It's impossible to quit watching porn?

[Tudo Bem]

I am 99% sure it is for me. If you have/haven't noticed, I didn't update my PE progress log because I was in the middle of recovering from watching porn for 10+ years and PE would trigger me to watch porn. In my 20 attempts to quit, the longest I've been without porn is 14 days... The last times just have been 6 days, 4 days, etc. I have tried almost everything. From porn blockers that frustrate you more, to reading others' motivational quotes, nothing can stop me from masturbating to porn once I type that website. I go on autopilot from there. It felt terrible relapsing after 14 days, and I have read guys who went without porn for 120 days relapsing, that's makes my 14 days seem like nothing.

It doesn't help that I have access to a computer for 12 hours a day either. When I am busy all day, I don't even think of my computer let alone masturbating to porn. The time where I was 10+ days without porn really made me experience a whole lot more. So, here I am, relapsed after 2 days, writing this message... I have no other hope left but to find a woman or a full-time job. A nicotine addict won't be quitting smoking anytime soon either if he has access to a cigarette any second.

[DemOne]

Create a porn filter for your web browser, one that requires a password to turn off. Smash your hand on the keyboard to make the password and never write it down.

Problem solved.

[Tudo Bem]

Done that. Only makes me do crazy things and frustrates me.

[Steve23]

It's only boobies.. boooooooobies.

[going411by7]

Have you tried creating your own porn scenario--in your head? Are you visually capable of that?

It worked for me. I have a few scenarios that are better than any porn I've seen. I have one scenario for half mast

and another for full mast, I kid you not.

[Skar6]

Take 10 grand hire 4 high class prostitutes, a hotel room for a weekend and a class A drugs. Congrats you now have memories of a sex scene so outrageous and erotic that porn will never be able to come close to! On the other hand, if you dont have 10 grand...

I'm also ditching porn at the moment. Sometime's I'd jack off 4 times a night, even after sex, all to internet porn. It's just so damn convenient isnt it? Try what 11by7 said and try first of all running porn in your head. You ever have thing where you can never find the *perfect* video? Through trial and error try and construct that in your head.
Also, try changing the way you masturbate. I know what I usually did was find a good vid, whip out the semi, coax into life and jack for about 5-10 mins before orgasming, wiping up and chucking the tissue in the bin - then straight back to browsing the web. I'm having some success with completely changing the routine. I find some secluded space, doesnt have to be anywhere special, usually just the bathroom. Start by teasing yourself, (|no spanking) for about 10 minutes (think of it like a challenge) before starting slow and staying slow until the end. It's fairly rewarding in terms of orgasm quality and helps change the idea of it in your head.
If you get the urge whilst browsing google or facebook etc to have a quick jerk, force yourself to get out of the chair, go to the bathroom and do it differently. May not be as quick but definitely more satisfying, plus the slow movements and attention to detail will help awake some of those nerves that get damaged or neglected by the quick shake approach.
GL man, wish you the best!

[going411by7]

You could be one of the hopeless cases. It is true that some men can't stop looking at porn, just like it's true that some men can't stop smoking, drinking, using heroine, and so forth.

It might be better for you to just give in and decide that you're a porn addict and just live with it. From there you can work out the details of harm reduction and damage control. The idea is to work out a pattern of your addictive behavior so that it has minimal impact on the rest of your life.

That's what a lot of drug addicts are eventually forced to do. Abstinence is a strategy that just doesn't work for some people.

I don't think a woman or a full-time job would help. Those are just diversions - as if your problem can be blamed for the lack of some external imposition on your time.

It's not a matter of availability either. Don't blame the internet for your problem. You have a porn addiction and you go looking for porn because you have a porn addiction, NOT because porn is there.

I believe it's time to give up the fight for perfection. Surrender, and work on doing your best to structure your time so porn doesn't interfere with the rest of your life.

Good advice, HotRod. I like the idea of "surrendering to it." You are powerless over it, pal. Embrace it!! It's more powerful than you are.

You are addicted to it. Embrace it, caress it. Don't try to "overpower it." It is more powerful than you are. Approach it like you would

any other addiction-alcohol, drugs, etc.

Structure your time. Get off the computer. Practice penis enlargement WITHOUT the computer. I did. I did all of my early p.e. work

on my own--no support, no computer, no porn.

[HotRod]

Good advice, HotRod. I like the idea of "surrendering to it." You are powerless over it, pal. Embrace it!! It's more powerful than you are.

You are addicted to it. Embrace it, caress it. Don't try to "overpower it." It is more powerful than you are. Approach it like you would

any other addiction-alcohol, drugs, etc.

Structure your time. Get off the computer. Practice penis enlargement WITHOUT the computer. I did. I did all of my early p.e. work

on my own--no support, no computer, no porn.

LOL

I must have deleted my post just as you were replying to it going411by7.

That's alright. I just don't get the impression that anything I or anybody else can say will help some of these guys.

Anyway, I'm glad you thought my advice was valuable. I am serious about that. It just seems a better strategy to learn to manage it. Harm reduction is a technique advocated by some drug addiction experts especially Stanton Peele.

Good luck guys.

[going411by7]

LOL

I must have deleted my post just as you were replying to it going411by7.

That's alright. I just don't get the impression that anything I or anybody else can say will help some of these guys.

Anyway, I'm glad you thought my advice was valuable. I am serious about that. It just seems a better strategy to learn to manage it. Harm reduction is a technique advocated by some drug addiction experts especially Stanton Peele.

Good luck guys.

You never know, HotRod, when something you write will strike a cord with an addicted person. Your words may very well be that key.