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  • Has porn screwed our women's mindset on size/sex aswell ?

    We all know what porn can do to a guys psyche. Porn makes you insecure about your size and distorts your mind on sex. I can name plenty of reasons why porn has screwed us guys up. But has porn changed women's view on how sex works and penis size nowadays ? I just looked at a few videos on YouTube on does size matter and all of the videos turned to younger women around my age (19-24). Every video was on a college campus asking women the infamous question about size. Most if not all said yes size is important, some said if you know how to work it then it's ok but the interesting thing I grabbed from these videos were that all of the girls said the average is 6-7 which kills guys self-esteem.

    It's funny because one girl showed what 6 inches is with her fingers and it looked like 4 inches. I brought this up because we all know guys watch porn at a young age. But I'm starting to think thst girls are watching porn aswell and they get a mindset that every penis should be big. I also think girls are getting sluttier (if that's a word lol) and more shallow nowadays. I brought this up because I'm 20 years old in college and if all girls are like this around my age then I'm definitely screwed.

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    I also wonder what influence porn has on the new generations of female ladies.
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    • #3
      To be honest I do agree with you and women cannot really the difference between 6 inch or an 8 inch penis, unless it balls deep inside of them.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by popol5169 View Post
        I also wonder what influence porn has on the new generations of female ladies.
        I think that's why guys Luke myself are so insecure because I think women nowadays are getting their minds distorted on size/sex aswell. I think they got up watching porn just like us guys.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
          It's funny because one girl showed what 6 inches is with her fingers and it looked like 4 inches.
          So what you're seeing is women who think four inches is six inches and six to seven inches is average. That's great! What they say and what they want are two different things. They say they want six inches, but they really want four.
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          • #6
            This is again one of the MANY things SirKhufu and I have talked about recently.. Yes, porn has an enormous impact on what men and women feel is "ideal" or "average" not only for size and girth but many other things as well... Here are things that I've personally seen from porn..

            MEN:

            1. almost ALWAYS hung
            2. can last for hours on end
            3. can penetrate even when flacid
            4. ready at ANY time
            5. can take down the Titanic when they shoot their load

            WOMEN:

            1. almost ALWAYS have big tits
            2. wet for hours on end
            3. so loose that a guy NEEDS to be hung or risk falling in!
            4. most women are extremely vocal/screamers/vulgar during sex
            5. never need any warm up/touch/foreplay other than giving a blowjob
            6. can take a 10" cock in their ass with no lube with ease!

            I am sure there are many others but these are the ones that come to mind without much thought.. Unfortunately, some of these do not only show themselves in porn but TV as well with movies and even commercials... Look at the Haines and Victoria's Secret commercials.. Women are always beautiful with big tits and the men are always packing a huge bulge... We see this on a daily basis and it's been ingrained into us on what we "should" be..

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            • #7
              I hate to tell you this but this is not a new phenomenon. And I don't know that it's porn related so much as lying men (and women) related.

              There's an OLD joke that goes:
              - Why are women so bad at parking?
              Because they think that |----------------------------------| is 8 inches.

              And a corresponding one that goes:
              Two women were talking about the weather report. The weatherman's prediction was for 10 inches of snow. One said "We won't get that much. Anytime a man promises 10 inches, expect 4."

              We also know that things look different from different angles, so sometimes we look at it and think well it doesn't look like 7" to me but that's what he said it was so....

              You also have to take into account that you're talking about college-age girls, in groups. If you've been around enough of them then you know that basically they embellish and talk shit all the time. No different than any group of guys telling tales, and how the girl with "massive tits" was really quite average in reality but hey the guys weren't there and they'll never know...

              Bottom line - no I don't think it's a porn thing, and it's nothing new. The good news is that *most* of those girls will grow up and be perfectly reasonable women and will lose that blind pack mentality. Honestly I think this is one of the reason why some guys prefer cougars.
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              • #8
                I agree with Saoirse that porn has had an adverse effect on both men and women's perceptions about penis size as well as sex in general.

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                I also agree with Q that men themselves have also contributed to women's penis size misconceptions.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by CanIgrowPlease View Post
                  I also think girls are getting sluttier (if that's a word lol) and more shallow nowadays. I brought this up because I'm 20 years old in college and if all girls are like this around my age then I'm definitely screwed.
                  Where I'm from, we don't have the same college campus system as North America, but if the descriptions I've read here are even remotely close to reality, then it seems it's a breeding ground for a culture that is pretty out there. The outside world is mostly full of people who don't act or talk like that, so hang in there (or transfer to a better college).

                  But since you're at a place of learning, why not take a class or two in psychology? You might learn a lot about how this works and why they behave like they do.
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                  • #10
                    I dont think men have contributed to the rise of the size queen.

                    Women hear, say, and see everything about big dicks while growing up. Their family members or friends bragging about big dicks. Watching porn with big dicks. Which has all developed a complex. One, of entitlement and two of expectation of the man.

                    Ive overheard more than one convo from women talking about big dicks. So when a man is on the verge of getting some gushy gushy wet wet he is not going to go into a diatribe about how 5 in x 5 in is the actual avg and get into a debate about penis size. Hes gonna say whatever he needs to in order to taste victory. It is not his fault that a woman would be conditioned to reject him for his avg penor. So, evolution being evolution, he has to find a work around in order to be able and get inside those sugarwalls.

                    Saying that he shouldnt have sex with a woman who would do that, especially in the moment, would be an ignorant and unreasonable statement to say.

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                    • #11
                      I think Qandisa has it exactly right - when women brag about their conquests they're naturally going to say "Oh he had a cock that was thiiiiis big!", the same way a guy might say he pulled a girl with "huge tits", even if she were actually just a C-cup, or go on about how tight her pussy was, or whatever. It's true that porn can mess with people's heads about what's normal or to be expected from sex, but it's still overwhelmingly men who are affected by this. There might be a whole tribe of 20-year-old size queens out there for all I know, but I'm fairly sure the great majority of women are going to be perfectly happy with an average-sized cock as long as they guy it's attached to knows how to use it, is decent looking and not a douchebag.
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by kokprobs View Post
                        Ive overheard more than one convo from women talking about big dicks.
                        If you've actually overheard the conversation then what you've heard is women talking shit with each other. You haven't heard the actual REAL conversations that take place with women one-on-one. They're nothing like the talks that take place that people can overhear.

                        Honestly if I paid attention to the conversations that guys have that can be overheard - the stuff out in public, the stuff in groups - I would have a serious complex by now. And if I were full of self-doubt and insecure I'd probably be really scared about even approaching a guy - because I'm not a svelte size 2 with a huge rack and a round ass and chewing gum for brains. Because that's what every guy wants isn't it? You never hear guys "locker room" talk about how smart a girl is, or how talented she is in non-sex areas, or anything like that. Why is it that guys think that women don't do that? Why do you take everything that a women say to other women, especially when they know guys can overhear, as truth and gospel? They say what they think will be impressive. Some guys are insecure enough to fall for it.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by kokprobs View Post
                          I dont think men have contributed to the rise of the size queen.
                          Sorry but I think that's rubbish. Nearly all commercial porn is made by men, it's mainly aimed at men and it's - still - mainly consumed by men. Most women have no idea who Mandingo and Jack Napier are, and in fact would run away in terror if confronted with a cock anything like that big in real life.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Ivor View Post
                            Sorry but I think that's rubbish. Nearly all commercial porn is made by men, it's mainly aimed at men and it's - still - mainly consumed by men. Most women have no idea who Mandingo and Jack Napier are, and in fact would run away in terror if confronted with a cock anything like that big in real life.
                            WHo makes porn has no bearing on anything. Why would men give other men a complex about dick size? What is there to gain? Porn is the land of excess, doesnt matter who makes the shit. A woman doesnt have to know who fucking mandingo is in order to know that a big cock = good.

                            Your points or kind of invalid.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Qandisa View Post
                              If you've actually overheard the conversation then what you've heard is women talking shit with each other. You haven't heard the actual REAL conversations that take place with women one-on-one. They're nothing like the talks that take place that people can overhear.

                              Honestly if I paid attention to the conversations that guys have that can be overheard - the stuff out in public, the stuff in groups - I would have a serious complex by now. And if I were full of self-doubt and insecure I'd probably be really scared about even approaching a guy - because I'm not a svelte size 2 with a huge rack and a round ass and chewing gum for brains. Because that's what every guy wants isn't it? You never hear guys "locker room" talk about how smart a girl is, or how talented she is in non-sex areas, or anything like that. Why is it that guys think that women don't do that? Why do you take everything that a women say to other women, especially when they know guys can overhear, as truth and gospel? They say what they think will be impressive. Some guys are insecure enough to fall for it.
                              Apples to oranges. A woman can be a certifiable whale and still get laid by an in shape attractive guy, the same is not true for a guy. So there is no reason why you would develop a complex in the first place if you paid attention to your surroundings.

                              However, women will turn down a guy if he doesnt measure up. In the moment, she probably wouldnt, but he would never hear from her again, and if size was discussed before a hookup then he wouldnt even get a glimpse of that vag.

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