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  • Do you feel pathetic as a man ?

    I just wonder have any of you guys one day just looked as your penis and felt that you didn't feel anything like a man because of your size ? Did you feel that the penis you have wouldn't satisfy any woman ever ? Sometimes have you felt that you didn't deserve to be a man because of your size ? Has your penis size made you feel pathetic sometimes ?

    In some point in time I know every man insecure about their penis has asked themselve these questions before. And to tell the truth I almost ask myself these questions everyday. And I know the penis doesn't make the man but sometimes it feels that way.

  • #2
    I think many people feel bad about themselves at some point, the thing is, you should not surrender to that negative feeling, no one is pathetic because of his penis size, nor he is superior because of it either, a penis is part of your anatomy, you are not a part of your penis.

    As stated numerous times by the ladies here, and as a response to most questioning males by their respective lady partners, size doesn't matter, confidence, health and knowing what your doing does matter, but above all, loving her and caring for her are the most important.

    There are many things that make a male a real man, none of which is penis or sex related, in my opinion, focusing it all on the penis has a great hit on it all.

    A male with huge penis may or may not be pathetic, because of many other things about him, its about how he perceives things, himself, his surroundings, and his partner and relationship, same thing with a male with an average or even below average sized penis, its all in the mind.

    The brain is the biggest sex organ, it makes everything what they are, positivity spreads, and negativity spreads too, choose what you want to spread in your relationship and go for it.
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      Never had;never will. Okay what's for lunch?
      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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      • #4
        Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
        I just wonder have any of you guys one day just looked as your penis and felt that you didn't feel anything like a man because of your size ? Did you feel that the penis you have wouldn't satisfy any woman ever ? Sometimes have you felt that you didn't deserve to be a man because of your size ? Has your penis size made you feel pathetic sometimes ?

        In some point in time I know every man insecure about their penis has asked themselve these questions before. And to tell the truth I almost ask myself these questions everyday. And I know the penis doesn't make the man but sometimes it feels that way.
        I didn't feel like I wasn't a man because of my size but just was down about my size. It was a good size but I wanted it to be bigger. I knew it would satisfy whoever I was going to be pleasing and that size isn't the issue with being a great lover. There are more things to use besides a dick to pleasure your lover. You've got quite a few tools like your fingers, and your tongue. Use them wisely and be confident with yourself because women or men, depending on who you are pleasuring, will find confidence to be a turn on.
        Aiming for a bigger, healthier willy!

        Golf's progress log
        Start of PE (16.7.2013)
        BPEL: 6.75" MSEG: 5.25"
        Current (16.1.2019)
        BPEL: 18.7 cm MSEG: 13.5 cm

        Foreskin regeneration is a possible way to undo circumcision

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        • #5
          Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
          Never had;never will. Okay what's for lunch?
          Battered haddock with natural polyunsaturated fatty acids.
          "I will lick my dick"

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          • #6
            Well, I started out above average, so no, I have never thought that. But even IF I had not, I would have done all I could (and I STILL have) to make sure that I focused not only on my penis, but in how to be a COMPLETE lover. As has been pointed out (especially by the females), there is a LOT more that goes into being efficient in the bedroom and overall confidence than penis size alone.

            It is indeed an imbedded focus upon males in general, as often times we have been programmed to believe that the source of all masculinity is in our physical prowess, particularly in being well hung.

            But this more often than not is more a product of our own mindset, than an actual necessity, particularly when it comes to satisfying a lady, or our overall sense of self-worth. Even with very average to below average stats, a man can still do VERY well with the opposite sex, and as a lover overall. Working on OVERALL physical appearance and health also goes very well into building self esteem and feeling better about oneself, as well as making us more aesthetically pleasing to the opposite sex, which in turn brings confidence and lessens that feeling of inadequacy from merely the size of our manhood.
            Started - 6.25" NBP / 7" BP x 4.75" EG

            Short goal -7.25"(goal reached!)NBP** 8.25"BPEL x 5.75" EG (goal reached!)

            Long term goal - 8"NBP ** 9" BPEL x 6"EG

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            • #7
              Never have I ever
              12-5-11 --- 7-4-14
              5.9
              6.1.2.3.4.5.6.7.8.9 7.1.2.3
              .4.5.6.7.8.9
              4.7.8.9 5.1.2.3.4.5.6.7

              Beginner's Guide-What to Expect
              The League Of PE Legends
              2014 Make Your Dick Bigger Challenge!!!

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              • #8
                Nope. Nothing has made me not feel like a man.
                I've never really bought into all the "real men act like this" or "true men have this quality" stuff. We all have different bodies and personalities (except some twins).
                Plenty of stuff has made me feel like I'm failing at life though, but I try and focus on what can be achieved in the future/present rather than dwell on past bad decisions. Not always easy to do.
                The Newt's Progress

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                • #9
                  No. As a matter of fact I worship myself.
                  Started at: 6.9 Bpfsl
                  Currently at: 7.25 Bpfsl / 6.875 Bpel / 4.6 MG
                  Goal: 7.5 Bpel / 7.0 Nbpel / 5.5 MG

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                  • #10
                    Always keep in mind that women agree to be in an intimate relationship with you before you ever get your pants off. Most women wouldn't choose to stay in or discontinue that relationship based on penis size alone except in extreme cases at either end of the size spectrum. It was you as a man that got the girl to go to bed with you, not your penis.
                    Beginning stats: BPFSL 7 5/8" BPEL 7.25" EG 5.5"
                    Current: BPFSL 8 5/8" BPEL 8" EG 5.5"

                    Dan's log
                    https://www.pegym.com/forums/progress-forum/72045-dans-log.html

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                    • #11
                      Nope, technical im a man because I have a penis, but the size of my penis has never played a part in how much of a man I am. Im a man because I stick up for myself and others I love, protect and provide for my family however I can, and I know how to please a women without my penis mentally, emotionaly, and your Damn sure physicaly.
                      She came, I saw, my penis conquered!

                      11/5/2013
                      Bpel 7.2
                      Meg 4.7

                      4/1/2104
                      Bpel 7.75
                      Meg 4.9

                      9/23/2014
                      Bpel 7.75
                      Meg 5.25

                      Short term goal
                      Bpel 7.9
                      Meg 5.1

                      End goal
                      bpel 8.25
                      Meg 6

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                      • #12
                        Way back in the 90's I was married. I was young, optimistic, trusting, and had high hopes for my life. Sure I had some concern about my size, way in the back of my mind. This came from reading Penthouse Forum, seeing porn, and hearing jokes about penis size. But it didn't matter because I was happily married and had a decent sex life.

                        Then things began to change. The wife no longer wanted sex of any kind...little did I know at the time this rule only applied to me. Needless to say she cheated on me. In this case (because there were many more), due to circumstances, she had no choice but to admit that she cheated. We had fights and went to counseling. At one point during a fight she got right up into my face, gave me a nasty little smirk, and informed me that her lover had a much bigger dick than mine. Later, after we had made up, I asked her out right if what she said was true. She told me yes...and actually told me that it was more pleasurable. By the look on her face it was obvious that she took great pleasure in providing this information to me. (Note: I know now that she has some very deep seeded issues with sex due to childhood molestation, but that didn't excuse her taking great pleasure in hurting me.)

                        I was emotionally crushed. At that point I felt like I was less of a man because of my size. I became determined to find a way to rectify my situation. I found the old PE forum and started my journey. I gained some good size with PE back then, but ultimately it didn't matter. I divorced my my wife because it was impossible for me to make her happy because she was so unhappy with herself.

                        I have remarried and I am much happier. I no longer look in the mirror and feel insecure or unhappy with myself in any way. As far as penis size. I know I am in the top percentage, especially in girth. My penis is the biggest my wife has ever had.

                        I would still like to be bigger, but honestly it is more about my ego than anything else. Remember, lesbians satisfy each other sexually without ever worrying about penis size.
                        (Late 1999): 6" BPEL x 5.25" MSEG
                        (Early 2001): 7" BPEL x 5.75"MSEG (mostly Hanging/Jelqing)
                        Aug 16th 2015: 7.375" BPEL x 6" MSEG
                        Goal: I have retired from PE - So my goal is just maintaining.

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                        • #13
                          Thank you for sharing your story and I am glad that you are happily married once again.
                          Aiming for a bigger, healthier willy!

                          Golf's progress log
                          Start of PE (16.7.2013)
                          BPEL: 6.75" MSEG: 5.25"
                          Current (16.1.2019)
                          BPEL: 18.7 cm MSEG: 13.5 cm

                          Foreskin regeneration is a possible way to undo circumcision

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                          • #14
                            Nope, never felt that way. Sad that some do, however.

                            Good on you Sean Jacobs for remarrying. I would never remarry in that situation.
                            My Log: EQ | Foreskin Restoration w TLC Tugger

                            Overall Goals
                            1. Maintain Optimal EQ (10 / 10)
                            2. Full Foreskin Restoration (100% flaccid coverage)

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Golf1094 View Post
                              Thank you for sharing your story and I am glad that you are happily married once again.
                              I try to look at things in a positive light. I am a better, stronger, more confident man because of my previous marriage. I appreciate my current wife all the more because of that experience. Also, I have a bigger penis. Bad times often teach the best lessons.
                              (Late 1999): 6" BPEL x 5.25" MSEG
                              (Early 2001): 7" BPEL x 5.75"MSEG (mostly Hanging/Jelqing)
                              Aug 16th 2015: 7.375" BPEL x 6" MSEG
                              Goal: I have retired from PE - So my goal is just maintaining.

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