes and attend competitions where they compete against other model aeroplane enthusiasts flying their planes. Some people gamble. Some people smoke weed. Some people drink.

            Some people go to the gym and some people go to the PEGym.

            We are all different. We all have time in our every day lives and it is up to us how we spend that spare time. Yes we can become obsessed with PE and the size issue but it is not the only thing in the world which can be addicting - all the things I wrote above can be addicting and if done excessively, can cause problems in different levels in our lives.

            I don't like black & white answers. I don't like to hear 'yes, size matters' or 'no, it doesn't matter' nor do I like to hear 'money doesn't bring happiness' comments. Life is just too damn complicated to draw those decisions based on one yes/no answer.

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            • #7
              Hi Radio,
              Your post spoke to me man. Last night I had sex with a girl (the first sex since really getting into PE big time) & I encountered a problem.
              There were spells when I lost my erection because my mind is a bit too obsessed with size now. I was way to aware of whether I was 100% erect or not & this lead to me becoming anxious. Once I was actually willing myself to get 100% hard it actually had the reverse effect.

              Sorry to putting this down here - was going to create a new post.

              This girl does seem to really like me & she said that I made her come twice - but I am doubting this. I ended up going down on her at times to mask the betrayal of my cock. We have plans to meet again & she does mean this. But what should I do - I want to get some Viagra as a back up because if it happened again it would be horrible.
              Maybe knowing that I have it to hand will help.

              This girl really turned me on - I think some of the anxiety may have come from the fact that it was a blind date & we had spoken about going straight to a hotel. Sounded good to me a the time - but I think it might have been part of cause of performance anxiety. Don't get me wrong PE can be fantastic, it may not be to blame for this at all. I think it needs to be kept in balance/perspective however.

              Help from anyone!?!?!?!?!
              Vulcan
              7.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>8.125"BPEL (current)
              5.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>5.75"EG (current)

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Radiohead View Post

                Huge penises aren't as cool as you think they are. Sure, it's pleasant to see a big dick versus a small one, but who the fuck cares? If you're in a loving relationship and you're able to make your girlfriend have many orgasms everytime you fuck, then why does size matter?
                Well that may be true, but people like myself don't care for loving relationships. I wanna have a dick that will pleasure ANY woman, without the love factor, which sounds, to be honest, ridiculous. It's like a 6x5 dick + love = 8x6 dick. Spare me.

                We live in a society where everything has to be BIGGER and BETTER...everything is based on image..how good looking are you? how big is your house? how many cars do you have? how rich are you? how big is your dick?. Wow, stop! This is NOT what life is about. Wait a minute! What the hell happened to being satisfied with just the bare minimum? What happened to just BEING YOURSELF and fucking RELAXING?
                Not all men who start PEing are insecure about their dongs to begin with. Some, like myself, just wanna make a good reason for being the arrogant prick I am. With a large and fat dong any shades of self-doubt (which are really minuscule in my case, anyway), will dissapear altogether. Also, I'm doing it to learn consistency and dedication, which the PE can teach very well.

                I guess I'm just sick and tired of hearing things about penis size. I hate it when men are insecure because of their dicks. That's just plain RIDICULOUS. If a girl says: "my ex has a much bigger dick than you" and you get all worked up, well it's your own fault.
                Yes, that's true. Women probably only say these things to get us back for something or to be plain malicious. If a guy gets worked up over it it only shows his own insecurities (which women don't like to say the least).

                PE will make your penis bigger. But having a bigger penis will NOT necessarily make you less insecure. You have to work on your insecurities, they are psychological, not physical.
                Honestly, if it doesn't than you're seriously fucked up in the head. What reasons for insecurity could a good-looking, intelligent man WITH a large tool have?

                The size of your cock is pretty irrelevant. If you're dating a size queen, that's your problem. If your ex girlfriend told you that your cock is small, well get over it. If you think that having a big dick will get you laid, youre wrong!
                You're right, of course. But for many PErs the only reason for PE is "why not make it bigger if you CAN make it bigger?" You have got to consider that people who know about, practice, and realize the PE's efficiency are pretty much an elite, since most men are doomed to believe that they only got what they've been born with. Some of these are happy with it, others are gonna drown in insecurities for that reason for all their lives. Of course they shouldn't, because how you swing the hammer is more important than how big that hammer is

                Thanks for reading my long rant.
                You're welcome.
                I like making my wee wee larger

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                • #9
                  I never started doing PE because i was insecure that my penis wouldn't be able to please my gf or because some woman would say that size matters. Just like Elias said, everyone has his own thing. I just would like to see it a bit bigger, it would look nicer on me. I dont look at my dick and say: ''You are a failure dick, im going to make you bigger''. No, i look this way: ''I love you cock, dont care what others think of you, and im even gonna make you and me happier by making you bigger''.

                  And when it comes to ''Does Size Matter'': Yes & No
                  Yes: If you have such a small girth,and your partner has a vagina that has been pumped with a 6'' girth, it is gonna matter. How great is the chance that you gonna find a girl whichs vagina is stretched because of a 6'' girther, and that you have a 4.5'' girth? Not so much.

                  No: If your partner is just a nice girl, maybe has had some boysfriend before you, but is not a whore or something. Chance is little that your girth is gonna cause so little friction that she wont feel anything. If you are able to give her orgasm and stuff, no reason she would go away...

                  I was talking to a girl lately, and she told me: ''My bf has a bigger dick then my ex, but the only difference is that it feels more filled up. Also, it looks impressive.''
                  Now people gonna say: You see! Size does matter. No, she might find it more filling up in her, or that i looks more impressive, doesn't mean she didn't feel anything from her ex, but did with her current bf.

                  Just like: If im skinny, chance that a girl will say: You have a sexy body, is not so high. But when im musculair, i can get reactions as: Wow your musculair and sexy. Well, i find it awesome to get those reactions, so i go to Gym to workout

                  I also find it awesome when a girl would say that about my dick, so i workout my dick
                  trainingtzr
                  Member
                  Last edited by trainingtzr; 05-09-2010, 08:05 AM.

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                  • #10
                    I agree with vulcan on the balance comment. As much as I think that PE is good addition to your life and health, it can also be counterproductive. Doing routines for couple of hours a day and being obsessed for reaching a 10" cock won't bring you far in life. A 10" cocks means putting your life to side and live only for one thing, PE. That's not life, that's either profession or obsession. We should all learn first when we come here that we should be happy with or current penises. From that mindset we will have better life in overall, more confidence, and won't over train in our routines. PE is really a wonderful thing, I'm still waiting for some gains, but I enjoy better EQ, and spending from 35-45 min. on my routine I think it's balanced to other activities that I do.

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                    • #11
                      I think Big dicks does matter. Even if a girl likes you, the size of your penis does cross their minds. Now if you don't measure up, that doesnt mean they wont sleep with you or like you any less. I had a girl that use to cum when we had sex, but told me my penis was small when we got into a argument. She said " U short dick Muthafucker" and that still bothers me. I spoke to my wife about this and she said your penis isn't small, but yet my wife NEVER said my penis was big before I started clamping and shit. Its a fact that at one time a large penis was considered important to women not just for pleasure, but for breeding purposes.
                      Women are more emotional so most will settle in the name of love. Alot of women are sexually frustrated but wont say it be cause they love their mate. Alot of women are use of being sexually suppress where alot will put our needs before theirs.
                      Now I do agree with the obessive part. From watching alot of porn to even reading the progress post in this forums, it plays with our pysche. I catch myself now losing erection if I dont hear my wife moan. I start thinking my dick isn't hitting it right or she is not being pleased, so Im trying to work on this. BTW if you guys have any suggestions on how to cure this please help.
                      If we are honest, we are all here with some forum of insercurities. If we wasn't , we would have never even put one thought into whether PE works or not. I read many post were MEN tell other MEN they dick is big, but yet the Big dick man will say, I dont my dick as being big.
                      So I understand what Radiohead is saying. Although I will make my dick bigger, I do want to learn how to not be obessed with it.
                      3/23/2010
                      6.5 x 5 1/4 BPEL


                      4/13/2010
                      6.9 x 5.4 BPEL

                      12/15/2010
                      7.1 x 5.4 BPEL

                      My GOAL IS 7.5X6

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                      • #12
                        I agree it's all media hype "you need a big penis", "women prefer huge penises" etc. It's a fact you don't need a big dick to please a woman or make her cum. Now there are men who have a micropenis (3 inches or less erect) but they are pretty rare. I blame porn for a lot of this "I am not big enough" line of thinking. Maybe it's just me but I used to want a bigger dick so it looked bigger not really because it would give me more to work with. I think that's what a lot of guys feel like as well. The truth is unless you have a micropenis you don't REALLY need a bigger dick and let's face it most of the guys who do PE are average or even above average to begin with anyway. Also women are turned off by insecurity in men most of them are insecure so they don't want men to be as well. Think about it this way it's probably the way a guy feels about his dick apologizing it's not big enough (yes men seem to say this to women) being uncomfortable about his size that turns women off. After all how can will be sexual confident and masculine when we're worrying about our dick size?

                        Guys another thing. Clearly most (the majority) of us here are insecure let's not fool ourselves (and I can be guility of this too) WHO CARES if some women put you down and comment about your dick? I know it can hurt but you need to be stronger than that so it doesn't get to you. Have respect for yourself build up your self esteem and confidence. Yes even a bit of arrogance is okay I think it's better than having zero confidence. When you love yourself these comments and putdowns will have less effect on your self esteem.
                        UKGuy
                        Senior Member
                        Last edited by UKGuy; 05-09-2010, 09:45 AM.

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                        • #13
                          I started PE because I wanted a bigger dick. Not because some one night stand or even ANY girl for the matter had called me small. I've never heard that I was small, but I've always been good at sex. Never had one complaint and I got a long list of girls who love my dick and have cummed many times because of me. Now this was with a somewhat below average penis, but now that I know about PE I'm about average and I please my girlfriend much more then I did 2-3 months ago.
                          I never started PE because I would look down at my erect tool and go, boohoo I'm so small, my penis is tiny. Of course when I was watching porn while whacking off I was like damn that guys huge, but I never compared, because I knew that he had a big dick to be in porn. Did it make me feel small at the time? Yes of course it did, but as soon as I finished waxing my candlestick then it was business as usual. Never complained about being a grower instead of a shower, actually used that to my advantage when picking up girls.
                          Really though, I don't do PE to get a bigger dick, I'm not aiming for a huge dick, my original goal was 8x6, but I'm probably going to stop way before I hit that length. I find that to actually be too big for me right now. I do PE because I derive pleasure from doing it, it's fun to me and it gives me something to do throughout the day and at night. Shit I'd rather be doing PE at night then video games.
                          It's not just Penile Enhancement, it's a way of life.
                          Millia's Dick Journey (NEW Introduction post!)

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                          • #14
                            I am fairly happy with my size now at 7.75x5.5 - & felt good when it was good, & she really responded. I just never thought that by thinking a lot about size in recent weeks/months that it could affect my performance in this way (loss of erection).

                            One incident of partial ED has completely freaked me out because it has never happened before.

                            It's just made me realize that it is not healthy to focus too intensely on any one aspect of your life. PE should be one part of a varied & whole life - I had become a bit obsessive. Sex kind of has to flow - like a good tennis serve or golf swing - if you actually think to much about what you are doing, whilst doing it - you double fault (or equivalent in golf).

                            Maybe I should just use Viagra & be done with it.
                            Vulcan
                            7.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>8.125"BPEL (current)
                            5.25 (start July 2009)>>>>>>5.75"EG (current)

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                            • #15
                              Attitudes about penis size differ from person to person. If I was naturally blessed with a 7x5" penis, yeah, I wouldn't care about it. But since I am naturally under-girthed, I'm more inclined to care...

                              I think in the grand scheme of things, penis size doesn't really matter all that much. But penis health does. I think we all too often forget that PE is more than just making your dick bigger. It's about making your dick healthier as well. I think 9/10 girls would take a 5" dick that gets rock hard every time over the deflated-floppy 8" dick. Which is why I plan on doing PE for the rest of my life, even if it only becomes 3-5 minutes of jelqing per day. I know that in the long run, I'll be thankful that I did. I think more people should approach their PE with the mindset that they might gain size but they would definitely improve health.
                              Last edited by Gator; 05-09-2010, 01:01 PM.

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