Just a girl wanting to grow

[Dangler]

I am grateful, pleased, and happy that the general membership has welcomed Shiri warmly.This is what makes this Forum so great !
Thanks everyone !

Shiri !

[Shiri]

Very interesting, society definitely has an immense pressure towards men strongly defending their black and white heterosexuality despite the world being full of grey. It is unfortunate violence and prejudice are what are all too often in store for those who do not fit nicely into boxes. The immense pressure to defend ones masculinity is primed for a volatile reaction when a man is confronted with sexual attraction to a woman who also has a penis. Rigid social constructs take time to become malleable and flexible, and I hope for everyone's benefit it happens sooner rather than later.

Yes! The knee-jerk reaction I see a lot is to simply blame straight cis (non-trans) men for violence against LGBT and women. Having experienced both sides I definitely think y'all men are due for a liberation of your own. If men are expected to support equality for women, I think it's only fair that women show appreciation for men who want to open up emotionally and maybe express themselves in a way that isn't currently perceived as heteronormative. If you're intention is to be a strong healthy individual contributing to society you shouldn't have to be afraid of your interests, behavior, kinks, etc. After 2 years I'm still recovering from the mental pressures of having to bottle up my emotions, it's crazy.

https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/peep.gif Ha ha ha, Tamora!! https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/...s/rolleyes.png.. Hi Shiri and welcome to the gym!! https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/wave.gif I will admit the title of the thread read like another "I'm trying to help my guy" to me.. Boy was I surprised once I started reading!!?? https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/boom.gif This has to be a first here at the gym?? And yes I have a thing for pretty Ginger's, lol.. If u couldn't figure out by my Avatar.. Being in that industry u've might have even met her already if based around Cali. region..

This does really strike me as curious thou.. Usually the "ladies" are looking to lessen or transition with surgery (seen a simulation video once, OUCH!!).. I'm not really up on things like this, but to each their own.. The gym helped me come out of shell and talk about things.. Any questions feel free to ask, msg. etc. Your goals are reachable btw.. I know because I started out A LOT smaller and without much hope, but here I am going on 3 years later...

Oh and Tamora.. I don't think "Cuspie" found it out yet!! haha

MG

Hey MG!

Funny thing about that title, I don't know if I was subliminally influenced by the title of this post, or if that was just coincidence. Haha, well I'm pretty proud of my hair. I think, but I'm not sure, I'm one of only 2 or 3 naturally ginger tgirls currently doing porn Is that Elle Alexandra in your avatar? She's like, unf <3, I so look up to her. I haven't met her, I currently live in MA so all my shoots so far I've had to fly. Maybe next year I'll be in Cali, once I finish up my degree. I'd love to work with her though!

I did some research before posting and (I think) it turns out Xiseria beat me to being the first trans girl here by a few months. EDIT: actually I think user alyssatrans82 was first way back in 2011

Less than half of the trans girls I know really want to undergo the surgery. I think since it's becoming more and more ok to be a girl with a penis, that in fact we can be desired for being a little different, has changed the attitude among younger trans women. Really the only thing that occasionally makes me wish I had a vagina instead is not being able to wear bikinis in public

Thanks for the encouragement!

I am grateful, pleased, and happy that the general membership has welcomed Shiri warmly.This is what makes this Forum so great !
Thanks everyone !

https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/welcome.gif Shiri !

Oh my, I'm really getting the royal welcoming Seriously though, y'all are awesome!

[Tamora]

Told ya that Master-Gauge would eventually be sniffing around!

Oh boy! He just loves a ginger minge!

[jockinthebox]

I have a few physiological questions...hope you don't think I'm prying or too forward. If so, just say!

Has your penis and/or testicles atrophied from the estrogen inducing treatments? If so, to what degree? Are you able to achieve an erection? Ejaculate? Do you have "male" orgasms during sex from anal and/or oral stimulation / penetration? Masturbation? What other physiological differences have you detected since you transitioned?

Answers to these sorts of questions are required in order for us to advise you on the necessary steps you'll need to practice for PE.

[Cavalier]

Welcome to the gym Shiri!

The guys have given you a lot of great advice already. I will just add that as a new member and first time poster for the month of June you are eligible to enter to win a Bathmate. Just follow the directions in the link below.

LURKERS & NEW MEMBERS - Post and Win!

[Zman007]

Yes! The knee-jerk reaction I see a lot is to simply blame straight cis (non-trans) men for violence against LGBT and women. Having experienced both sides I definitely think y'all men are due for a liberation of your own. If men are expected to support equality for women, I think it's only fair that women show appreciation for men who want to open up emotionally and maybe express themselves in a way that isn't currently perceived as heteronormative. If you're intention is to be a strong healthy individual contributing to society you shouldn't have to be afraid of your interests, behavior, kinks, etc. After 2 years I'm still recovering from the mental pressures of having to bottle up my emotions, it's crazy.

Exactly, sexuality is many shades of grey and can't be painted as black and white. Men in general are heavily pressured to repress any but hetero-normative thoughts. I know I though heavily about these issues a few months back and questioned who or what am I attracted to and was surprised by the answers. For instance I am attracted to Females, and even physically attracted to females with penises, but I am not attracted to Men with or without penises. For instance a feminine Tgirl is attractive, a tgirl with more masculine features is not. This was shocking to me, it isn't a penis I find unattractive, it is masculine features. I am also attracted to those who are more androgynous, more so towards biological females. I am not attracted towards men. When it came to sex one thing I absolutely am not attracted to is anal sex. I found the entire experiment fascinating to think about and wonder how much more minds will be opened in the coming years now that actual discussions about sexuality is becoming more mainstream.

[Shiri]

Told ya that Master-Gauge would eventually be sniffing around! https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.png

Oh boy! He just loves a ginger minge!

You definitely called it, haha!

I have a few physiological questions...hope you don't think I'm prying or too forwardhttps://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/bad.gif. If so, just say!https://cdn.pegym.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.png

Has your penis and/or testicles atrophied from the estrogen inducing treatments? If so, to what degree? Are you able to achieve an erection? Ejaculate? Do you have "male" orgasms during sex from anal and/or oral stimulation / penetration? Masturbation? What other physiological differences have you detected since you transitioned?

Answers to these sorts of questions are required in order for us to advise you on the necessary steps you'll need to practice for PE.

The side effects of HRT have made it more difficult for me to get an erection, but once I have one I can keep it for pretty long if I stay focused. My testes have shrunk considerably since, and sometimes nothing even comes out when I orgasm. What does come out is clear, more like the consistency of precum.

Funny side story, pre-HRT I came like a racehorse. Knowing that I'd probably lose my fertility with HRT I did sperm banking beforehand. In preparation I edged a couple days prior, and when the lab results came back my sperm count was 5 times higher than average. The doctors were very confused

I have had "male" orgasms from anal, hands free was (and is still) a big kink of mine even before transitioning. They're soooo good! Other than that, yeah, I keep in pretty good practice given my career, haha.

Besides lack of boners and fluids the other changes have been very welcome. I have (small) breasts now, my skin is a lot softer and clearer, my butt has grown, my body hair is a lot thinner, and my face has become feminized quite a bit. Mentally I feel great too!

Welcome to the gym Shiri!

The guys have given you a lot of great advice already. I will just add that as a new member and first time poster for the month of June you are eligible to enter to win a Bathmate. Just follow the directions in the link below.

LURKERS & NEW MEMBERS - Post and Win!

Oh awesome, thanks Cavalier!

Exactly, sexuality is many shades of grey and can't be painted as black and white. Men in general are heavily pressured to repress any but hetero-normative thoughts. I know I though heavily about these issues a few months back and questioned who or what am I attracted to and was surprised by the answers. For instance I am attracted to Females, and even physically attracted to females with penises, but I am not attracted to Men with or without penises. For instance a feminine Tgirl is attractive, a tgirl with more masculine features is not. This was shocking to me, it isn't a penis I find unattractive, it is masculine features. I am also attracted to those who are more androgynous, more so towards biological females. I am not attracted towards men. When it came to sex one thing I absolutely am not attracted to is anal sex. I found the entire experiment fascinating to think about and wonder how much more minds will be opened in the coming years now that actual discussions about sexuality is becoming more mainstream.

Exactly! You're doing a service to yourself by figuring these things out. Repression can lead to terrible things. For example, in the worst-case scenario, what just happened in Orlando.

[Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

The recommendation of focusing on stamina work will be useful for you to counter any losses incurred with the HRT. Have you been given a prognosis for what to expect after some time? How will your functionality change? Do you plan on supplementing with male hormones should you begin to find it too difficult to maintain an erection?

Your perspective should be a welcome and valuable addition!

[Shiri]

Welcome to the forum!

The recommendation of focusing on stamina work will be useful for you to counter any losses incurred with the HRT. Have you been given a prognosis for what to expect after some time? How will your functionality change? Do you plan on supplementing with male hormones should you begin to find it too difficult to maintain an erection?

Your perspective should be a welcome and valuable addition!

Hey Big Al!

From what I understand everyone reacts a little different to HRT over time. There are tgirls that have been on hormones for years with no change to erections or potency, and others which lose all vigor within months of starting. What's fairly clear is that girls who keep in "practice" tend to retain their abilities better.

As for male hormones, oh god no, never again By simply going off of hrt for a few months trans women who have been on HRT for years have regained their potency. If I felt like I needed to I'd reduce my dosage, but I'm greedy and want bigger boobs too xD I have talked to tgirls in the industry, they recommend taking zinc, l-arginine, and maca root, so I've been trying that. I only just started taking them and I'm actually already seeing results.

Thanks for the welcome!

[master-gauge]

You definitely called it, haha!

Sorry... Pretty Ginger's are like "catnip" to me, or kryptonite at times..
U nailed it.. That is Elle.. If u ever do meet her, let know she has a fan here at the gym and were to find me, u know.. In case she wants to chat me up and get my number!! haha..

I'm obviously ignorant on the subject of T-girl porn .. I know there are not even that many real Gingers in the Hetro industry ether.. I think Elle is more "photo shoot" and "girl on girl".. I've never came across her with any dude(s)..

Back to topic; So even thou u are a "lady" u do still find women attractive in the way a hetero male would?? That's my question, since I didn't see it asked yet..

Zman got the dilemma right too for us straight males, whether we admit to it or not.. I know I am definitely straight, females all the way, female form, female beauty, would likely start a family coming across the right one, etc.. At 35 thou that is starting to waver a bit I think anyway..