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    Hello guys,I will be 100% honest with you. English is my second language so forgive me for my mistakes. I've known for this community and PE for about a year and had been committed to practicing PE from April to August 2018. I 've started as 17 cm (6.65") x 13 cm (5.11") and in August my size was 19 cm (7.4") one time that I was 100%, usually it was 18.5 cm(7.28") x 14 cm (5.5"). So I followed advice from book PE book and everything was true in my case and I was so happy.

    I am 22 year old student, and since I've been 13 I am watching porn, I know I am addicted, I've started watching normal stuff but today I only watch some weird shit as normal doesn't do much for me especially when I try to maintain my erection level for exercise. I've tried no fap but when I exercise I get "too hot" and come. SO that doesn't work for me. And since August 2018 I cannot finish my workouts as I cannot handle them without coming.
    And it makes me tired,angry, unmotivated for anything in life and depressed, and it only gets worse. Sometimes I hate my existence when I do it.

    Last 2 months I've been looking everything that could help me without anyone knowing about it. I couldn't stand anyone knowing this. I've tried things from book Multi Orgasmic Man, it is Taoist approach to sexuality, kind of edging and than training yourself not to cum, after 2 months I managed to have orgasm without coming, I felt almost the same but I was turned on after and spend between 7 and 9 hours doing it, I was hard almost entire time and only when I finally decided to come has my desire subsided.

    Since August my size has decreased to barely 16 cm (6.30") x 13 cm (5.11") I swear I am not lying it is possible when you constantly masturbate and come. That even makes me more depressed. Last girl I was with September 2017 was 190 cm (6ft 3") and when we had sex she humiliated me for my size. And tho I think it is not so bad and she was taller and bigger, I would rather kill myself than risk that happening to me ever again.

    I appreciate any help that I can get, I am at such low mental place and everything I do is like a flat spin keeping me there. Thank you so much in advance. Solomon.

  • #2
    Okay so what exactly is the problem? Size, girl, porn or all three?
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      So you had good gains, but stopped doing PE and lost them. Then overworked your penis through masturbation or had bad EQ for some time and lost a little more size. You watch too much porn. The last girl you had sex with was an idiot. All easy things to fix. Instead of no fap... just try no porn (it will take time).

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      • #4
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        • #5
          Welcome to pegym. I know it isn't easy, but you really got to drop the porn. You seem to know that this is an issue. You just gotta kick it though. There's a thread on this site that is specifically dedicated to stop watching porn.

          Check this out: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...anti-porn.html

          Hope that helps. Once you've accomplished no porn, you could consider going back to trying Penis Enlargement exercises and methods again but for now, I'd suggest quitting porn.
          6/23/16 (Start)
          BPEL: 5 13/16" BEG: 5 3/4"
          3/31/22
          BPEL: 7 9/16" MEG: 5 9/16" BEG: 6 3/8"
          Monthly Goal - May 2022:
          BPEL: 7 3/4" MEG: 5 3/4"
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          • #6
            B..b..but you're above average, riiight guys? Seriously though what did that girl tell you? It sounds devastating, sorry you had to go through that.
            Zyxciz
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            Last edited by Zyxciz; 01-22-2019, 03:47 PM.

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            • #7
              New Here, How Porn has taken my size

              I started PE a year ago, my size was 17x13.2 cm after following basic routine for 3 months I was 18.7x13.5 cm, but I always have problem with porn. I am 22 y.o. and watching it since I was 9 so my brain is rewired for this addiction. After that 3 months my addiction only got worse and I could not get hardness level to exercise.

              Long story short I been jerking off for 8 months few times a day and cannot stop, my penis has shrinked and is now
              15x13 cm. I have no confidence in my size and there is no way I will try it with girls (I have EGO I know). So thrust me on this if you blow your load every day your dick will shrink and that is not the worst part.

              You will also have less energy, motivation and your androgene receptors get blocked making you respond more on hormones that are more characteristic of women. I know all about it and tried a lot of things but cannot stop as my work is on pc at home. I would appreciate some advice. Thank you.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                Okay so what exactly is the problem? Size, girl, porn or all three?
                Porn 1st, size 2nd.

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                • #9
                  you can lose size through masturbation with porn? do you like beat it off mad hard or something. Losing size from masterbating shocks me.

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                  • #10
                    You seem to have head issues .

                    You realise you can masturbate without porn right?

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                    • #11
                      You need to start focusing your energy into going to the gym and lifting weights. Instead of wasting your energy on a destructive habit like daily masturbation, use your energy to make a positive impact upon your life. Pour your energy into improving your fitness and developing your physique. This will help you develop discipline and mental strength and wellbeing, which is what you are lacking at the moment. Develop a strong mind, and you will overcome anything.
                      Starting size (Dec 2016):
                      7 inch BPEL
                      4.5 inch Girth

                      Current size:
                      8 inch BPEL
                      5 inch Girth

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                      • #12
                        You might want to look into the AP90:
                        https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...anti-porn.html
                        03/2015 Start <Able to last ~ 2 mins PIV>
                        Thread
                        12/2019 EL: +2.2 MEG: +1 <Able to last 60+ mins PIV>

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                        • #13
                          This is the point I try to get across but no one listens Best to completely quit porn for good and ejaculation try to slowly cut down, it wouldn't have made you smaller but your EQ is being negatively affected. Quit porn and cut down on ejaculation and in some time your EQ will return, also begin a kegel routine and JP90, do some edging without ejaculation during the week and then blow your load on the last session of the week and your EQ will return for sure.

                          P.S. it will be hard to do edging without porn at first but you need to persevere and in time you will be able to stay 100% erect without it.
                          Start: BPEL - 7.008", MEG - 5.197"
                          Current: BPEL - 7.126", MEG - 5.118"

                          Goal: BPEL - 9", MEG - 6.5"

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by tspot180
                            Porn might get you excited/slightly depressed/all in between, but it can't schrink your dick, lol! Too much masturbation causes turtling in my experience, or actually, too little masturbation makes me turtle and in order not to, as an on duty masturbator, I have to do it multiple time daily in order to keep a large flaccid.
                            Look into edging and other masturbation related topics on pegym, people do edging for hours, with no ejaculation and stuff, so it definately isn't as dangerous as your post makes it sound like.
                            I was also having a slight paranoiA I might be watching too much porn, but it was because of READING all this internet BS about PORN ADDICTION, lol!? You can't seriously believe porn can create addiction for real, I've been doing pretty much all available drugs since I was a teen, I personally have a hard time believing in addiction as a general, except the fizical part like heroin and similar stuff creates, but that's rare imo, and it takes quite some time and abuse to develop....sooo, I was basically tripping off of what others thought they experienced watching porn and then wrote about it on the internet. I sincerely hope you find this as good for you, because it's like some advice I tried to give out of my experience , I LOVE PORN, especially super hot pawg blonde big tits pornstars! That should never be a problem imo, how much testosterone(androgen/dopamine/endorphine/you name it) has to do with it, that's overthinking it as far as I am concerned, porn should be for masturbating only, and if you have a "problem" with just watching porn, and not for masturbation, than don't see it as a problem, you like naked women, you're very young, what could be the problem?
                            p.s. it's impossible, you can't loose size watching porn, sorry, not dissing or anything, trying to help out!
                            Not losing size but his EQ will be very poor... Porn is very addictive and justifying porn use just shows how addictive it is.
                            Start: BPEL - 7.008", MEG - 5.197"
                            Current: BPEL - 7.126", MEG - 5.118"

                            Goal: BPEL - 9", MEG - 6.5"

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by djmotion View Post
                              This is the point I try to get across but no one listens Best to completely quit porn for good and ejaculation try to slowly cut down, it wouldn't have made you smaller but your EQ is being negatively affected. Quit porn and cut down on ejaculation and in some time your EQ will return, also begin a kegel routine and JP90, do some edging without ejaculation during the week and then blow your load on the last session of the week and your EQ will return for sure.


                              P.S. it will be hard to do edging without porn at first but you need to persevere and in time you will be able to stay 100% erect without it.
                              Thank you so much man. Porn is real addiction there is no doubt about it, when I blow my load 5 times in a day I get so depressed that I want to kill myself (I understand why addicts kill themselves). It might be that my dick has not shrinked but I haven't had 100% erection in 4 months for sure and I am 22 y.o. When I quit porn for a week I cannot get real hard erection for 10 days (without porn) that how fucked up my brain is. My dick is limp and small for at least 10 days after that things return somewhat normal, I am doing my best to quit if for good this time.

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