Penis Size = Confidence

[SuperSize Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperSize]

For me I have always been afraid and have had low self esteem because of my penis size so I never had the guts to ask anyone out.
In high school, I had chances with many girls that I knew were giving me hints that they were into me but I rejected everyone because of my penis.
All the guys would shoot me with comments about how small my penis was because I am asian. This comment being true, I have nothing else to say back.
Eventually this spread like wildfire throughout the school and even the girls knew so that was when I knew it was pointless to even try asking anybody out.
My third year in high school was the worst, I was in an "emo" state and I even had a few thoughts of suicide - I hated the world and felt that I would never find a girl.

Now my question is this to all you members, did your penis size ever affect your confidence with getting girls? I'd like to hear especially from those who were less fortunate in penis size.

[Gyrta Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gyrta]

I thought of something similar earlier today.
All we who do PE, do we lack selfconfidence?

[SuperSize Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperSize]

I literally have no confidence due to my penis size. My friends are always pushing me to make a move on girls saying that I have good chances but I reject them all.

[Kasper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kasper]

For me I have always been afraid and have had low self esteem because of my penis size so I never had the guts to ask anyone out.
In high school, I had chances with many girls that I knew were giving me hints that they were into me but I rejected everyone because of my penis.
All the guys would shoot me with comments about how small my penis was because I am asian. This comment being true, I have nothing else to say back.
Eventually this spread like wildfire throughout the school and even the girls knew so that was when I knew it was pointless to even try asking anybody out.
My third year in high school was the worst, I was in an "emo" state and I even had a few thoughts of suicide - I hated the world and felt that I would never find a girl.

Now my question is this to all you members, did your penis size ever affect your confidence with getting girls? I'd like to hear especially from those who were less fortunate in penis size.

Hey man, I know exactly what you are talking about. I too was so freaking depressed a period about my size. I would sometimes even cry at night because I didn't have the courage to make a commitment with a girl. And the fact that everybody else I knew were much larger than me, well, made things even worse. I cannot recall ANY guys who were shorter than me. I really thought I was abnormal.

But after I got with my ex most of this changed. She didn't care one iota at all about my size, she liked me just the way I was. Just be confident, and whatever your size may be, it will good enough. In the end, penis size doesn't matter at all. Don't let the size of your penis affect the choices you make in life. Go out there and live your life, your dream girl will come when you least expect it.

[farmerjud Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close farmerjud]

if your cock size is what she is most concerned about-- do you REALLY feel that she is the one you want to spend time with?

[mypgnet Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mypgnet]

Hey man, I know exactly what you are talking about. I too was so freaking depressed a period about my size. I would sometimes even cry at night because I didn't have the courage to make a commitment with a girl. And the fact that everybody else I knew were much larger than me, well, made things even worse. I cannot recall ANY guys who were shorter than me. I really thought I was abnormal.

But after I got with my ex most of this changed. She didn't care one iota at all about my size, she liked me just the way I was. Just be confident, and whatever your size may be, it will good enough. In the end, penis size doesn't matter at all. Don't let the size of your penis affect the choices you make in life. Go out there and live your life, your dream girl will come when you least expect it.

very inspirational,

girls don't just care about how you can please them. And if they do than they're not right for you anyways.

[Gator Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Gator]

girls don't just care about how you can please them. And if they do than they're not right for you anyways.

Um, I think most girls care about being pleased. I know I like pleasing them. Maybe most don't care HOW you do it, but more important, they care that you do, in fact, do it.

I still get in modes where my size irritates me. I try not to let it get in the way of my women-chasing though. Even though I don't have an impressive unit, I've also never had a really foul comment about it either. One girl did tell me that she expected it to be bigger, but she seemed to enjoy it.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Once we begin to realize that each woman is different and responds in a different way, the sooner we start taking risks with women. Most women could care less about the size of our penis. Truly!!! We hear this time and time again here on this forum and elsewhere. Remember that the average size penis is 5'' long, 6" at the most. I'm not sure about girth, but I believe the average girth size is somewhere between 4" and 5". Most of the physical pleasure women feel originates in the clitoris, which is at the entrance to the vagina--just like most men feel the greatest pleasure from stimulating the area around the glans. So obviously a very small penis can still do the job just fine. Often times a finger works just as well--even your pinky. There are so many ways to stimulate a woman!!

You are concerned about the size of your penis, and that's why you're here, and this is good. We will back you up and coach you along the way to a bigger one.

In the meantime, try dating girls just to get to know them. Just because they show interest in you, doesn't mean they want to hop into bed with you. Once you establish a mutual friendship with a girl, and she really cares about you, and you about her, then the size of your penis will make no damned difference.

[shane_syndrome Banned Find all posts View Profile Close shane_syndrome]

ill be the first to admit a small penis sucks to have in high school (especially since its one of the most sexual times of your life) but I would get with girls they would tell everyone and i would still beadle to get with there friends , a girl wont care how big you are as long as your pleasing her she might spread roomers about it but girls will forget it once there with you.

[papaki Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close papaki]

ill be the first to admit a small penis sucks to have in high school (especially since its one of the most sexual times of your life) but I would get with girls they would tell everyone and i would still beadle to get with there friends , a girl wont care how big you are as long as your pleasing her she might spread roomers about it but girls will forget it once there with you.

I think its true...when I was back at 5.5"EL i used to have the same thoughts..I was not feeling good and not have the confidense to flirt with a girl.I could not even handle a errection.It sucked..When I saw some friend playing the relaxed guy and make fun around I was angry.I was not feeling right.
For that reason I have spent a huge amount of time on PE every time remembering my past feelings and my friends attitude.Now at 8" plus I can see my penis same or biger than the actors on the porno movies and every day is better from the past.I have passed my fears ,my less of confidense and other problems I have had just by work..
You should now see how these friends act when I try to make a joke and say when we see a porn movie "what the fuck?why he is a porn actor with such a small cock!!."

what I have to say is that god did not solve my problems just by staying and praying for a bigger cock.Life is yours and so the problems that has.The important thing is to have problems that have a solution!! and be clever to find it out.After this is up to you to cheat life about the problems she gave you...

[MrBig Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrBig]

You can choose anything in the world to be a reason why you should have low confidence. I bet its not just your penis either. Most of the time these reasons are not even real and are just made up in your head. Anyways, learn how to control what you assosicate with your self, develop self awareness. You can be in control of the feelings and thoughts you have. Dick size has almost nothing to do with getting girls... i can guarantee you this.. This world is filled with unlimited girls, and you can have plenty of the kind that you like. You just need to become stronger mentally so you can see past your fears and self doubt.

Here is a link to an article that i found to be inspiring.

How to Be a Man

[SuperSize Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperSize]

Thank you all for your comments and support. Yes, High School was a very abusing environment indeed. With PE, hopefully I will be able to forget that past and look forward.
The only thing that irks me tremendously is the fact that when people think asian, they think small penis. My dream would be when someone tells me that I have a small penis, I would say "oh really?" pull mine out and then tell that person to say that I have a small penis again. The reason why this small penis has affected me so greatly is because of the fact that I am constantly reminded of it all the time and everywhere: people, movies, tv, shows, friends all get in on the small asian penis joke.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

It's fuckin' cruel, Supersize, and I'm sorry people treated you that way. The good thing is that now you are beyond secondary school, where people are constantly bullying others, if it's not about their penis, tits, etc., etc., it's about their nose, their weight, their sexual orientation, blah, blah, blah.

You will only find support and caring here. No one will bully you or criticize you. Now you can focus on gaining more confidence and with desire, knowledge, application, tenacity, and consistency, a longer, thicker cock.

Best of luck.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I never had to worry about girls because they wanted nothing to do with me in high school. I was a dweeb a dork and a nerd all at the same time. Supersize i feel bad you had to go through this. Waht size do you want to be and where are you at now?

[Kasper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kasper]

It's funny how the majority of girls laughs at our obsession with penis size. Measuring penis size and so forth is just something about male ego, it is strange.. I feel like it doesn't really matter whether you are 3 or 7 inches, because in the end our life is all about reproduction right?

If girls cared much more about penis size than they really do, it would be one strange society. Stay away from ONS-girls, find your girl and if she loves you, then you're perfect in her eyes.

But I absolutely believe penis-size affects our confidence, because it's just how we are and think.. PE will anyway help you out man

I also believe that a girl would much more appreciate having sex with a 5 incher that has an EQ of 10, than a drunk guy with a 7 incher with an EQ of 5. In other words, I think a girl should consider herself lucky if she gets with a guy who does PE on a regular basis. heh!