Weight Difference Between Couples??

**BigO** · 04-15-2012

She is maybe thinking she is too heavy since she is only 35 lbs under your weight, maybe she would feel better if you were 50 lbs heavier and she was only 120 ( you would still be 170). Not saying anything is wrong with her weight, she is actually what I think a gal at 5'2" should be. I just think she thinks she is heavy but it is easier to say you dont weigh enuff, make any sense. that what i am hearing.

**Thick_Unit** · 04-15-2012

Originally Posted by Fitetoend

Does a man always have to weigh more for it work? and if so how much more? are there any women in here that date or would date a man lighter than them?

I weigh about 215-220 pounds
fairly good shape. (Only wear a 32 jean size. that says a lot.)

Ideal she would have to be 120-140.

A skeleton cannot nurture a baby in the womb.

**Fitetoend** · 04-16-2012

hi guys,

thanks for all the input and the advice and pep talk. Dont get me wrong she didnt say it maliciously or anything, but rather in jest, as in I could help to put on a few. I was just curious to know what on average weight difference between a couple is like just so that I could either feel better about my situation or find ways to better our "weight ratio". Just wanted to see if there is a weight difference that is preferable. at only 5 foot 10, the most i could really put on without looking like a blob is 15-20 pounds, still only putting me 50 pounds over her.

**Ravenously** · 04-17-2012

Originally Posted by Fitetoend

Hi everyone,

Recently my new girl told me how she thinks im too skinny and that I could use a "bulking". Now shes 5 foot 2 and about 135, im about 5 foot 10, and 170. I was under the impression that there was already a good enough size difference between us. But I suppose 35 pounds of difference isnt cutting it. It got me thinking,

A. What are some of the members' weight difference with their girlfriends/boyfriends/wives or husbands? or how much do you and your partner weigh.

B. Is there an ideal weight difference between a man and a woman in a relationship? Does a man always have to weigh more for it work? and if so how much more? are there any women in here that date or would date a man lighter than them?

Actually, according to the BMI chart you are at the ideal weight for your height. But, I don't buy in that chart. It fails to take frame and build into account.

I refuse to date a girl that weighs more than me. I weigh 200 lbs, so any girl that's heavier than I am is a big girl.

**Fitetoend** · 04-18-2012

Yes I know the BMI chart is very misleading. I would much rather be a built muscular guy, overweight by BMI standards than a weak frail dude on the healthy side of the BMI.

**Pegasus** · 04-19-2012

Still the chart is right for most psople most of the time , fact is weight gain for you most likely would not be healthy.

**AlteredBeast86** · 04-19-2012

Women don't care about weight but they do care about size. She probably wants to see more muscle on you dude, and it's no secret: all chicks love it. Get your cock big and get your muscles big, or at least strong. Look strong, not just for her but for yourself too. I love being jacked man, it has too many advantages I can't even begin to list.

**TheSnitch** · 04-19-2012

Originally Posted by AlteredBeast86

Women don't care about weight but they do care about size. She probably wants to see more muscle on you dude, and it's no secret: all chicks love it. Get your cock big and get your muscles big, or at least strong. Look strong, not just for her but for yourself too. I love being jacked man, it has too many advantages I can't even begin to list.

Chicks do like muscles, but not body builder extreme. At least in the majority - most women like the Brad Pitt in Troy muscle. But, the fact remains she's still your girl. Don't let someone tell you that you need to change. If you want to get big, that's cool but do so for yourself - if she wants a dude with muscles she can go out and get one.

**thenewdude** · 04-19-2012

Well, my wife is thick bones and is '5,6' weighing at 156 where I am slim at '6'2' weighing at 170. Do I care, not really, because my height and weight don't make the man I am, I do.

**Pegasus** · 04-19-2012

I have dated a woman heavier than me and didn't find it a problem at the time
. Recently dated a woman every bit of my height and that wasn't an issue. Would have to say I would prefer not to date women taller or heavier than me these days,