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    No-fap and no-porn is good and all, have more free time etc. But it just struck me, that I'm a 24 y/o virgin and I have no clue how to approach a woman, flirt, ask her on a date and so on. That is mind-blowing, didn't really think about it before. I don't know anyone like that, so there is no one I could ask for help, go out together etc. This even tempts me to get back to porn and fapping.

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    How about just going out and try talking to females. There is no better way to learn how to do something then experience. If you goof or are really awkward its a learning experience. If you get rejected know that not everyone is going to be into you and there a billions of other females so there has got to be some that are into you. The more you do it the easier it will become until you find a women you connect with on more then just a physical attraction. Good luck man. Dont go back to porn it pales in comparison to real women and it does your senses no justice. By that i mean the feel, taste, smell, sound and sight of a women before you cannot be emulated by porn or any device, its one of a kind.
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    • #3
      This is exactly what I mean. "Go out" - I don't know what that means, just on the street? No one does that. Also talk with a female, I have no comprehension how to do it, I of course can like with a man, but how to do it differently I have no idea.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by milfdestroyer View Post
        This is exactly what I mean. "Go out" - I don't know what that means, just on the street? No one does that. Also talk with a female, I have no comprehension how to do it, I of course can like with a man, but how to do it differently I have no idea.
        Do you ever go out to places. Work, school fast food movies anything. It could be your waiting in a line, Sitting at a restaurant or shopping at the grocery store. You dont have to be at a party or a club anywhere where there are people.
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        • #5
          24 and lost on the subject of women...you don't know anybody else like that? I didn't know how to do any of that stuff when I was 24 either. Have you considered online dating? I found it to be significantly easier for the anxious (me) than approaching people in the real world. For the record, approaching people isn't that hard actually, it just seems like it (listen to Iclutchl on this), they are just humans too.
          Just a regular dick on a forum all about guys.

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          • #6
            Just live; you'll figure it out. Everybody else does!
            The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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            • #7
              Everyone I know is either married or has a girlfriend.
              How does a male talk with a female if he wants sex with her? How is it different from regular talking?

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              • #8
                Don't judge how you're doing by how those around you are doing.
                “Spirituality is not to be learned by flight from the world. We must learn an inner solitude wherever or with whomsoever we may be. We must learn to penetrate things and find God there.” - Eckhart


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                • #9
                  girls usually come around when you arent thinking about it.just when you think the coast is clear and you fart or something one will walk in and try to find something or whatever right after you farted lol.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by heretohelp View Post
                    Don't judge how you're doing by how those around you are doing.
                    Why? Of course it's good do discount the extremes, but it's OK to compare oneself to the average. Women wouldn't assume that I'm a virgin, I have to keep that in mind.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by milfdestroyer View Post
                      Everyone I know is either married or has a girlfriend.
                      How does a male talk with a female if he wants sex with her? How is it different from regular talking?
                      You young guys are killing me! You don't just talk to a girl to have sex with. You kind of talk and build a relationship and the next thing you know you're in bed together! This is all common sense; if you don't have any go buy some on Ebay! Geez!
                      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by milfdestroyer View Post
                        Why? Of course it's good do discount the extremes, but it's OK to compare oneself to the average. Women wouldn't assume that I'm a virgin, I have to keep that in mind.
                        Wouldn't they?

                        Pfft. Why do all 20 something male virgins think they're rare?

                        Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                        You young guys are killing me! You don't just talk to a girl to have sex with. You kind of talk and build a relationship and the next thing you know you're in bed together! This is all common sense; if you don't have any go buy some on Ebay! Geez!
                        “Spirituality is not to be learned by flight from the world. We must learn an inner solitude wherever or with whomsoever we may be. We must learn to penetrate things and find God there.” - Eckhart


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                        • #13
                          I have talked with many dudes and girls but no relationship or sex ensued.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by heretohelp View Post
                            Wouldn't they?

                            Pfft. Why do all 20 something male virgins think they're rare?



                            Because it is rare.

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                            • #15
                              Honey, it isn't, not by a long shot. You'd be surprised by how many men I've talked to that are in the same position as you and just tell others they've had sex. Thus everyone is dishonest and nobody knows that it's common and normal so they feel like they have to lie and everything comes full circle.
                              “Spirituality is not to be learned by flight from the world. We must learn an inner solitude wherever or with whomsoever we may be. We must learn to penetrate things and find God there.” - Eckhart


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