Awkward Father/Son Moment

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

SOOoooo... my pops and I were just talking on the phone, and somehow I started telling him about PE and what not. He was pretty interested and thought my reasons for doing PE were legit and all that. THEN, he said, "well you should keep me in the loop and let me know how things work out with it, i'd like to know how your 'stats' change" (or something along those lines). That was a lil awkward for me. lol As far as I was concerned, I thought father/son penis talks ended at like age 16/17 lol. I am now 25. What if he asks to see it or pics or something? HOW DO I HANDLE THIS? lol

This is not an issue of him being gay or something... this is simply a awkward father/son moment at age 25. lol I might be over-thinking this. Its funny to me and I wanted to share with my PE family.

So I guess my question is... at what age do you think a father seeing his son's penis is a little too much? I dont necessarily have a problem talking/showing him, but its just a little awkward.

[itsaverage Banned Find all posts View Profile Close itsaverage]

You thought they ended at 16, but sounds like you brought it up. He prob just wants to know if you gain, not your exact size.

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

You thought they ended at 16, but sounds like you brought it up. He prob just wants to know if you gain, not your exact size.

I always talk about health and fitness with him, but it was like a seamless transition into PE. But I didnt expect him to ask me questions; let alone have a full discussion about it. lol

[grower64 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close grower64]

if he wants to see, show him. just not in public.

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

if he wants to see, show him. just not in public.

by public do mean... just whip it out while im outside or something? lol

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

If you think about it, your body is an extension of his genes.

So he will only be 'on side' about it, it would seem he is pretty open minded from what you have said.

[NeoShiroData Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NeoShiroData]

if he wants to see, show him. just not in public.

That just sounds like it would make things more awkward.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

if you brought it up, that's your fault LMAO

Keep him in the loop as to whether your "stats" change. look at it as him just saying "let me know if your bench numbers go up!" nothing more or less awkward than him changing your diapers when you were 6 months old. he's seen you naked more times than he cares to remember. just cause you're 25 now doesn't mean anything LMAO

Baby Driver - YouTube

Parents will always see you like that LMAO. You're his son and he's sharing another "health and wellness" interest with you. Nothing awkward about it.

[Samurai Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Samurai]

Dude, he's your dad, he's blood! Tell him to wait outside your room and when you are ready call him in.......and show him a BIG VEINY ULI! lmao

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

He won't ask.

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

if you brought it up, that's your fault LMAO

Keep him in the loop as to whether your "stats" change. look at it as him just saying "let me know if your bench numbers go up!" nothing more or less awkward than him changing your diapers when you were 6 months old. he's seen you naked more times than he cares to remember. just cause you're 25 now doesn't mean anything LMAO

Baby Driver - YouTube

Parents will always see you like that LMAO. You're his son and he's sharing another "health and wellness" interest with you. Nothing awkward about it.

Good point. And that video helped me put it in perspective. I guess if I were a father and my son came to me, I wonder how i would feel bout that.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

He's your dad, just show him. Who cares?? Now if it was your mom asking, THAT would be an entirely different story....

[JerzeeGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JerzeeGuy]

He's your dad, just show him. Who cares?? Now if it was your mom asking, THAT would be an entirely different story....

Why...? just wondering (I agree with you tho) but I wonder why its a double standard for the mother? "Half" my body came from her.

[blulite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blulite]

lol im 29 and me and my pops still have conversations about all sorts of stuff. it was only recntly i had to teach him about erogenous zones. weve never had a pe conversation i dont think but it will come up at some point.

[sg0123456 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sg0123456]

erm why the need to show him anything?? for you to make this up and lie to your dad about your gains would make you a total nutcase!