So, it seems that whenever I tell a guy that I do belly dancing, the response is kind of an "uhh, ok" with a puzzled look on their faces.
Whenever I tell a woman that I do belly dancing, she gets a mischievous grin on her face, looks me up and down and says, "really?"
So hmm, women think it's hot, men think it's weird. Oh well, I'm not gay, nor bi, so I don't think I have to worry about what the men think. So it's FULL STEAM AHEAD with the belly dancing for me!
I saw this stunning woman tonight, curled hair, thin lips, nice full hips. I asked her to dance, and when we did a breakaway, she started doing some moves I recognized from belly dancing. Then I asked her, and she confirmed that it was, in fact, belly dancing. Then we did some solo belly dancing in front of each other, which I gave in because she was waaay more sexy than I was (and I told her so). I brought her in close and led some belly dancing moves (body rolls, hip isolations, chest isolations) from close embrace position. You can imagine what close embrace position is; basically full-body contact. She said she had never danced with a male belly dancer before, but she liked it! HOT HOT HOT!
So then I asked her where she was from. She said, "San Diego." Damn, that's like a 12-hour drive from here. So I said, "Oh, that's too bad." Later on, we danced another song, more partnered belly dancing, damn she looked sooooo good when she was dancing, and I think she only danced that way with me since she knew I was gonna match her style.
I wasn't about to try to get her phone number since she lived out of town anyways, so I asked for her facebook. Just wanted to be friendly and see when she would be back in the area so we could dance some more, because she was definitely one I wanted to dance with again. She looked Asian, but gave me an Irish last name. Weird. Maybe she was half Asian or something.
Went home, looked her up on facebook, she's married to an Irish man. Dangit. Well, sent the friend request anyways, and told her we should keep in touch about blues dancing and belly dancing. She sent a message back right away, saying she would be at this other dance event this Sunday, so I'll see her there.
BUT just wanted to share with everyone how awesome belly dancing has turned out to be! Not only has it made me into a fantastic dancer with a very unique style (I have many more super-hot, advanced follows asking me to dance now), but apparently women find it alluring when they hear that I do belly dancing. Not only that, but I think the fact that I don't hide it; that I'm actually proud of it; I think they find that attractive in and of itself.
Whenever I tell a woman that I do belly dancing, she gets a mischievous grin on her face, looks me up and down and says, "really?"
So hmm, women think it's hot, men think it's weird. Oh well, I'm not gay, nor bi, so I don't think I have to worry about what the men think. So it's FULL STEAM AHEAD with the belly dancing for me!
I saw this stunning woman tonight, curled hair, thin lips, nice full hips. I asked her to dance, and when we did a breakaway, she started doing some moves I recognized from belly dancing. Then I asked her, and she confirmed that it was, in fact, belly dancing. Then we did some solo belly dancing in front of each other, which I gave in because she was waaay more sexy than I was (and I told her so). I brought her in close and led some belly dancing moves (body rolls, hip isolations, chest isolations) from close embrace position. You can imagine what close embrace position is; basically full-body contact. She said she had never danced with a male belly dancer before, but she liked it! HOT HOT HOT!
So then I asked her where she was from. She said, "San Diego." Damn, that's like a 12-hour drive from here. So I said, "Oh, that's too bad." Later on, we danced another song, more partnered belly dancing, damn she looked sooooo good when she was dancing, and I think she only danced that way with me since she knew I was gonna match her style.
I wasn't about to try to get her phone number since she lived out of town anyways, so I asked for her facebook. Just wanted to be friendly and see when she would be back in the area so we could dance some more, because she was definitely one I wanted to dance with again. She looked Asian, but gave me an Irish last name. Weird. Maybe she was half Asian or something.
Went home, looked her up on facebook, she's married to an Irish man. Dangit. Well, sent the friend request anyways, and told her we should keep in touch about blues dancing and belly dancing. She sent a message back right away, saying she would be at this other dance event this Sunday, so I'll see her there.
BUT just wanted to share with everyone how awesome belly dancing has turned out to be! Not only has it made me into a fantastic dancer with a very unique style (I have many more super-hot, advanced follows asking me to dance now), but apparently women find it alluring when they hear that I do belly dancing. Not only that, but I think the fact that I don't hide it; that I'm actually proud of it; I think they find that attractive in and of itself.
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