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    Need Help/Reboot

    I wanna keep this short so here we go. In a couple of posts I made, I've stated that I have no confidence because imma a virgin, has a small penis and im short. And that confidence doesn't matter at all and I know I probably came off as a crybaby. But I think its frustration being a 19 year old male that hasn't had any sexual experience. And it translates to me dry humping my bed not prone but on my side. I had a no fap/porn goal to until I had sex and to cut out porn for good.

    Well after 31 days I gave in and watched some porn resulting in masturbation until I busted. I had a relapse and I was disappointed. And I have tried to restart my no fap/porn plan about a week ago, that's when I relapsed but I can't go 2 days without me thinking about sex and dry humping/masturbating. The urge kicks in when Im laying in the bed when I have nothing else to do. Its not like I don't do anything at all, actually im a full time student at a community college (planning on tranferring to an university next semester) , part time worker, also going to the gym 4-5 days a week. I've tried PE plenty of times, when I'm tried I just have no ambition to do PE. I don't do it fir the gains even though I have a small girth (4.5) lengths ok (6.1-6.5) because of upward curve. I actually do it for the health of my penis. I used to have rock hard erections easily 10/10, I still get them sometimes but not there 8.5/10 on average.

    LOL at the begin I said it was going to be short but it's long anyways. But honestly I just need some advice. I know I'm a normal 19 year old male that's horny as hell but I really need some help.And I know it sounds like I'm not your average college male that just wants to fuck girls . Don't get me wrong sex has been on my mind 24/7 some days but I want my first time to be with a girl I have feelings for and not just a one night stand.

    I just wanna reboot my mind completely from porn,sex,masturbation,etc.
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    Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

    Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

    Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

    Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

    The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1


    The great porn experiment! - Porn leads to ED.

    Porn Detox - Join In

    Porn causing my Premature Ejaculation?

    The Porn Myth

    Advantages of quitting porn

    The AP90 (Anti-Porn)


    Please don't base your confidence on your penis, and honestly, there is nothing wrong with your size.

    There is a lot more to a man than his penis size, get out, find someone and enjoy your life.

    You will find a lot of great advice in the threads above.
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      Here is your problem: You think about sex most of the day (just like most guys including myself) yet you don't want to have it unless it's with someone special. It sounds to me like you need to get out there and explore the waters so to speak. If you're sitting at home to a point where your dry humping your bed, you have too much time on your hands. My advice: Get a fake ID or gain access to the downtown area of where ever it is you live. Then go hit on girls as much as possible (at a bar or social area). It doesn't matter if you succeed or get burned, just do it. By doing this you will gain experience and certainly know what it is like to fail, before eventually feeling the sweet taste of success. In addition, you'll feel more natural being around hot girls that when you go to college, you'll end up getting laid without even trying. << Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Just do it and quite thinking so much. Good luck.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by CptnD View Post
        Here is your problem: You think about sex most of the day (just like most guys including myself) yet you don't want to have it unless it's with someone special. It sounds to me like you need to get out there and explore the waters so to speak. If you're sitting at home to a point where your dry humping your bed, you have too much time on your hands. My advice: Get a fake ID or gain access to the downtown area of where ever it is you live. Then go hit on girls as much as possible (at a bar or social area). It doesn't matter if you succeed or get burned, just do it. By doing this you will gain experience and certainly know what it is like to fail, before eventually feeling the sweet taste of success. In addition, you'll feel more natural being around hot girls that when you go to college, you'll end up getting laid without even trying. << Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Just do it and quite thinking so much. Good luck.
        See that's the problem. I really skeptic on having sex with some normal girl especially at a club or at school because I know they have experience and I don't. And they say performance anxiety isn't good but I know I will have it regardless because if my size and no experience.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by MrB8 View Post
          https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...inch-dick.html

          https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...ity-411-a.html

          https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...ld-virgin.html

          https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...ll-virgin.html




          Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

          Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

          Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

          Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

          The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1


          The great porn experiment! - Porn leads to ED.

          Porn Detox - Join In

          Porn causing my Premature Ejaculation?

          The Porn Myth

          Advantages of quitting porn

          The AP90 (Anti-Porn)


          Please don't base your confidence on your penis, and honestly, there is nothing wrong with your size.

          There is a lot more to a man than his penis size, get out, find someone and enjoy your life.

          You will find a lot of great advice in the threads above.
          Thanks B8 ! You're always helping me out no matter what. I really wanna turn myself around for good and break these habits because I'm getting tried of it. I really appreciate it.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
            Thanks B8 ! You're always helping me out no matter what. I really wanna turn myself around for good and break these habits because I'm getting tried of it. I really appreciate it.
            Glad to be of help!

            Good luck!
            A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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            • #7
              Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
              Thanks B8 ! You're always helping me out no matter what. I really wanna turn myself around for good and break these habits because I'm getting tried of it. I really appreciate it.
              My advice would be to get out of the house, make an effort to join a club, preferably a fitness club, martial arts or something where you have to physically interact with people like yourself, your own age.

              This way your not sitting round with the temptation of a computer full of internet porn, your making friends and getting more confident speaking to and physically making contact with other human beings that will give you encouragement too.

              Doing some physical exercise will improve your health, your outlook on life, your PE efforts and attractiveness to the opposite sex. Stay positive!
              "Those who know others have knowledge,
              those who know themselves have insight.
              Those who master others have force,
              those who master themselves have strength". - Lao Tzu

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              • #8
                Dude it honestly does not matter. They don't know what you do or don't have, or what you have or have not done. As far as they know, you taught Austin Powers how to shag. As far as you know, every girl you succeed at hooking up with is a virgin, and that's as good as it gets! Do you wan't to have Excusitis and remain inexperienced through college or do you want to get with some girls, gain experience while beating your fears, and become a sex machine?!

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                • #9
                  Everyone was a virgin at one point in their life and there is NOTHING WRONG with being a virgin!!

                  Masturbation is a part of human nature, it's the porn that isn't. Instead of watching porn, imagine it in your head. After awhile of retraining your brain and penis, your erections will be rock hard and back to normal.

                  Now, while saying that. You should not masturbate everyday or multiple times a day as this will desensitize your penis for when you do have sex.

                  You will be so used to your hand, you will not be able to enjoy a woman because your penis is "trained " for hand use only. There are some sex toys that act like a vagina that may help you out. With some lube, it will feel almost like the real thing. They are easy to clean and hide.

                  When the time is right, I have no doubt that you will find the one to share this special moment with. =)
                  I will never apologize for being me. People should apologize for asking me to be anything else.

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