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[Tranthouse5 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tranthouse5]

So I’ve always considered myself an alpha male, my wife looks at me in the same way. It’s part of the reason she married me. I’m very dominant during seX, I never like to be submissive…. BUT

I have this weird urine fetish? Does that make me submissive? I’m just so confused by the whole thing and can’t understand why I like it. We’ve experimented before where she pees on my face/in my mouth. Or on the toilet.

Why do I like this? Should I withhold my desires? Or is it simply a safe fetish within the confines of marriage. Please help.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Completely grosses me out, but if you guys like it, go for it. Problem solved.

[Tranthouse5 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tranthouse5]

Completely grosses me out, but if you guys like it, go for it. Problem solved.

Does it make me any less alpha? That’s my main question here.

[Tranthouse5 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tranthouse5]

Never mind. Just researched it and it says it’s just a fetish. We can’t control what arouses us I guess.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Does it make me any less alpha? That’s my main question here.

Guys who are naturally alpha do what they want without needing to ask if what they are doing is alpha, or not. You might have a deeper question than asking about liking to be pee'd on.

[Tranthouse5 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tranthouse5]

True that.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

The whole alpha concept as expressed by the Pua is suspect if that is how you see yourself perhpas some self reflection is warranted .

Or perhaps you are looking at it in another manner in any case it is a self concept .

[JustALilMore Senior Member Member of the Month August 2020 Find all posts View Profile Close JustALilMore]

Does it make me any less alpha? That’s my main question here.

Interesting that you stated in your other thread:
”Lmao yeah I’m sure it does. I just like to feel empowered. Call me a sicko idc. But too many girls these days get ahead of themselves. I like to let the ladies know who is in charge and that’s me. It’s their loss, not mine.”

I get the feeling that you see being “alpha” as a display of strength or dominance over something.

[BlueMorpho Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BlueMorpho]

Uhh... no comment on the urine fetish. Whatever rocks your boat! About the "Alpha Male" thing:

The whole alpha concept as expressed by the Pua is suspect if that is how you see yourself perhpas some self reflection is warranted .

Or perhaps you are looking at it in another manner in any case it is a self concept .

I believe Pegasus nailed it here... and I agree that this whole PUA movement and its obsession with being "Alpha Male" is kind of narrow-minded. Why do you think it is important for you to be 'Alpha Male'? Do you mean it in the sense of showing off / posturing how confident or dominant you look in the eyes of others? If it is, I hate to break it to you but it may be masquerading as narcissism or some other deep-rooted desire for approval.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I know I'm old and out of it but to me to label yourself as an alpha or anything is just silly and childish. Just be a man and be the best you can be. Now I'll go put on my Superman t-shirt and guess what I'll be?

[RickBhmcsb PEGym HERO Find all posts View Profile Close RickBhmcsb]

I know I'm old and very old fashioned...at times...When I was in school the guys were set apart for a semester on a course called "Man In Demand". We were taught proper grooming tips, how to tie a good Windsor knot, how to do a proper handshake grip, the proper use of colognes, how to treat others respectfully especially how to respect and honor women. In other words, we were taught how to be gentlemen.

[83show Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 83show]

I have a very dominant and independent personality myself. But being an alpha would suck bad having to alway assertive within the confines of a tribalistic society. Kinda why i perfer to satellite in my life cause my bar is much higher than a pack mentality could allow.

As for the peeing thing .... its definitely a sign of duality, maybe a freedom of the stress of trying to always lead ... idk

[RickBhmcsb PEGym HERO Find all posts View Profile Close RickBhmcsb]

As a society we have become very tribal within the last 25-30 years. I know in my school we were very integrated. No matter who you were we all participated in the same activities. Just My Opinion here.... This whole fascination with "water sports" appeals to our more primal instincts, which I totally don't get..I'm amazed how things that were once considered kook fringe are now almost mainstream.

I have a very dominant and independent personality myself. But being an alpha would suck bad having to alway assertive within the confines of a tribalistic society. Kinda why i perfer to satellite in my life cause my bar is much higher than a pack mentality could allow.

As for the peeing thing .... its definitely a sign of duality, maybe a freedom of the stress of trying to always lead ... idk