My gf talks so much and she is annoying

[greg123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greg123]

I have problems and she also. But ffs when she is in her pms we will fight for sure. She talks alot. Sex is great and stuff. Tips for arguing and in general. Iam depressed and I have no energy and she would want to go to the beach etc. Sometimes it's really exhausting and I don't know with what perspective to see the situation.

[bigplayre Senior Member Member of the Month June 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close bigplayre]

Bit more description with the problems. Every relationship has arguments and problems, gotta figure out the root cause of these things.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

I have problems and she also. But ffs when she is in her pms we will fight for sure. She talks alot. Sex is great and stuff. Tips for arguing and in general. Iam depressed and I have no energy and she would want to go to the beach etc. Sometimes it's really exhausting and I don't know with what perspective to see the situation.

You've just described every relationship between a man and a woman. Women love to talk and men like to be alone but they don't want to be lonely. And if you think you're going to find a woman who do doesn't talk a lot of isn't just a little crazy... She doest exist. All women talk a lot, especially when they like you. A woman who is quiet she's either pissed or about to leave you.

If your girlfriend is causing you this much grief, and you don't want to breakup, then find something to do that isn't focusing on her. You gotta find some way to recharge and feel better without making her responsible for your happiness. And part of being in a relationship with women is understanding that they talk just express concerns and not to find a solution like men do. Many times a woman will tell you about her problems not wanting you fix her problems but just wanting you to listen, show concern, and tell her everything will be ok.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Get your energy back. Eat healthy be healthy find something to work towards then you will have less room for trouble with her.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

Focus on yourself. Why are you depressed and no energy? What makes you happy and why aren't you doing that? You need to fix yourself, first.

Also, why are you with someone who annoys you? I sure wouldn't be. Think long and hard about why you're with her if you don't enjoy being with her.

Finally, don't believe that all women talk a lot. Total BS. Just like men, women are each different from one to the other. Some women talk a lot; some men talk a lot. Some women talk very little; some men talk very little. Be with the woman who meets your needs.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

So so true TGD. Women like to verbalize pretty much every thought. We also what to know every thought, feeling and opinion of the men we like.

If we are quiet... we are either losing interest, annoyed at you or guilty of something.

Its just one of life's ironic jokes... men and women, so different generally.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

So so true TGD. Women like to verbalize pretty much every thought. We also what to know every thought, feeling and opinion of the men we like.

If we are quiet... we are either losing interest, annoyed at you or guilty of something.

Its just one of life's ironic jokes... men and women, so different generally.

It's called being nosy

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

It's called being nosy

Noisy ya mean

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Both!

[greg123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greg123]

I have depression since 2017 I think cause I had to stop my pation because of an injury and also other problems. Iam working on my self, trying to heal my arms and iam so close, I was in therapies before the summer. Thing is, she does things to irritate me all the time, she makes me anxious about going somewhere or pretty much everything, we had sex the privious day from the ass and she was in pain abit after. She was on bed quite and I was playing a game to relax, she demanded me to go be with her there because she was hurting, she said, everytime your girlfriend needs you a bed she's in pain you have to be there, she. Was very rude and I told her and she agreed, thing is the situation is abit complicated, for some reason I don't feel relaxed, only a few times, she's emotional etc and she has hard pms but she's abit crazy sometimes. Another thing is that she does not know how to end fight omg, she talks so much pointless and this shit doesn't end, also she's playing smart ass all the time. Iam pretty tired now so I will write more later guys. Thanks you all.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Sounds like you are both a bit crazy so it's about making the crazy work together.

[itsusuallyhard Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close itsusuallyhard]

bad joke "it's your fault for not keeping her mouth busy"