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**domnus** · 01-02-2017

Originally Posted by SwoleTeam6

mate.. you should look into steroids, get huge, high sex drive, longer sex and i guess you could also follow a protocol on here. You'll be sweet

Suggesting steroids is terrible advice SwoleTeam. Steroids can increase likelihood of depression, mood swings and aggression. This is the last thing someone in GDCs position needs.
I hope your suggestion is well intentioned but in my opinion it's just reckless, dangerous advice.
GDC, I think a more responsible approach would be to get to your Dr and have a full check up including hormone levels. You are at an age when many guys start to experience changes in hormone levels. Most guys just don't go to the Dr unless they have problems. 40 is a good age to start going regularly. Getting a good baseline of where your blood levels are at now will allow you and your Dr to monitor these things as you age and appropriate measures can be taken when and only if needed.
If you do these things and find some levels are abnormal, many times you can make changes to lifestyle and diet to have positive effects rather than jumping on the testosterone therapy wagon immediately. It may be the fastest way to improve those levels but that doesn't mean it's the only or safest way.
Hang in there GDC, I hope you can realize your self worth based on other aspects of your life outside of penis size. You have a son who needs a strong, positive influence in his life to become the man you want him to be. Try focusing effort in areas where you can have profound effects, such as your son, your health and yes PE too. Make a list of all the things in your life you are thankful for and look at it daily to remind you why life is good and worth living. Focus on the positives in life and the negatives will no longer consume your thoughts.
I think I speak for many here GDC when I say you have a community here that is pulling (not literally) for you to overcome all of your challenges.

**closed224** · 01-02-2017

Perfectly said Cavalier.

**Cavalier** · 01-02-2017

OK, I'll take the credit for that great post. Sorry domnus.

**GCD888** · 01-02-2017

Yeah I feel my self worth is more than the size of my penis, it's just the world of women don't agree with that....

**Fantastic** · 01-03-2017

Originally Posted by GCD888

Yeah I feel my self worth is more than the size of my penis, it's just the world of women don't agree with that....

Tell me something, have you decided to PE?

**GCD888** · 01-04-2017

Originally Posted by Fantastic

Tell me something, have you decided to PE?

I'm on the fence. ..it just seems I'll be 45 b4 any real results by that time I'll probably be impotent and divorced and alone.

**Party** · 01-04-2017

Originally Posted by GCD888

I'm on the fence. ..it just seems I'll be 45 b4 any real results by that time I'll probably be impotent and divorced and alone.

Well, I didn't start till I was 50, gained an over an inch and the Mrs is in heaven Oh that didn't sound right. She having a great time with me. Oh , and I have ED by the way.

**Big Al** · 01-05-2017

Originally Posted by GCD888

I'm on the fence. ..it just seems I'll be 45 b4 any real results by that time I'll probably be impotent and divorced and alone.

Or you can choose to take a more active part in your destiny and not allow yourself to be affected by factors which are, to a great extent, within your ability to control.

**donkeehote** · 01-05-2017

Originally Posted by GCD888

I'm on the fence. ..it just seems I'll be 45 b4 any real results by that time I'll probably be impotent and divorced and alone.

I started this year at 45. Dick now looks great in a swimsuit. That's saying a lot given that I'm on the heavy side. But it does require a commitment to self improvement. If your attitude is that you expect to get an 8-inch trophy dick that will leave women panting in 6 months then you will probably be disappointed.

You get what you put into it.

**GCD888** · 01-06-2017

Originally Posted by donkeehote

I started this year at 45. Dick now looks great in a swimsuit. That's saying a lot given that I'm on the heavy side. But it does require a commitment to self improvement. If your attitude is that you expect to get an 8-inch trophy dick that will leave women panting in 6 months then you will probably be disappointed.

You get what you put into it.

Appreciate the advice and encouragement...my expectations are not like that...maybe and additional 2 inches in a year would be great....I feel if I don't provide something exciting for my wife she is going to continue to be unfaithful and leave me.