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    Hi. I'm Joe. I'm 7" on my best day and decently thick. I've seen many average guys and I know I'm blessed compared to a lot, but then I met the love of my life. Everything was fine until i asked the wrong question. How big was her ex husband of 11 years? Unfortunately the answer was 9 inches and very thick. And the thing is that's what she loves. I can get her off and she swears she is happy but i went into the deepest depression ive ever experienced. It was ridiculous. Im just barely feeling better now. I feel so inadequate. I got a dildo and used it on her and picked it according to what she told me. She said he was bigger. She shuddered with pleasure and was shaking afterwards. This furthered my depression and we fought over my insecurity. I thought about leaving her. It was the only way to end the nightmare. But I stayed. I've never had this problem before and am rather confident to the point of over-confident, admittedly, until this. I need help. Maybe more psychological than anything lmao... that's my story.

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    The statistics for him having a 9in and very thick are very rare. Some guys will do PE on their own, often without reference to something online or perhaps hearing things on the street; pulling, stretching, jelqing, ULIs, cock ring, etc. So unless he was into PE, it's possible for him to have a 9in, but I question the plausibility.

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    • #3
      So, he was bigger than you. I don't know if he really had a nine incher or not, truth is it wouldn't matter if he had twelve. She's with you, she loves you. There's no shortage of evidence that men are more hung up on size than women are. Do some PE if you want more size of your own, it's not difficult. But do not think for a second you are inadequate as you are to her.
      Starting (20 JUL 2012)
      BPFSL: 7.5"
      BPEL: 6.75"
      EG: 4.75"
      Current (8/3/17)
      BPFSL: 8.7"
      BPEL: 8.1"
      MEG: 5.5"
      BEG: 5.5"

      Short Term Goal:
      8.25 BPEL
      5.75 MEG

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      • #4
        I don't ask those questions, because I don't wanna know that her ex was bigger than me. If a girl were to ask me if my ex had a nicer butt than her, I'm gonna ask "why are we talking about her?"

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        • #5
          I know this won't help but...

          Women don't know shit about measuring/visual calculations of pretty much anything. Let alone the size of a cock.

          9" my ass. I'd be rich if I had a dollar for everytime I've heard a girl say they've had MANY that size. It's not possible. A penis that size is so abnormally rare that it's almost regarded as an anomaly at that point. If 8" is in the 1%, 9" is 0.1%

          Just think about that. That literally means that there is a 99.9% chance that a woman will never run into a dick that size.

          Any if he really was.... How the hell does she know it's 9"? Did she measure it? I don't fucking think so.

          I'm always amazed at these kinds of stories, and those kinds of women....
          "I simply am not there..."

          "Sharp like an edge of a Samurai sword, the mental blade cuts through flesh and bone."

          Start BPEL: (7/30/16) : 17.5 cm
          Current BPEL: ? (pending)
          Current NBP: 19cm
          BPFSL : 23.3 cm

          1st major Goal: 21.5 cm BPEL

          Ultimate Goal: 25 cm BPEL

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          • #6
            This is standard stuff she is using this to break your confidence . Standard advice have a think about the relationship.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
              This is standard stuff she is using this to break your confidence . Standard advice have a think about the relationship.
              I get why random chicks do that, this mind game...i really do. But if he says it's the love of his life, and she feels the same way (she truly loves him), what's the point for her to break his confidence? It's like damaging their relationship.


              Now, mightyjolo, even though i'm more pessimistic than optimistic, i really believe that he wasn't 9 inches. Anyway, you're 7 inches dude! It's more than enough to please her good. You shouldn't be worried about anything else. Just life your love life!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by neo_v23 View Post
                I get why random chicks do that, this mind game...i really do. But if he says it's the love of his life, and she feels the same way (she truly loves him), what's the point for her to break his confidence? It's like damaging their relationship.


                Now, mightyjolo, even though i'm more pessimistic than optimistic, i really believe that he wasn't 9 inches. Anyway, you're 7 inches dude! It's more than enough to please her good. You shouldn't be worried about anything else. Just life your love life!
                Who says she feels the same ?

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                • #9
                  Your penis is fine dude. She is with you. If his penis was so amazing, it wasn't amazing enough to keep her from being his ex. Stop torturing yourself. You have a large, working penis. Enjoy it and welcome to the gym!
                  5/15/17 | BPEL: 6.50, MEG: 4.75 BEG: 5.00
                  1/10/18 | BPEL: 7.25, MEG: 5.20 BEG: 6.20

                  "Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy.” ― Anaïs Nin

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                  • #10
                    All these 9" penis stories you hear from women. If these guys had legit 9" penises, your current (his ex) wouldn't have dated him. He'd be doing porn and not messing with your girl. My gf told me ALL her exes were thicker than I am (was ). I'm at 5" girth and that's above average, so I guess she hit the dick lottery. (Over and over). C'mon now...Just enjoy making love to her. Let that crap go.
                    5/15/17 | BPEL: 6.50, MEG: 4.75 BEG: 5.00
                    1/10/18 | BPEL: 7.25, MEG: 5.20 BEG: 6.20

                    "Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy.” ― Anaïs Nin

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                    • #11
                      I don't know why everyone is hung up on this, the point is that the size of the ex doesn't matter. Whether it was big, small, black, white, orange, it doesn't matter. If she's overestimating, that's fine. If she's happy with sex with OP, that's all that counts. Focusing on the ex of the relationship is not mentally healthy, it's best to just let it go.
                      Starting (20 JUL 2012)
                      BPFSL: 7.5"
                      BPEL: 6.75"
                      EG: 4.75"
                      Current (8/3/17)
                      BPFSL: 8.7"
                      BPEL: 8.1"
                      MEG: 5.5"
                      BEG: 5.5"

                      Short Term Goal:
                      8.25 BPEL
                      5.75 MEG

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                      • #12
                        Mine's pink!
                        The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".

                        Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!

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                        • #13
                          A lot of folks have used this sight yo make great gains. You can, too. It works as a multi-pronged attack. Build up your penis, develop mental discipline and help control negative thoughts. Then with results come confidence, and with said confidence I find comes orgasms.
                          03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
                          Thread
                          12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by mightyjolo View Post
                            Hi. I'm Joe. I'm 7" on my best day and decently thick. I've seen many average guys and I know I'm blessed compared to a lot, but then I met the love of my life. Everything was fine until i asked the wrong question. How big was her ex husband of 11 years? Unfortunately the answer was 9 inches and very thick. And the thing is that's what she loves. I can get her off and she swears she is happy but i went into the deepest depression ive ever experienced. It was ridiculous. Im just barely feeling better now. I feel so inadequate. I got a dildo and used it on her and picked it according to what she told me. She said he was bigger. She shuddered with pleasure and was shaking afterwards. This furthered my depression and we fought over my insecurity. I thought about leaving her. It was the only way to end the nightmare. But I stayed. I've never had this problem before and am rather confident to the point of over-confident, admittedly, until this. I need help. Maybe more psychological than anything lmao... that's my story.
                            The likelihood of this guy actually being 9 inches by at least 5.5 inches girth is almost 0%.

                            What is more probable is she is not remembering him correctly. Plus, women tend to overestimate length. Girth women are actually better at remembering. (See UCLA 3D penis model study for penis preferences)

                            Just look at those stats. Out of 1000 guys 0 would be bigger? I'd put up money betting she's lying or not remembering correctly.

                            Source: https://bl.ocks.org/abovethemean/raw/9395398/
                            100%

                            In a room of 1000 guys, 0 should be both longer and girthier than you.

                            Your dick is at most 21.66 in3 (12 fl oz)

                            That's more voluminous than 99.69% of dudes!

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                            • #15
                              She didn't do it to break my confidence. She's a very unique individual and is scientifically minded. She had no idea what she had done. She was a virgin until 25 and he was one of only 3 men she's been with, including me. It was an honest mistake. She isn't used to a whiny self conscious guy. She was with a fucking rock star for 11 years.

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