Hello all the way from Portugal

[Big Al]

Absolutely. Already working on the weight loss front too .

Please feel free to keep us posted

[Satisfyer]

Hello and welcome!
You are bigger than me and definitely above average!
I suggest you hold back on the bathtmate and light stretching and only do JP90 for now. Too much and you may injure yourself. Once your 90 days is up, then implement the bathmate.
i also suggest you change your attitude about your relatively average penis. Frustration is bad when doing PE, cut it out! Always go into PE with an objective mindset as your self loathing may cause you to get over zealous and over train. That's bad.
Also make sure you have a balanced pelvic floor and are not kegeling while stimulating or stretching.
Good luck and happy gains!

Are kegels bad thing while stretching? I always do that... Should I change it?

[HansTwilight]

Yes, you are putting a lot of stress on the BC muscle. Continue to do that and you will pull the muscle and then you will be looking at hard flaccid.
A little tension when stretching is ok, but if it would cause the penis to tug (and I am only talking about the strength of the kegel, not whether the penis actually tugs or not) then that is bad. Note that I am talking about a kegel, and not a spasm (quick, light kegel that wouldn't cause the penis to tug)
Refer to the "tug of war" theory in the blue and pink section of the thread in my signature.

[costanza]

Gotta love the way our minds f#ck with us. And by love, I mean HATE.

This guy is an inch over average in length and 2/3 inch over average in girth, and has debilitating anxiety about his size.

Costanza, I realize that facts don't usually help with this sort of thing, but you really need to understand you are blessed naturally.

I entered your numbers into a penis size calculator, and it tells me that in a room of 1000 men, only 28 will be both longer and thicker than you. And you have more total volume than 93.81% of men.

Using a different study, you only 64 in 1000 will be both longer and thicker. And you have more volume than 83.82% of men.

By comparison, this is like being 190 centimeters (6'3") tall and complaining that you're short. Maybe if you are comparing yourself to professional basketball players (porn stars), you might feel a little short, but compared to the average man you are doing BETTER THAN FINE.

Sounds silly, but I recommend losing the fat and doing some PE, then take a video of yourself masturbating. It will give you a better appreciation of your size.

[edit]
Here is the link if you're interested:
https://bl.ocks.org/abovethemean/raw/9395398/

For a split second my rational self kicks in and appreciates the numbers, man, really. But, as you said, true as they might be, cold numbers don't always help with this matter.
Thanks for the link.