Anyones else often feel tormented by god, karma, or whatever put us here.

[MrBigDick]

I see where you're coming from but wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong.

OK, why is BigO wrong? What makes you think what he's said is incorrect without providing something of substance to back up you calling him out as wrong?

[MrBigDick]

While I understand what you are saying, what about the things that you can not do anything about, a fatal illness for example.

OK, I have a VERY dear friend who is a cancer survivor. Cancer is a well known terminal illness. My friend is also a devoted Catholic and believer in God. Up until recently, she smoked. She made a pact with God that if he wanted her to quit smoking, give her a sign. Sure enough, a small spot developed on her lung. She immediately quit smoking. A terminal illness can be treated if caught early enough, the trick is to do something about it rather than feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing worth having, including one's own life, comes easily.

[amiok]

Yes. God or karma, if any of those things are real I feel I get the short end of the stick. PUN INTENDED big time there.

[ColtAR-15]

I couldn't have said ANY of what you just said BigO any better. There is alot of this "self entitlement" crap going on in society and when things don't measure somehow it becomes God's fault......I personally believe it's that very sentiment that is causing our society in its entirety to decay and the reason our world is as utterly fucked up as it is.

I think I was born ugly. Is that my fault. According to you guys it is. Or is it I am only ugly because I think I am. Mind over matter. Lol feel good BS. That must explain all the women I had to beat off with sticks when I was younger. I haven't let it ruin my life but I do accept that I started off with disadvantages that others did not. Not all of us can be good looking and hung like yourself so I doub't you have any idea of what someone elses shoes feel like as it relates to this. All this you can do anything you want if you put your mind to it, and life is totally what you make stuff is propaganda. Determination can only carry you so far.

Say two guys do a job interview. Both have near identical backgrounds and perform equally well in the interview. One of them is a good looking guy and the other one is not so much. Which one will have the advantage? Both these guys then meet a women in a bar after the interview. Both have good personalities that appeal to her. Which one will she probably choose to continue with? It sure is a tough job being good looking and hung! You can only get crapped on so many times before someone of reasonable intelligence learns to expect it, but I still hope for the best but prepare for the worst for some reason. I am not saying that people in my shoes should give up or think they are entitled ( Im white so I don't gave shit coming in this society) what Im getting at is "A man has got to know his limitations" and face the facts. But then again ignorence can be bliss.

[BigO]

Coltar, you choose to see the half full glass. You have always been hard on yourself, thats your fault. Not GODs or anyone elses. You should ease up on yourself.

[ColtAR-15]

Coltar, you choose to see the half full glass. You have always been hard on yourself, thats your fault. Not GODs or anyone elses. You should ease up on yourself.

When throughout your life you are always given a glass that is "half empty" with a big leak in the bottom for some reason you come to expect it? This PE stuff. I actually had high hopes for this stuff. I busted my ass for over a year for a .25" gain while many others gain 1" plus some girth. It is just so typical I would get fucked on this one to. But yea I now the general spill here. "Your not doing it right, its your fault" and totally ignoring physical differences in penis anatomy. Like so many other things equal work does not equate to equal results. Is that fair? No. But so many still insist on blowing sunshine up everyones ass with the insistence that we are all on equal ground. We are not and I recognize this but this pisses some off who insist that everything is based on merit. It is not! Sorry for the rant.

[Dontrike]

OK, I have a VERY dear friend who is a cancer survivor. Cancer is a well known terminal illness. My friend is also a devoted Catholic and believer in God. Up until recently, she smoked. She made a pact with God that if he wanted her to quit smoking, give her a sign. Sure enough, a small spot developed on her lung. She immediately quit smoking. A terminal illness can be treated if caught early enough, the trick is to do something about it rather than feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing worth having, including one's own life, comes easily.

You can say that, but cancer isn't the worst illness out there. There are plenty of incurable ones that can nothing can be done about. I would know, I have been taking care of my mother and her rare case of multiple sclerosis, gave up my entire teenage life and more to taking care of her, and nothing can be done to save her. The help that kept her out of nursing homes a decade ago doesn't do even a fraction of that now.

If there isn't something ruling this universe, why is it showing me that my help means less and less to the one person I have thrown so much away to help, showing me that I am of not much worth as others. When you give away 11, and in 2 weeks 12, years to someone, damn near devoted your life to helping, and it means nothing anymore and I may not even get an "I love you" from her. While I missed out on life to preserve someone elses and all that person does is verbally and physically abuse me and even tried to kill me.

Do a good thing and get nothing, but hurt from it time and time again. I don't mean this post to be "woe is me" or trying to belittle what your friend went through, but no, sometimes hard work, no matter how long and how much you put into it, will mean nothing. Almost half of my life doing this has proven that.

Does it stop me from doing good things like talking to someone about some random problem they have and talking with them over a few weeks? No, but I am not that good at much and helping someone is all I know how to do. So at the end, when your help means nothing you really have to look and see why you keep failing at the only thing you know how to do. It makes you wonder.

[Hanma]

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