Cheated on my wife

[aBone2pick]

I really appreciate everything, guys. and yes, we are very young. Both of us are 23. We've been together about 3 years, and while we've had ample ups and downs, this was definitely the dumbest thing I've ever done.

As to why told her... because cheating is a mistake in the past, but withholding information is a second by second decision in the present. I may not be a good husband, but I'll be damned before I will go through life as a liar.

[DirtyNerd]

Very Sorry to hear about the situation we all make mistakes we are human like BigO said don't keep on her back best thing to do is let her come to terms with it at the end of the day you could of said nothing and she wouldn't even know but your a good guy and you told her that takes a lot of guts to do in my eyes this makes your a good guy

i don't know much about your relationship with your wife but if she is willing to throw it all away over a kiss...
seems a bit much marriage through good times and bad

you have just broke the trust and its going to take time to heal and to get it back this doesn't mean you need to be a slave and have her bring it up all the time and make you feel like a ass

once she forgives you she needs to understand just that SHE FORGIVES YOU and that's the end of it not to bring it up again! and work on the now not the past

i hope everything works out mate and i am sure it will just let her know how much you love her how sorry you are she will come around a relationship is hard work and the day you stop working for it is the day it starts to die!

[SquiddlyDee]

Why the fuck did you tell her

Something to do with morality

[Dontrike]

What you did was certainly not okay, but you did tell her and that is something I would do, which should show her that you feel guilty about it and don't want to hide something like this from her. While what you didn't wasn't exactly right I am a little surprised how angry she is. Sure she shouldn't be happy about it and not wanting to talk to you for a while is understandable, but wanting you out of her life seems a few steps higher in anger than I expected someone to have over it.

Now I am not in a relationship and haven't been married, but it seems a reacting too much to it

[aBone2pick]

Koreans are pretty extreme people. If she actually never talks to me again, then I don't know what I'll do. Our relationship has been pretty strained recently and I've been feeling neglected. That's probably part of why I did what I did, the other part being drunkenness. I have been struggling for months now and she hasn't been very sensitive. I'm not justifying what I did, but I do see how this situation developed.

I am really not sure if she will forgive me. She is generally quite emotional and extreme. She may turn arounr and go drinking tonight and try to get revenge. I really have no idea how this will play out. I just hope she's ok. Even if it comes to a divorce, I love her and care about her wellbeing. I never wanted this.

Ahhh.....

[RoyCropper]

Something to do with morality

Was only a kiss soft lad

[JurassicBone]

WOW, she took that one pretty bad!
Honestly, i could understand being pissed but to quite the relationship entirely and block you is pretty excessive.
No patience at all, i mean if it's that easy for her to let you go, then?

[aBone2pick]

WOW, she took that one pretty bad!
Honestly, i could understand being pissed but to quite the relationship entirely and block you is pretty excessive.
No patience at all, i mean if it's that easy for her to let you go, then?

I guess it was that easy.

[JurassicBone]

i feel for you bone, i hope everything works out and she comes to her senses, but if not then i hope you find happiness somewhere else, and with someone who has patience.
I'm sure she's just really upset and going through the motions, eventually she'll remember she loves you and realizesit's been hard on both of you, she probably just feels betrayed, but once she cools off and see's that your sorry and it really was a one time fuck up, you'll be good.

[Jay1983]

I guess it was that easy.

NO! DON'T GO THINKING LIKE THAT! Instead ask yourself... what would YOU have done, if she did it to you?

I'm not one to pick sides, and I do not what to pick sides, but just think on it...

I wish you well brother, and I have a feeling she'll be back to you. Patience.