losing virginity

[maxymoon]

Do you think a 6'4 man would be a disapointment with a 5.7 inch bpel and 5.1 inch midshaft girth? or do you think I'm best off waiting until I gained my first inch first? the woman would be expecting a much bigger one wouldn't she with me being so tall.

[Zyxciz]

I'm 5'8 and around the same size as you down there, so I can definitely see why you would be worried because of the proportions. However, putting off sex until you hit a specific size is not a good idea in my opinion. First of all, how long is that going to take you? Are you just going to swallow your own feelings and deprive yourself of any happiness because of your insecurity?

Think about it, in order to succeed in any aspect of life you need to be emotionally healthy. That means living a well rounded and balanced life. If you put yourself out there despite not being completely happy about your size, I promise that your PE journey and overall attitude towards the practise will improve. Why? Because you will approach the practise with enthusiasm and excitement, rather than desparation. Don't get me wrong, we're all somewhat desparate but we can't allow that to be the main reason for our journey.

[NOWHARD]

Your above average so why worry, if you worry to much your never get any, I was never worried when I first had sex with my wife and we are still together 48 years later.

Get out there do the deed and enjoy your self.

NOWHARD

[maxymoon]

I'm 5'8 and around the same size as you down there, so I can definitely see why you would be worried because of the proportions. However, putting off sex until you hit a specific size is not a good idea in my opinion. First of all, how long is that going to take you? Are you just going to swallow your own feelings and deprive yourself of any happiness because of your insecurity?

Think about it, in order to succeed in any aspect of life you need to be emotionally healthy. That means living a well rounded and balanced life. If you put yourself out there despite not being completely happy about your size, I promise that your PE journey and overall attitude towards the practise will improve. Why? Because you will approach the practise with enthusiasm and excitement, rather than desparation. Don't get me wrong, we're all somewhat desparate but we can't allow that to be the main reason for our journey.

good advice but I'm used to being miserable I'm 38 now and I've suffered with this problem all my life but I think now I am ready to do something about it.

[Zyxciz]

good advice but I'm used to being miserable I'm 38 now and I've suffered with this problem all my life but I think now I am ready to do something about it.

I understand, my advice is a lot easier given than implemented. I haven't even implemented my own advice seeing as I'm a virgin at 22. While I still believe it holds true, our insecurities unfortunately stop us from doing the right thing.

[BigKnob]

Do you think a 6'4 man would be a disapointment with a 5.7 inch bpel and 5.1 inch midshaft girth? or do you think I'm best off waiting until I gained my first inch first? the woman would be expecting a much bigger one wouldn't she with me being so tall.

depends who u are planning to do it with i think - if u were to find some random girl at the club she might be. i'm around 6'6-6'7 and was only at 6" when i lost it to a girlfriend - she didnt complain

[Ehhhm]

You focus waaaay to much on your size.

Trust me it almost never really matters to a girl, and you can be a bit discrete before the deed, and while and after it dosn't matter. If you are dedicated, attentive and caring, it is the real deal.

I have lived most of my grown up life with a bpel somewhere between 5.1 and 5.3, and i has not kept me back. I'm a broad-shouldered guy and about 6 foot high, so no one would call me small. I had my debut as 13 years old, and was not fullgrown then. I just kept on from then. It has never stopped me. My very retracted flaccid has just made me shy i public, and kept from showing it to potentials before the sex. After sex i haven't given it a thought. If you have sex, and both seemed to have enjoyed it, you passed the test, and have nothing to worry about with your penissize.
And i might add, being reasonably active and about, i have NEVER had a woman reject me or taken back by my (lack of) size.

Seriously - get laid. It's what it is all about - it's fun, it's amazing, it's a rush, and you won't regret it (unless you do it with somebody you shouldn't )

[Phoenix7672]

Honestly looking back, my advice is don't give up any potential opportunity, as you'll regret doing that later.