What's up guys?
I'm TJ. A recent college grad and a black man with an average sized penis (6.0" BPL x 4.5). There were many times during my teenage and early college years were I would pull my pants down and get that "Is that it?" look on a girls face. Ever since I started to become sexually active I was reminded that I did not live up to the myth of the massive black dick. Sometimes I think I would be a lot more confident in myself if I weren't black. I mean, my size could be a hell of a lot worse but I've had to deal with this stigma my whole life.
However, no one is perfect and everyone can improve - that's why I am here. I want to have a penis that could make me feel confident and powerful and also one that can pleasure my girlfriend of 2 years even more. I do not think my girlfriend knows how self conscious I am about my dick. In fact, she tells me during sex how much she's being filled up but there are times when I get really insecure about my size. As we're having sex I constantly have negative thoughts running through my head: Is she just faking it? Why can I never make her orgasm without her using her fingers? I wish I can do that position but my dick is too skinny etc etc. Although she never complained about my dick I know an improvement could do wonders for our sex life and also for my personal self esteem.
I would appreciate any and all advice and I am looking forward to reading up on the beginners thread and getting started!
TJ
I'm TJ. A recent college grad and a black man with an average sized penis (6.0" BPL x 4.5). There were many times during my teenage and early college years were I would pull my pants down and get that "Is that it?" look on a girls face. Ever since I started to become sexually active I was reminded that I did not live up to the myth of the massive black dick. Sometimes I think I would be a lot more confident in myself if I weren't black. I mean, my size could be a hell of a lot worse but I've had to deal with this stigma my whole life.
However, no one is perfect and everyone can improve - that's why I am here. I want to have a penis that could make me feel confident and powerful and also one that can pleasure my girlfriend of 2 years even more. I do not think my girlfriend knows how self conscious I am about my dick. In fact, she tells me during sex how much she's being filled up but there are times when I get really insecure about my size. As we're having sex I constantly have negative thoughts running through my head: Is she just faking it? Why can I never make her orgasm without her using her fingers? I wish I can do that position but my dick is too skinny etc etc. Although she never complained about my dick I know an improvement could do wonders for our sex life and also for my personal self esteem.
I would appreciate any and all advice and I am looking forward to reading up on the beginners thread and getting started!
TJ
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