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    Ashamed of sexuality?

    Hi.

    This is something I've observed about myself. Except for my efforts with PE, I find everything else about sexuality shameful to myself.

    I cannot help it.

    Thinking about kissing, thinking about girls, having crushes, commenting on a girl's appearance, watching porn, even being married- shameful.

    I'm doing PE for the sake of self-development because I truly believe that with effort I can transform myself. But I am not settling easily into the idea of sexuality. I am 19 years old.

    I appreciate multiple opinions.

    Thanks,

    A3
    All for a healthy lifestyle!
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    19? You're still young and have lots to learn. Hey maybe girls just aren't your thing. Nothing bad about it.
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      What is shameful about it?

      Is it sexuality in general as in you find sex shameful, or a certain aspect of it?
      A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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      • #4
        Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
        19? You're still young and have lots to learn. Hey maybe girls just aren't your thing. Nothing bad about it.
        Guys aren't my thing. And this could be an effect of porn.
        All for a healthy lifestyle!

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        • #5
          Maybe you're A-Sexual. In which, I think is nifty; more time and focus to become a billionaire.
          You never slow down, you never grow old!

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          • #6
            Your 19 years old.

            basically if it has a pulse nail it.

            end of discussion.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Ill-gotten-gains View Post
              Your 19 years old.

              basically if it has a pulse nail it.

              end of discussion.
              Wait... what!?
              You never slow down, you never grow old!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Ill-gotten-gains View Post
                Your 19 years old.

                basically if it has a pulse nail it.

                end of discussion.
                Pretty sure my pet has a pulse
                All for a healthy lifestyle!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Anchorage3 View Post
                  Pretty sure my pet has a pulse
                  You never slow down, you never grow old!

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                  • #10
                    Hey Anchorage. I do think in time, as you mature further and also, when you get over this crush of yours ==> https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...ne-moving.html , you'll find it a normal healthy thing and not shameful at all. I do think this crush thing has messed you up a bit and porn as well. Kick those two habits and see where you're at after that Good luck to ya!
                    Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
                    If you want love, give love.
                    If you want honesty, give honesty.
                    If you want respect, give respect.
                    You get in return, what you give.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by someone_like_u View Post
                      Hey Anchorage. I do think in time, as you mature further and also, when you get over this crush of yours ==> https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...ne-moving.html , you'll find it a normal healthy thing and not shameful at all. I do think this crush thing has messed you up a bit and porn as well. Kick those two habits and see where you're at after that Good luck to ya!

                      I always thought it was just porn, but my other obsession has affected me too.
                      All for a healthy lifestyle!

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                      • #12
                        GUYS GUYS GUYS...

                        I am no longer ashamed of my sexuality!

                        I am heterosexual and proud

                        AND

                        I've gotten over that obsession with a girl!! I've replaced it with a balanced life a good conversation with many girls.!
                        All for a healthy lifestyle!

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Anchorage3 View Post
                          Hi.

                          This is something I've observed about myself. Except for my efforts with PE, I find everything else about sexuality shameful to myself.

                          I cannot help it.

                          Thinking about kissing, thinking about girls, having crushes, commenting on a girl's appearance, watching porn, even being married- shameful

                          A3

                          A) This is what religion does to people...

                          B) from an esoteric view its easy to see the carnality of it. It can be off putting. (I personally try and block out any of these thoughts) Sexuality is part of our species and should learnt to be enjoyed. We are afterall stuck in carnality.

                          C) Sex, Music, Art .... these are the divine and the transcendent.

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                          • #14
                            Like anything else in life, if misused, abused, obsessed over, if allowed to become the most important thing in ones life, or, if ignored, feared, and avoided, then yes, sex can be shame inducing. The trick is knowing what is right and wrong, in discerning how human sexuality is supposed to be. And for me, an eye opening education regarding human sexuality as God intended it from the beginning, is Pope John Paul 2's Theology of the Body, no shame, just beauty.
                            2014-05-03 BPEL 7.00, EG 5.50, BPFSL 7.25, FG 4.60
                            2014-07-11 BPEL 7.12, EG 5.50, BPFSL 7.25, FG 4.50
                            2014-09-19 BPEL 7.25, EG 5.50, BPFSL 7.50, FG 5.00

                            My Progress Log http://www.pegym.com/forums/progress...gress-log.html

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by eworthi View Post
                              human sexuality as God intended it from the beginning
                              There is so so much wrong with this...

                              From the beginning... Homosapiens have been around for about 200,000 years. God has only been around for 6000 years.

                              Sexuality acording to the catholic church is a sure fire way to fuck up your mind...

                              1) Using condoms is worse than spreading AIDS. The catholic church spends millions of dollars in Africa running around telling everyone that they will go to hell if they use Condoms.. That is INSAINE!

                              2) Birth Control is evil... Women should not have power over their reproductive organs.

                              3) Homosexuality is Evil... It should be prayed away.... and nevermind the institutionalization of pedophilia in their priesthood.

                              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTIorwtJbhE {this is funny}

                              4) Masturbation is Evil...... You better not fucking go past the PONR, Thats like commiting mass genocide.

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