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New guy, not looking for enlargement but for ED advice.
I'm rapidly approaching my 49th birthday and after a very healthy sex life, I've started to experience difficulties with gaining and maintaining erections.
A bit of history I guess...
I'm an Aussie, throughout my youth and early teens I thought I wasn't terribly well endowed, and my early forays into the sexual arena saw me suffer from no small amount of premature ejaculation... Something I combated with Taoist pelvic floor exercises. I also spent a lot of time learning other ways to please women to make up for my perceived lack of endowment. For many years I really did think my partners were just being nice. I certainly wasn't shy of sharing it around though lol.
Fast forward to university, some 5 years after I'd finished school, having completed an apprenticeship and electrical engineering, I entered a world of arts and humanities and the very liberated students that accompanied it and I saw for the first time myself on video. I realised at that time I didn't have anything to be ashamed of, and things got kinda weird after that.
I spent quite a few years working as an escort.
Fast forward to today, two wives and 6 kids later, {first wife and I are still close friends, second wife passed away) and my current partner and I usually had an extremely good sex life.. Right up until about 8 months ago when I began to have.. Difficulties...
I wasn't shy of approaching my doctor, and having done the research I discussed many options. I've tried the trimix of alprostadtil, phentalomine and papaverive with great results.. But having to inject was a bit of an inconvenience (but the 3-4 hour long hard on was pretty impressive). I now have cialis, 20mg, which I take about once a week, depending on how often my partner comes over (we live apart, she has one young child and I have three). It's not bad, my penis behaves as it should, but at $24 per tablet it's quite expensive!
The biggest thing for me wasn't so much the sexual part, but the lack of the normal response.. When we were naked in bed and I'm feeling the excitement but my penis had no response... That really hit me hard. So regardless if we actually plan on having sex or not, I'll still take it. Simply to keep that 'normal' response happening.
I guess what I'm searching for is some alternative methods I can use to help boost my normal response, and to possibly get back to having our normal sex sessions, without having to hurry it up before it goes down, which often leaves me unsatisfied, as many times my penis has quit before I've ejaculated... She's all good, as she's incredibly orgasmic and shes had a dozen or so orgasms herself.. But having to rely on the cialis to be able to see myself through to completion is a little bothering, for me.
So that's really what I'm searching for.
Hoping I can find some answers...
I'm rapidly approaching my 49th birthday and after a very healthy sex life, I've started to experience difficulties with gaining and maintaining erections.
A bit of history I guess...
I'm an Aussie, throughout my youth and early teens I thought I wasn't terribly well endowed, and my early forays into the sexual arena saw me suffer from no small amount of premature ejaculation... Something I combated with Taoist pelvic floor exercises. I also spent a lot of time learning other ways to please women to make up for my perceived lack of endowment. For many years I really did think my partners were just being nice. I certainly wasn't shy of sharing it around though lol.
Fast forward to university, some 5 years after I'd finished school, having completed an apprenticeship and electrical engineering, I entered a world of arts and humanities and the very liberated students that accompanied it and I saw for the first time myself on video. I realised at that time I didn't have anything to be ashamed of, and things got kinda weird after that.
I spent quite a few years working as an escort.
Fast forward to today, two wives and 6 kids later, {first wife and I are still close friends, second wife passed away) and my current partner and I usually had an extremely good sex life.. Right up until about 8 months ago when I began to have.. Difficulties...
I wasn't shy of approaching my doctor, and having done the research I discussed many options. I've tried the trimix of alprostadtil, phentalomine and papaverive with great results.. But having to inject was a bit of an inconvenience (but the 3-4 hour long hard on was pretty impressive). I now have cialis, 20mg, which I take about once a week, depending on how often my partner comes over (we live apart, she has one young child and I have three). It's not bad, my penis behaves as it should, but at $24 per tablet it's quite expensive!
The biggest thing for me wasn't so much the sexual part, but the lack of the normal response.. When we were naked in bed and I'm feeling the excitement but my penis had no response... That really hit me hard. So regardless if we actually plan on having sex or not, I'll still take it. Simply to keep that 'normal' response happening.
I guess what I'm searching for is some alternative methods I can use to help boost my normal response, and to possibly get back to having our normal sex sessions, without having to hurry it up before it goes down, which often leaves me unsatisfied, as many times my penis has quit before I've ejaculated... She's all good, as she's incredibly orgasmic and shes had a dozen or so orgasms herself.. But having to rely on the cialis to be able to see myself through to completion is a little bothering, for me.
So that's really what I'm searching for.
Hoping I can find some answers...
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but improving my erection quality is certainly something I'm keen to learn more about. Thank you for the links, I'll be reading up on those for sure! 
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