I swear, for the life of me, if another women tells me they don't date black men I'm going to dip myself in white paint! I have no problem with people having their standards, but come on, not ALL black men are ghetto, ignorant, arrogant, and disrespectful trash(even though I'm sure some of these women like men like that anyways https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/doh.gif). I've been proactive, for the first time in my young life, to actually go and try to find women to date, but I've been hearing the same old excuses, "I'm not looking for a relationship right now", or "I just got out of a bad break up", B****, I'm not trying to form a relationship with you, I just want to take you out and get to know you better!
Oh, but here's the real kicker. One woman I've known for sometime, and even worked up the nerve to ask her out, told me that she wasn't ready to date or look for a relationship, since she still needed to "find" herself and other BS. I was talking with her friend today, and she told me that the girl I've been asking out doesn't date black men.
Obviously, I was pretty insulted, not necessarily angry, but just confused at the logic behind it all. This woman...no girl, has known me for a few years really, and she knows what kind of person I am; I'm not mad that she wouldn't date me, I'm more mad she would tell such a stupid lie. If you don't like black men, I can understand that, but it would've been fantastic if you would have let me known, instead of letting me think I had any chance at all.
And also, what's the flippin' deal with girls and, "I don't date black guys" bull? I know that my race has been very...idiotic as of late, but that doesn't mean ALL of us are. This just makes it extremely difficult for me to find a woman to date, because all they see is a black guy, they don't see me for me, even if I talk to them respectfully and courteously. They won't even give a guy ONE chance to see how he really is, but I suppose they automatically think all black men are the same, and felt I was just putting up an act in order to get to their goodies. I'm so damn tired or having to deal with the whiplash my untrained counterparts are causing for the "decent" people of our race.
Sure, have your standards, but seriously, don't cross out an entire race just because of stupid people, negative publicity, stereotypes, and racism(Okay, it might NOT be racism, but it kind of feels like it somewhat...). Got to get to know the PERSON, not just look at their skin and brush them off/expect something of them before getting to know them. Sorry for the rant, but damn, does this just grow on my nerves!
Oh, but here's the real kicker. One woman I've known for sometime, and even worked up the nerve to ask her out, told me that she wasn't ready to date or look for a relationship, since she still needed to "find" herself and other BS. I was talking with her friend today, and she told me that the girl I've been asking out doesn't date black men.
Obviously, I was pretty insulted, not necessarily angry, but just confused at the logic behind it all. This woman...no girl, has known me for a few years really, and she knows what kind of person I am; I'm not mad that she wouldn't date me, I'm more mad she would tell such a stupid lie. If you don't like black men, I can understand that, but it would've been fantastic if you would have let me known, instead of letting me think I had any chance at all.
And also, what's the flippin' deal with girls and, "I don't date black guys" bull? I know that my race has been very...idiotic as of late, but that doesn't mean ALL of us are. This just makes it extremely difficult for me to find a woman to date, because all they see is a black guy, they don't see me for me, even if I talk to them respectfully and courteously. They won't even give a guy ONE chance to see how he really is, but I suppose they automatically think all black men are the same, and felt I was just putting up an act in order to get to their goodies. I'm so damn tired or having to deal with the whiplash my untrained counterparts are causing for the "decent" people of our race.
Sure, have your standards, but seriously, don't cross out an entire race just because of stupid people, negative publicity, stereotypes, and racism(Okay, it might NOT be racism, but it kind of feels like it somewhat...). Got to get to know the PERSON, not just look at their skin and brush them off/expect something of them before getting to know them. Sorry for the rant, but damn, does this just grow on my nerves!
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