Pre-PE Lover Wants You Now

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Question: A past lover, from your pre-PE days, contacts you (facebook, email, phone call, bumped into him or her at the grocery store, whatever) and he or she is very interested in hooking up (no relationship, just fun and sex). Let's say that you have now reached your PE goal. Let's further say this person is someone with who you have no interest in a relationship for whatever reason (don't find him or her attractive, you are already in a relationship, the person is a bit to crazy for your taste, etc.) Would you be more tempted to hook up with this person just to see his or her reaction?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

No. EXs are EXs for a reason. Their loss; the bigger peen.

[mannakonda Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mannakonda]

Yea I would have loved to show them my new tool

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Go for it, unless they likely to boil you rabbits.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

I'm sure it's very tempting, but it won't end very well for you if the gf finds out. An ex is an ex for a reason. Her loss!

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Question: A past lover, from your pre-PE days, contacts you (facebook, email, phone call, bumped into him or her at the grocery store, whatever) and he or she is very interested in hooking up (no relationship, just fun and sex). Let's say that you have now reached your PE goal. Let's further say this person is someone with who you have no interest in a relationship for whatever reason (don't find him or her attractive, you are already in a relationship, the person is a bit to crazy for your taste, etc.) Would you be more tempted to hook up with this person just to see his or her reaction?

If I am already in a relationship, the no matter what, my answer is NO NO NO and NEVER.

Otherwise, for me, personally, its not about competing nor showing off.

I also am not interested in relationship free sex, I prefer long term real relationships.

It doesn't make sense to me as how I wouldn't find them attractive or find them crazy if they were my ex, how were we together in the past then? But anyways, its not for show, competition.