Hullo everyone,
I shall try my best to keep this brief. How did I get here? Having been a lazy git for the most of my short existence - at least when it comes to social life - I never thought I would get a girlfriend. However, a few months back, my life changed... a lot. I met someone, online, but still... it did not take us long to figure out we were a match, and not much longer to move from naughty texts to, ahem, pleasing ourselves together via Skype. Now, our sessions have quickly lead me to one cruel realisation and many questions.
The realisation
- I don't last... at all
While I am ready to finish in basically the first minute or two, she will go for... 30, 45 minutes even? Ok, something is wrong. A few days younger me starts googling around and WOW, there is so much stuff on this on the internet. I should probably mention a major flaw of mine... I am a highly emotional perfectionist. Plunging deeper into the topic, thoughts of depression while reading about all the guys who make women orgasm so much, because this and that, mix with feelings of happiness over the fact that something can be done and ultimately end up creating a huge mess in my head together with all the other things that I have read. Just this "gym" alone... there is so much!
So, what am I getting at here. Super sum up - I want my girlfriend to have the most pleasure she can get from me when we do it, and I am ready invest time as much time needed, but there is simply too much info here - What should I do to last longer? Should I do enlargement exercises? Should I do other exercises too? How frequently, for how long? Where do I start at?
And as a bonus - okay, this will probably sound incredibly naive, but as this is anonymous, so might as well... should I buy some sort of masturbator? Shouldn't I... wait to do the actual thing with my girlfriend (eyy, here comes a even more naive statement - we will have to wait years till we can meet irl, distance between us is too great, but I believe we can do it + she is religious, so no sex before marriage).
I am not brief at all, am I? Alright, stopping here for now. I hope I am taking this to the right forum - ANY adice regarding ANYTHING I have mentioned or anything else really is deeply appreciated.
Right, I could not have drafter a more horrid text. If you have really made it this far, congratulations.
Signing off,
Anonymmm
I shall try my best to keep this brief. How did I get here? Having been a lazy git for the most of my short existence - at least when it comes to social life - I never thought I would get a girlfriend. However, a few months back, my life changed... a lot. I met someone, online, but still... it did not take us long to figure out we were a match, and not much longer to move from naughty texts to, ahem, pleasing ourselves together via Skype. Now, our sessions have quickly lead me to one cruel realisation and many questions.
The realisation
- I don't last... at all
While I am ready to finish in basically the first minute or two, she will go for... 30, 45 minutes even? Ok, something is wrong. A few days younger me starts googling around and WOW, there is so much stuff on this on the internet. I should probably mention a major flaw of mine... I am a highly emotional perfectionist. Plunging deeper into the topic, thoughts of depression while reading about all the guys who make women orgasm so much, because this and that, mix with feelings of happiness over the fact that something can be done and ultimately end up creating a huge mess in my head together with all the other things that I have read. Just this "gym" alone... there is so much!
So, what am I getting at here. Super sum up - I want my girlfriend to have the most pleasure she can get from me when we do it, and I am ready invest time as much time needed, but there is simply too much info here - What should I do to last longer? Should I do enlargement exercises? Should I do other exercises too? How frequently, for how long? Where do I start at?
And as a bonus - okay, this will probably sound incredibly naive, but as this is anonymous, so might as well... should I buy some sort of masturbator? Shouldn't I... wait to do the actual thing with my girlfriend (eyy, here comes a even more naive statement - we will have to wait years till we can meet irl, distance between us is too great, but I believe we can do it + she is religious, so no sex before marriage).
I am not brief at all, am I? Alright, stopping here for now. I hope I am taking this to the right forum - ANY adice regarding ANYTHING I have mentioned or anything else really is deeply appreciated.
Right, I could not have drafter a more horrid text. If you have really made it this far, congratulations.
Signing off,
Anonymmm
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