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    Historically-speaking; women’s sexual liberation is still relatively new. The challenge is that as women attempt to claim their newfound sexual freedom, many think the best way to charter these unknown waters is through role reversal. That is, behaving sexually as (they believe) men do. The irony, of course, is that many of the sexual attributes they criticized men for women are now doing themselves; more specifically, the sexual objectification of the opposite sex.

    As a result, we are witnessing, for the first time in history, the harmful psychological effects of objectification on men that have plagued women for as long as anyone can remember; most importantly, a negative body image.

    Now there are certainly some women who embrace role reversal as a sort of payback, but the majority of (mostly young) women simply use it because they have yet to discover their own sexual guidelines. In short, they are looking to men’s sexual behaviour and beliefs to determine their own.

    By understanding this, instead of blaming women solely for the rise of the superficial “size queen” perhaps it may be time for men to recognize their role in creating that unrealistic perception in the first place.

    For example; how often have males done the following while in the presence of females:

    …bragged about the size of their penis?

    …exaggerated their penis size?

    …claimed sexual virility based solely on penis size?

    …ribbed and teased each other about penis size and function?

    …etc.

    So...how do men expect women to have a realistic perception and acceptance of the male penis (we don’t have one, remember?) when many men seldom have it themselves? If men want women to change their unrealistic “penis” perspectives to something more factual perhaps men should lead by example?
    TPW
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    Last edited by TPW; 09-09-2013, 01:00 PM.


  • #2
    Brilliant post, TPW!

    I think it's right on the money, and quite eye-opening!

    And now we men can finally understand what makes all you women so crazy!
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    • #3
      This girl I took her virginity away from, I always downplayed my size prior saying I was 2 inches. I still do this to this day with new girls so they won't be expecting much. But now, she says I've made her into a size queen, and other guys (past or future) won't compare; she even got a dildo for herself and named it after me, lol.
      Restart [4/17/16] 7.5 BPSFL • 7.25 BPEL • 5.125 USEG • 5.75 MSEG • 6.25 BSEG (not valid)
      Goal 1 [7/17/16] 7.75 BPSFL • 7.5 BPEL • 5.25 USEG •
      6 MSEG • 6.25 BSEG

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      • #4
        Men have to lead by example? Oh gee that puts the pressure all on us. I hate when they do that. Okay I'll lead but someone explain to me where we're going? Interesting thought though; we created our own issues. Sounds familiar but I usually hear it said another way, kind of like; "It's all your fault"!
        The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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        • #5
          Actually I don't really think men did that, but I'm sure porn has fucked up young people's mind, including women's.

          Obviously one of the factor is, young women , now even more free than men in sex , want to experience life and what men have to offer!

          If men contributed to initiate that it clearly isn't a sole men responsibility.

          Men bragging about their sizes is mostly a defensive behaviour in my opinion. Maybe women like a bit of bragging as well? Showing plenty of confidence can be quite attractive.
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          • #6
            Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
            Men have to lead by example? Oh gee that puts the pressure all on us. I hate when they do that. Okay I'll lead but someone explain to me where we're going? Interesting thought though; we created our own issues. Sounds familiar but I usually hear it said another way, kind of like; "It's all your fault"!
            LOL...that's because it usually is your fault!!

            Seriously though, I don't think men intentionally meant to set themselves up to be scrutinized for their penis size and its functionality; it was simply an unexpected result of not knowing that women were paying attention and following their lead. The good news is that men may have created this "monster" but that means they can also un-create it too.

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            • #7
              How many "real " women really care about dick size? I truly think that women care more about being treated nicely and all that sappy stuff and dick size really didn't make all that much difference. Maybe I'm wrong? Heaven forbid!
              The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by popol5169 View Post
                Actually I don't really think men did that, but I'm sure porn has fucked up young people's mind, including women's.

                Obviously one of the factor is, young women , now even more free than men in sex , want to experience life and what men have to offer!

                If men contributed to initiate that it clearly isn't a sole men responsibility.

                Men bragging about their sizes is mostly a defensive behaviour in my opinion. Maybe women like a bit of bragging as well? Showing plenty of confidence can be quite attractive.
                I agree that there are certainly other factors that have contributed to this issue and men are not the sole responsibility but I would use caution when using Porn as your example to clarify your point because Porn is a male-dominated industry; operated more by men and depicting more of what men want. Which means that men, not women, have ultimately harmed themselves with these unrealistic depictions.

                All I am saying is that many men have unknowingly had a hand in creating "the size-queen monster". And like Frankenstein's monster, the "size-queen" has since become it's own entity.

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                • #9
                  I believe it is instinctual for men to I feel that they need to have bigger and better than the other person does. Men want a bigger house, a bigger dog, more money, or whatever else is comparable.

                  • I bragged about the size of my cock in a funny manner
                  • I have not exaggerated my penis size too much (i have rounded up for easier understanding and i am talking up to the 1/8")
                  • I have not claimed increased virility because of my size
                  • I don't remember teasing a guy about my dick being larger than another’s


                  Women can have a correct perception of penis size the same ways men can. They can read information. It is unfortunate that men on this forum have a hard time believing that a penis that is 6 ½ inches long is big. I have read that it is larger than 90% of the population! At 7 ½ inches long a man is in the top 5% for penis length.

                  It does not matter who is telling people on this forum whether it be a moderator or just someone who knows what the average size is. Many men just want a bigger dick and do not care how big they are. I am in this same group because at 7 ½ x 5 ¾ I am using an extender every day. I believe that anyone over 6 ½ inches is a large cock and anything over 7 ½ is huge and 8+ is ginormous. It makes it angry to hear people say that they have a small cock when they are so much above average.

                  Men have always judged women and woman have always judged men. Nothing has really changed.
                  PE is a lot like sex. First you have to find your technique, rotate your routine, and then plan on it taking a while. Then you will find satisfaction.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                    How many "real " women really care about dick size? I truly think that women care more about being treated nicely and all that sappy stuff and dick size really didn't make all that much difference. Maybe I'm wrong? Heaven forbid!
                    And therein, my dear Cusp, lies the irony...you are absolutely right! The vast majority of women do NOT care about penis size and yet when we tell men that, they still don't believe us. Could it be, as my thread indicated, because many men don't believe it themselves?
                    TPW
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                    Member of the Month Oct 2013
                    Last edited by TPW; 09-09-2013, 05:35 PM.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by T.P.W. View Post
                      And there, my dear Cusp, lies the irony...you are absolutely right! The vast majority of women do NOT care about penis size and yet when we tell men that, they still don't believe us. Could it be, as my thread indicated, because many men don't believe it themselves?
                      Women do care about penis size! It can't be too small or too big. We can learn a lot from Goldilocks.
                      PE is a lot like sex. First you have to find your technique, rotate your routine, and then plan on it taking a while. Then you will find satisfaction.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by T.P.W. View Post
                        And there, my dear Cusp, lies the irony...you are absolutely right! The vast majority of women do NOT care about penis size and yet when we tell men that, they still don't believe us. Could it be, as my thread indicated, because many men don't believe it themselves?
                        ^ This... I don't believe.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by DaddyDick View Post
                          Women do care about penis size! It can't be too small or too big. We can learn a lot from Goldilocks.
                          But DD...I AM a woman and I have never cared about penis size nor have the many women I have spoken to and interviewed...we need to be careful about making generalizations as that is just what they are...generalizations.

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                          • #14
                            While I agree with your post in general, I tend to believe that 'size queens' are not superficial at all, while the term is used rather negatively, I don't find it to be so, the way I see it is "Different people have different tastes and needs".

                            A penis plays a physiological role during intercourse, with the required expertise, intentions and appropriate (highly subjective) size it stimulates the vagina in different ways and causes different sensations ultimately leading to the female's pleasure, rather than just being eye candy like how it is to men when it comes to breast sizes.

                            If the penis doesn't meet at least a certain minimum requirement then it can't provide physical stimulation to the vagina thus be deemed unsatisfactory, so we cant really blame a lady for wanting what makes her content.

                            I'm not saying that penis size or any other body part is the main or of sole importance factor to a successful relationship, far from it, but for some, it matters to varying degrees, and also that desired size may not be as huge and rare as many portray it to be.

                            As for the porn industry, I don't understand why men like to watch/create those stereotype sizes and combinations, personally, it is much more enjoyable watching regular sized people than those huge monsters (not that there's anything wrong with them), and yet see genuine pleasure in the woman's eyes.
                            A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by T.P.W. View Post
                              And there, my dear Cusp, lies the irony...you are absolutely right! The vast majority of women do NOT care about penis size and yet when we tell men that, they still don't believe us. Could it be, as my thread indicated, because many men don't believe it themselves?
                              Number one I love when someone says I'm right, even if I'm not which we all know doesn't happen that often.
                              Number two- hey maybe it us that not only have created it but when told over and over and over and over again that it doesn't mean anything we still don't believe it. As a man, I really care if my partner was nice, cute, fun loving, had a brain ( just not too much of a brain-that could lead to trouble); tits and stuff never really made it on my list.
                              The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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