Why are men expected to have huge cocks, but its okay for women to haveloose vaginas?

[Ivor]

I feel like women hold a double standard against us, it seems that society places more pressure on the man to have a big tool but its okay for a women to let themselves get loose, this does not seem equal. I think it should be equal.

I think you mean YOU place pressure on YOURSELF to have a big tool. Most women are probably a lot less obsessed with dick size than you think they are. Seriously, this whole thing is far more about guys measuring themselves up against other guys than it is about women saying "Huge dick or GTFO".

[6-Speed]

guys can jelq...what can girls do to make them tighter

[BigO]

guys can jelq...what can girls do to make them tighter

Kegels, yoga, overall exercising and learning how to work the pelvic muscles, ben-wa balls and most likely some other things I am not aware of. Hope that answers your question.

[draggin]

Don't you have school work, or tv to watch or something? You worrying about shit that doesn't exist. And even if it did, there is nothing you can do about it. In otherwords, women don't expect guys to have huge dicks, as you say. I think you are watching too much porn.

[bipaw]

Hahaha Ivor I've only heard of one girl say that one guys dick so was tiny it was gross and a turn off so she left there on the spot. Funny how I never had the same image of that guy again, but anyways I highly doubt many of those ladies exist where they will pull out a tape and be like hmmm your girth times the length divided by pie... no we cant have sex goodbye.

[Ivor]

I think what's going on here is that the OP expects women to expect men to have huge cocks.

[irmilpelte]

Think about this - girls/women generally make up their mind about whether to sleep with a guy or not before ever knowing the size of his dick. Girls can't see your dick before deciding so it factors zero in most cases. So if you're spending all your self-improvement time on your dick thinking it's going to help you get laid more, you're probably wrong.

I feel like there's way more pressure physically on girls, since whether they're well-endowed or not is readily apparent to the general public. If you think about that, the ones who aren't well-endowed cope with it pretty damn well. Imagine if you were in the bottom 5-10% of dick size and it was unavoidable that your dick were on display all the time.

In my opinion the only time dick size would factor in either helping or hurting you get sex is if you're incredibly small (she might leave you after she finds out you're in the bottom x%, but I think that x is a pretty small number here) or if you're in the top y% - so big that girls you've hooked up with have talked to their girlfriends about your unit - it might help you get a few extra lays. Again, I think y is a pretty small number here. My guess is that with most women, if you're within 2 standard deviations of the mean on either side and your woman likes your personality and values, you're a-okay.

[samsi4life]

Lol this is just such a lol this question

[Dick Whammy]

Great Question!! Maybe that is how this whole "BIG DICK NECESSITY" started. Gotta fill the flappy frickin' hole up!

OR

You can buy a Virgin for $70 (fles*Light) ;-) (and no I don't own one,,,but was thinking about it!)

[4herpleasure]

Don't you have school work, or tv to watch or something? You worrying about shit that doesn't exist. And even if it did, there is nothing you can do about it. In otherwords, women don't expect guys to have huge dicks, as you say. I think you are watching too much porn.

As much as I want to agree with you and others from your generation.
Whether you realize it or not, todays day and age girls do not have the same outlook on penis size or sex in general for that matter... girls are actually watching porn at ages of 15-16 now.
Maybe not to get off, but more for curiosity and they have this image in there head of what a cock should look like before they have even seen one in real life.
And I've had two girls cheat on me and just not be interested anymore because of my smaller penis...and they actually told me that's the reason I'm not assuming btw.
But I am with my gf now who is much older than me cause I don't deal with little immature girls anymore.