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  1. 02-16-2019 #1
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    Hey everyone,

    I've been coming to PEGYM pretty much daily now for a few weeks and one of the things I've been noticing about myself is how emotionally uncomfortable I've been just visiting the site. I would say that I am fairly neurotic and generally uncomfortable with sex overall and especially talking about it. This is in comparison to what I assume others who openly talk about sex feel internally. I often feel as though I am being compared to my partner's past lovers/partners which is likely the source of the discomfort.

    My questions to you all are:

    1. How uncomfortable would you consider yourself with the idea of sex and attempting or succeeding in growing your penis in order to perform better?

    2. If you were uncomfortable with the idea of self-improvement in this area, how did you manage to change the way you felt? Was it a natural occurrence? Did you have to do any self-talk or use other means to work through the discomfort?

    My fears are mostly related to others' concern about what this kind of activity (PE) says about the other aspects of my mind which may lead to other behaviors that may be distasteful or otherwise may negatively affect my performance in other areas in the case that I lose confidence in my abilities.

    Thanks for your input! I'll be checking back daily to see what people have to say and will be involved in the conversation as much as I can.
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  2. 02-16-2019 #2
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    Why be uncomfortable with yourself?
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  3. 02-16-2019 #3
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    I am not sure I understand your first question.
    Are you asking how uncomfortable I am about sex while doing PE?

    2. I had some problems comparing myself with others and thinking my penis size is the center of the Univers (from this came a bunch of problems and not only when it came to sex). Some things happened to me, like being cheated, other things I did to myself letting my imagination run wild.
    What helped me the most was psychotherapy.
    After that, I could hear 'better' when my partner would make compliments about sex or how my dick feels. In reality, I got compliments even when I had a bunch of insecurities, but back then I choose to believe my paranoia over honest words coming from someone else's mouth.

    If you are worried that doing PE could affect your mental state, you are the only one that can find that out.

    I had my periods when I did out of PE the center of my life, thus my obsession. And it wasn't the best choice. Now I see it as routine training that I enjoy. Just like I look at jogging or lifting weight 2-3 times a week. I enjoy working out and similar I enjoy doing PE every 1-2 days. It's like a message with added benefits. Relaxation while doing it, better EQ and in time gaining size. I try to keep my mind focused on the first 2. As long as I can get those 2 right, the size gains are an awesome bonus that can surprise me.
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  4. 02-16-2019 #4
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    Here's a portion from the following which applies (Please Read First):

    If you're suffering from serious depression or anxiety, it would be in your best interests to take care of this issue first! Male enhancement exercises are NOT a substitute for good mental hygiene. Beginning any male enhancement training under a severely stressed mindset often adds to the problem.

    END

    Keeping this in mind, this forum also isn't a substitute for mental hygiene services. That being said, one can always strive to improve themselves, and of someone with serious emotional issues can transcend them enough to approach male enhancement training (and this forum) in a positive light, then they'll derive benefits.
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  5. 02-16-2019 #5
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    I'll talk about sex with anyone, anywhere.... after all it's how we are all here.

    Never be uncomfortable about sex or any aspect of a human body.
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  6. 02-16-2019 #6
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    Well I am not uncomfortable in myself .

    As to what other think ,well that would be an issue if I told them but I don't.
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    1. No discomfort in terms of bettering myself. Now, it is not something that I broadcast to the world. PE and related activities are best kept to the bathroom and bedroom. I kept it to myself for a long time, as it felt somewhat self-indulgent. But to feel discomfort in simply visiting this site is not what I mean.

    2. I cannot really answer, but there is power in positive thinking.
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    I kinda find it embarrassing even though I’m a decent size to begin with. I wouldn’t talk about it with anyone outside these forums. I simply view it as working out. When I was in the army was jacked and worked out all the time. I don’t see how working your penis out is any different from your biceps, tris, legs etc. Women can do kegels and it’s socially acceptable, why can’t men do PE?

    As for performance women will orgasm a thousand times easier if you warm them up first and perform oral.
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    I would go see a professional if you are feeling this way.
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