A life of desperation

[Unix Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Unix]

SO, where do i start....

Well, hello to everyone. I'm a 23 years old guy with a 4.7-5 inch erect penis. I'm 6.3 foot tall and i have a great phisique, exept for my penis of course.

No idea of why i was so unfortunate. I'm a very confident guy in almost everything exept for my sexuality, and here is my problem. I'm still a virgin, never kissed a girl, and my flaccid penis is so small that is impossible to perform a jelq if it isn't almost fully erect. I also always had a very bad phimosis condition, so bad that i actually never seen my gland until 4 weeks ago when i got the courage to show my dick to a urologist and get circumcised few days later.

My parents never gave a damn about me so i have never seen a doctor when i was little, and i was way to embarassed to talk with someone until now.

Now, after the circumcision, my penis seems even smaller, and i also experience a drop in my sexual desire. I have a regular erections during the day but they are weak and my penis get soft in matter of seconds ( and i'm 23!).

I have never had a girlfriend, and just reading about the sexual experiences of others makes me feel so bad that i constantly feel the urge to cry, thinking of how bad my emotional life is.

I also have a terrible porn addiction. Now i experience weak erections even when i watch porn. God damn, i'm so miserable....i hope that quitting porn will help me.

Sorry guys, is just that i have never talked to anyone about this. 23 years without someone who actually cared about me are a very heavy burden on my soul. I have even thought of suicide, then realizing that i still can try to live.

I'm trying to do some kegels and i will measure myself accurately when i will be able to get hard again. Erect size isn't a concern for now. The thing i want the most is the flaccid size, because a woman can't actually grab my flaccid penis...Also i hope that these exercises will improve my erections and my hardness. This is the last stand, i really don't know that else to do.

If you have any suggestion write to me, you are more than welcome I apologise again for the pitifull thread, this is the first time i share this problems with someone

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html

Don't cry my brother. Go to the START HERE button. That is the link I have provided. Read about safety and then pick a beginner routine. The JonPop90 is popular. Definitely quit porn. I was 4.9 BPEL when I started. It is actually average size. So work on positive affirmations and excersizes your penis. Be safe, consistent and persistent and you will reach your goals.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Welcome my friend, glad to have you here. Everybody's journey starts somewhere, let today be the start of yours. First, spend a lot of time reading here on the forums. When you do decide to step in, remember to go slowly and safely. This is a long road and trying to speed up the process usually results in negative things. Slow, methodical, and consistent give better results. I also need your full commitment to this, as it is a slow process, we don't want you to get discouraged. This community exists in part as a support group to help you maintain focus and trudge through the times when you feel it is not working. Give JP90 a try, commit to the full 90 days, start with a modified reduced rep program and build up slowly adding reps over time. You can do this.

In the meantime, find yourself a girl who you can impress with your hard work. Practice on the sex end is half the fun after all.

[Unix Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Unix]

Thank you guys. I will try the JP90 and the antiporn90, i really don't know what else to do :| i highly doubt that such girl exist, some girls even talked to me saying of how they were "lucky" with guys, i just can't think of myself satisfying a woman. Funny thing is that i'm good looking, which makes things ever worse

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

The following may be of assistance to you: The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence

Please make sure to read it in its entirety as there's training information within.

[peckerachu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close peckerachu]

The good thing is that flaccid size can be improved by inches by stretching out the penis ligaments. Erect size is never a guarantee that one can achieve through penis excersize however flaccid size increase by 2-3 inches is a guarantee just from stretching the ligaments alone. This is the exact same procedure the doctor performs when they cut your ligaments off in surgery, a common and mostly safe procedure.

I understand everything feels rotten and the reason you are in your situation is sadly because nature is very cruel. Men have been dealt a very bad hand when it comes to our penises compared to women. Our penises are ricidiculed by women unless they are among the absolute largest so the majority of men will be victims of this sad fact of unfair penis size distribution.

OK EDit* ridiculed by spiteful mean women wanting to hurt men's feelings. And there are far too many of those around, they also can come in any shape or form and when they are angered they show this side to them.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

...Our penises are ricidiculed by women unless they are among the absolute largest so the majority of men will be victims of this sad fact of unfair penis size distribution.

That's quite a generalization.

[closed155 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed155]

Unix mate, welcome. You made me feel sad. Forget about your dick size and just get out there and meet women, lose your virginity, get on with life which means stop fretting that your dick will affect your ability to satisfy a woman. You have physical assets: your height and physique. Stop the porn, and with a living woman in front of you, your weak erection will stand up and salute the flag. It is different with a person than some two dimensional images. Get together with your male friends, they will have connections to others, networks, you'll soon meet lots of luscious women.

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

SO, where do i start....

Well, hello to everyone. I'm a 23 years old guy with a 4.7-5 inch erect penis. I'm 6.3 foot tall and i have a great phisique, exept for my penis of course.

No idea of why i was so unfortunate. I'm a very confident guy in almost everything exept for my sexuality, and here is my problem. I'm still a virgin, never kissed a girl, and my flaccid penis is so small that is impossible to perform a jelq if it isn't almost fully erect. I also always had a very bad phimosis condition, so bad that i actually never seen my gland until 4 weeks ago when i got the courage to show my dick to a urologist and get circumcised few days later.

My parents never gave a damn about me so i have never seen a doctor when i was little, and i was way to embarassed to talk with someone until now.

Now, after the circumcision, my penis seems even smaller, and i also experience a drop in my sexual desire. I have a regular erections during the day but they are weak and my penis get soft in matter of seconds ( and i'm 23!).

I have never had a girlfriend, and just reading about the sexual experiences of others makes me feel so bad that i constantly feel the urge to cry, thinking of how bad my emotional life is.

I also have a terrible porn addiction. Now i experience weak erections even when i watch porn. God damn, i'm so miserable....i hope that quitting porn will help me.

Sorry guys, is just that i have never talked to anyone about this. 23 years without someone who actually cared about me are a very heavy burden on my soul. I have even thought of suicide, then realizing that i still can try to live.

I'm trying to do some kegels and i will measure myself accurately when i will be able to get hard again. Erect size isn't a concern for now. The thing i want the most is the flaccid size, because a woman can't actually grab my flaccid penis...Also i hope that these exercises will improve my erections and my hardness. This is the last stand, i really don't know that else to do.

If you have any suggestion write to me, you are more than welcome I apologise again for the pitifull thread, this is the first time i share this problems with someone

From my understanding the feeling from 5 inches to 6 inches isn't much of anything. At that point it's more the girth. From what I've read 1/2 to 1 inch in length above average doesn't actually feel crazy different.... And you're def within the average length range.

What's your girth? You may actually find based on your girth some women may think you're actually pretty big once you're inside them.

[RTSSS Member Find all posts View Profile Close RTSSS]

There is always room for improvement in someone's life, but you should definitely feel blessed for what you have. There are many many men that would trade their big dick for your height & physical appearance. Also, a lot of women don't give a damn about how big you are, they orgasm from oral, don't like being sore & stretched out, like a tall handsome guy, etc.

[GrowAndShow Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GrowAndShow]

Hey man. That is pretty unfortunate. I'm 6'2 with a 5.5 erect length which pains me, so I know what you're going through in some ways

I'm also new here but have tried before without success. Want my advice? Focus man... Make a plan and stick to it. Even if jelqing is hard, you'll be able to get into a good stretching routine. If there's hope to make some gains, why not give it everything?

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

Thank you guys. I will try the JP90 and the antiporn90, i really don't know what else to do :| i highly doubt that such girl exist, some girls even talked to me saying of how they were "lucky" with guys, i just can't think of myself satisfying a woman. Funny thing is that i'm good looking, which makes things ever worse

Being good looking makes more than the half of the problem solved.
Probably if you was lucky and have a big penis,you wouldn't take man with small penis,seriously.Lets be real my man.If you wouldn't have an small penis,you would never understand the people with small dicks.
And you were really lucky.Good looking,6'3.Womans look up to you.
But yeah,everybody want what they don't have.
Look at me,5'7,ugly and small dick,10,5cm erect lenght.
Who do you think womans will choose or pick up between us?You of course.
Okay,enought of that.Let me tell you something really clear man.Why did you cut your penis?.I had the same problem.All i did was everyday,pull back the foreskin,even if it hurted.And after a months,i could show my entire glans with foreskin fully pulled.
Heres a pic if you want to see.
It could be worse for you,trust me.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...eenshot-6.html

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...enshot-17.html

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Welcome.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Being good looking makes more than the half of the problem solved.
Probably if you was lucky and have a big penis,you wouldn't take man with small penis,seriously.Lets be real my man.If you wouldn't have an small penis,you would never understand the people with small dicks.
And you were really lucky.Good looking,6'3.Womans look up to you.
But yeah,everybody want what they don't have.
Look at me,5'7,ugly and small dick,10,5cm erect lenght.
Who do you think womans will choose or pick up between us?You of course.
Okay,enought of that.Let me tell you something really clear man.Why did you cut your penis?.I had the same problem.All i did was everyday,pull back the foreskin,even if it hurted.And after a months,i could show my entire glans with foreskin fully pulled.
Heres a pic if you want to see.
It could be worse for you,trust me.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...eenshot-6.html

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...enshot-17.html

Pay no attention to the trolls on this sight that always spout negative vibes, that is not what we are about. We are champions of betterment and doing things that make you feel better about yourself. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, I have seen and experienced it, you will as well. Takes time, takes commitment, takes dedication. Or you can wallow in sorrow like sweatpe and accept defeat before you have even started.

[closed155 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed155]

Being good looking makes more than the half of the problem solved.
Probably if you was lucky and have a big penis,you wouldn't take man with small penis,seriously.Lets be real my man.If you wouldn't have an small penis,you would never understand the people with small dicks.
And you were really lucky.Good looking,6'3.Womans look up to you.
But yeah,everybody want what they don't have.
Look at me,5'7,ugly and small dick,10,5cm erect lenght.
Who do you think womans will choose or pick up between us?You of course.
Okay,enought of that.Let me tell you something really clear man.Why did you cut your penis?.I had the same problem.All i did was everyday,pull back the foreskin,even if it hurted.And after a months,i could show my entire glans with foreskin fully pulled.
Heres a pic if you want to see.
It could be worse for you,trust me.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...eenshot-6.html

https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...enshot-17.html

Man oh man, I have to apologize for laughing. Small stature, ugly and a small dick. Looks like you won the trifecta at the track. Every man is ugly to me, you are doing the routine to induce the prick to look more acceptable to you, and there are always lifts for your shoes. William Shatner, Robert Downey jnr even John Wayne when he was alive wore lifts. Be happy sport.