do gay guys seek average or larger endowed guys

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

I am gay myself and think most gays want some who is larger then average but not too big. Please provide your feedback.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

I'd figure a gay person would seek another person for you know stuff like personality and humor and other qualities as such, no?

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

I have no personal experience but I have some gay friends and they pick their relationships the same way straights do.

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

I am wondering because on several occasions guys have asked my size. And also have I am curcumsized or not. I guess that gay guys like straight guys have their preferences. Like some guys someone have a big chest others big bum.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

i wouldn't tell them. Maybe hint at something.
Whenever a girl asks me how big I am I tell her my height. Or I'll put my fingers together really close and say, with a smile and a wink, about this big.

You're a guy. What do you like? Chances are, other guys will like the same thing as you.

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

I think they ask to determine if you are the active partner. If you are too big it may be uncomfortable for them for anal intercourse. Or maybe they prefer that they are larger and want partner who is smaller.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

As in a top or a bottom?

Bottom's would probably have girth limits to be honest.

[nick_85 Member Find all posts View Profile Close nick_85]

I'm sure size is more of an issue for one nighters than it is for relationship. Definately wasnt a consideration when I met my partner.

[Enei Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Enei]

From my own experience its appears alot of men want guys who are big, especially as someone who has already pointed out for one nighters or maybe people just looking for casual sex.. most time if its a relationship they're looking for then they'll accept your size.. my boyfriend who is majorly thicker and bigger then i am has accepted me for myself... he even knows that i do PE.

Again guys who want just sex want someone who is preferably "top" if they're a bottom or if they're top want someone who's "versatile or bottom" majority of the time if they're bottoms then they want someone who is "hung", because they enjoy that sort of thing

[billywilliams Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close billywilliams]

Well in my last relationship my partner was mad because I got too big. I am only 6.25 inches I don't think that is excessive. I will agree I am much thicker now. I cant change my size back so there was not much I could do. I ended my relationship because he refused to be either a top or a bottom for anal. Also if he did do oral it was very cold as he did not want to be touched. And if I did cum he run to the bathroom to shower right away. After I while I just did to participate with sex because it would make me feel bad. I am only doing pe for myself not for any other reason. I don't expect to be more attractive if I get bigger.
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[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Well in my last relationship my partner was mad because I got too big. I am only 6.25 inches I don't think that is excessive. I will agree I am much thicker now. I cant change my size back so there was not much I could do. I ended my relationship because he refused to be either a top or a bottom for anal. Also if he did do oral it was very cold as he did not want to be touched. And if I did cum he run to the bathroom to shower right away. After I while I just did to participate with sex because it would make me feel bad. I am only doing pe for myself not for any other reason. I don't expect to be more attractive if I get bigger.
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Did you ever make an explanation why that person was cold with you - because they do not want to be touched? What the hell where they doing with you?

[Ziege Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ziege]

I ended my relationship because he refused to be either a top or a bottom for anal. Also if he did do oral it was very cold as he did not want to be touched. And if I did cum he run to the bathroom to shower right away. After I while I just did to participate with sex because it would make me feel bad. I am only doing pe for myself not for any other reason. I don't expect to be more attractive if I get bigger.
Please provide your feedback.

Jesus, men do that shit, too? Great, there goes my last-ditch plan!

[dbcub Member Find all posts View Profile Close dbcub]

My bf said if I was bigger he wouldn't let me top him... so don't tell him I'm on here! lol

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Jesus, men do that shit, too? Great, there goes my last-ditch plan!

That's why I asked the question. I'm straight but have seen the behavior on some females. I believe in those situations, they were there for something else, but did some "obligatory" sexual things, it usually felt cold and managed.

[Ziege Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ziege]

Women seem to be able to turn that on and off, in my experience. Women can be awfully manipulative when it comes to sex.